{"id":90005,"date":"2020-08-14T08:13:48","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T08:13:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90005"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:38:30","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:38:30","slug":"tornaste-me-numa-mulher-melhor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tornaste-me-numa-mulher-melhor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 engra\u00e7ado, mas tu transformaste-me numa mulher melhor para outra pessoa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos cometemos erros. Mas tu foste um erro como nenhum outro. Eu queria encontrar o bot\u00e3o de apagar e eliminar-te da minha vida como se nunca tivesses existido.<\/p>\n

I became frustrated because I wasn’t able to forget and delete all the things that reminded me of you. Memories of you made my life toxic.<\/p>\n

The problem was, I tried so hard to forget all about you and our relationship that I couldn\u2019t. I became obsessed with it until I finally realized that Tive de olhar para tudo isto de um \u00e2ngulo diferente.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Decidi que tinha de aceitar o meu passado como parte da minha vida, como uma grande li\u00e7\u00e3o dolorosa que tinha de aprender.<\/p>\n

Apercebi-me de que a melhor coisa que podia fazer naquela situa\u00e7\u00e3o era aprender com os meus pr\u00f3prios erros.<\/strong><\/em> That’s the only way I could help myself to finally move on and continue with my life.<\/p>\n

I also realized that it wasn’t only your fault that we fought so much and eventually broke up. I made some mistakes, too, even though I wasn’t aware of them at the time.<\/p>\n

The biggest mistake was letting you treat me the way you did. You always acted like you were above me. You thought you were so much better than me and that\u2019s why you never knew how to appreciate me.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Always treating me like an option and showing yourself off in front of your buddies wasn’t the right way to prove your love. It just let me know that I wasn\u2019t worth your time.<\/p>\n

Num dia serias o homem mais fant\u00e1stico e no outro o mais baixo dos baixos.<\/p>\n

You would try to make things better by saying you loved me but my emotional scars couldn\u2019t be erased with words. <\/strong>Love isn\u2019t in words it\u2019s in actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love can\u2019t be found in unanswered texts, skipped dates, and a lack of effort. Love isn\u2019t in being selfish and cold.<\/p>\n

Veja, nunca fal\u00e1mos<\/a> about the things that bothered us, and that\u2019s where we also went wrong. Poor communication never leads to a rich relationship.<\/p>\n

We kept everything to ourselves. We didn’t even try to deal with things in a healthy way \u2013 by talking about them.<\/p>\n

You said several times how I should give you some space but I never did. It\u2019s not that I didn\u2019t want to, it’s because I was so afraid that you might leave me.<\/p>\n

\"foto<\/p>\n

I also needed some personal space but I was unaware of it at the time. I realize now that we all need it from time to time. A healthy amount of space never harms a relationship \u2013 it can only better it.<\/p>\n

There are so many other things that we should\u2019ve done differently. But I don\u2019t regret anything. I was who I was because I was so blindly in love with you.<\/p>\n

Honestly, I\u2019d never cared for anything or anyone else like I did for you and my actions weren\u2019t always under my control.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

I see now that wasn\u2019t a good thing. Losing control, losing my ground, losing myself wasn\u2019t something positive.<\/p>\n

Significava colocar-te em primeiro lugar enquanto eu me colocava em \u00faltimo. Significava tolerar o teu comportamento pelo prazer que eu teria quando estiv\u00e9ssemos juntos.<\/em><\/p>\n

Significava perdoar o imperdo\u00e1vel em nome do amor. Amor que vinha maioritariamente do meu lado.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o era suposto as coisas serem assim. Mas eu estava demasiado perto e demasiado envolvido para ver claramente a nossa confus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Felizmente, a minha vista ficou limpa de todas as l\u00e1grimas que provocaste.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Deixaste-me li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas sobre o que o amor nunca deve ser. For\u00e7aste-me a descobrir quem eu sou porque estava perdida em ti. Perdi-me na hist\u00f3ria do que poder\u00edamos ser, mas nunca fomos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ao deixar-te ir, senti como se um grande fardo tivesse ca\u00eddo dos meus ombros. Senti-me mais calma do que nunca.<\/strong> <\/em>Prometi a mim pr\u00f3prio que nunca mais permitiria que algu\u00e9m me tratasse assim.<\/p>\n

I set down some new rules for myself. I made a promise that I\u2019ll be kinder and better to myself. That I will be selective about who I date and that I will never be the last one on my own priority list.<\/p>\n

Cresci, evolu\u00ed e tornei-me uma pessoa melhor, gra\u00e7as a ti, \u00e0 tua falta de esfor\u00e7o e ao teu mau tratamento. Quem diria que a dor que me causaste seria o melhor gatilho para um novo e melhorado eu.<\/p>\n

Gra\u00e7as a ti, a minha nova rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muito mais do que alguma vez poderia ter sonhado ter contigo. Entrei nela com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o limpo, uma mente aberta e um sentido de autoestima. Isso fez toda a diferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

A constata\u00e7\u00e3o engra\u00e7ada de tudo isto \u00e9 que, ao mesmo tempo que foste o meu erro<\/a> foste tamb\u00e9m o meu melhor professor.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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We all make mistakes. But you were a mistake like no other. I wanted to find the erase button and wipe you out of my life like you\u2019d never existed. I became frustrated because I wasn’t able to forget and delete all the things that reminded me of you. Memories of you made my life…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90005","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90005","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=90005"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90005\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90005"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=90005"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90005"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}