{"id":90089,"date":"2020-08-14T07:23:14","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T07:23:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90089"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:05:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:05:11","slug":"ele-foi-um-erro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-foi-um-erro\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele foi um erro, mas o resto da tua vida n\u00e3o tem de o ser"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Os erros parecem sempre fatais no in\u00edcio.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Especialmente os erros que t\u00eam a ver com o amor. O amor \u00e9 o que mais magoa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O homem que eu pensava amar mais, o homem a quem dei tudo, acabou por ser apenas um erro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Senti-me tantas vezes derrotada e quase desisti de tudo por causa desse \u00fanico erro.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I actually wanted to spend the rest of my life with him, I\u2019d never felt that way about anybody else.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A realidade era diferente. Tive de a aceitar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Yes, he cost me my time, yes, he cost me my health and my attention. I felt robbed by another person \u2013 and they\u2019re not things you can get back.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>No. I gave priceless things to someone who didn\u2019t even recognize them.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The things we give to our \u201cmistakes\u201d are gone forever once the person is gone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>All we\u2019re left with are consequences and our own battle with the question: <\/b><b><i>Como \u00e9 que eu continuo a partir daqui?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90092 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de t-shirt branca sentada no ch\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-ground-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Agora, ou\u00e7am-me. O amor rom\u00e2ntico \u00e9 uma grande parte da vida. Muitos factores dependem dele. Torna a vida numa experi\u00eancia melhor e mais gratificante.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We feel constant longing if we don\u2019t have it. It\u2019s like the lifelong obsession of almost every human being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No entanto, concentrar-se no que <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">era <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">and what is lacking isn\u2019t going to do anything for us. In fact, it will just make things worse.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Sim, ele foi um erro. E depois? Tens de <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/como-seguir-em-frente-10-formas-eficazes-de-deixar-ir-e-curar\/\"><b>sair da situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Look around you, look AT yourself. You\u2019re a whole badass woman with so many things to offer the world. Don\u2019t hide beneath the regrets from your past.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t spill tears over a man who was never even on your level to begin with.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Don\u2019t spill your tears over someone who clearly didn\u2019t deserve you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Why would you want someone who didn\u2019t recognize your love?<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don\u2019t sell yourself short. Your whole life is waiting for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90093 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-lake.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 perto do lago a olhar para a montanha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-lake-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Your life is not over because of that one mistake. Mistakes are what give dynamic to our life. It\u2019s what keeps us going. It\u2019s what keeps us learning.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if it\u2019s something painful or embarrassing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Escolha aprender, n\u00e3o afundar-se.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s something that had to happen because life has something bigger in store for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Life is a box of possibilities \u2013 you just need to make the first step toward what you want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Pensa no que queres!&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Most importantly \u2013 don\u2019t dwell on the past. You can\u2019t change it; you can\u2019t go back to it.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Deixa-o ir.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Make some space for the new things to come. You can\u2019t change the past but you can choose your future. Make it a good one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respeite a sua vida. Repare nas coisas belas e boas da vida. Seja grato por elas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Agradece tamb\u00e9m os teus erros.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90094 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-beach-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com capuz cinzento na praia durante o p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-beach-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-beach-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-on-beach-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>Sem erros, estar\u00edamos cegos para essa parte crucial de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios. Sem erros, nunca nos aperceber\u00edamos do nosso valor pr\u00f3prio e da nossa for\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Os nossos erros mostram-nos a nossa verdadeira for\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Without mistakes, you wouldn\u2019t have the opportunity to grow and widen your perspective.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Com uma perspetiva maior vem uma oportunidade maior. Aproveite-a!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ele-foi-o-erro-da-minha-vida\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your mistakes don\u2019t define you<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; they redirect you. Don\u2019t resist the flow of life. Hop onto the boat and grab the paddles.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>The path you\u2019re taking because of your mistake is the one that\u2019s meant for you. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you can\u2019t see it now, you\u2019ll see it later.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-amor-da-tua-vida-geralmente-vem-depois-do-erro-da-tua-vida\/\"><b>O verdadeiro amor vir\u00e1 ao teu encontro<\/b><\/a><b> when you\u2019re ready for it. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esteja preparado.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Embrace all the things in life. The good and the bad. Take everything that\u2019s valuable and don\u2019t look back.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Deixa que o teu erro seja o professor que te moldou para seres a pessoa \u00fanica que \u00e9s hoje: uma pessoa mais forte, mais corajosa e mais bonita, sem desculpas <\/b><b><i>tu<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90619 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/He-Was-A-Mistake-But-The-Rest-Of-Your-Life-Doesnt-Have-To-Be-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ele foi um erro, mas o resto da tua vida n\u00e3o tem de o ser\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/He-Was-A-Mistake-But-The-Rest-Of-Your-Life-Doesnt-Have-To-Be-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/He-Was-A-Mistake-But-The-Rest-Of-Your-Life-Doesnt-Have-To-Be-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/He-Was-A-Mistake-But-The-Rest-Of-Your-Life-Doesnt-Have-To-Be-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/He-Was-A-Mistake-But-The-Rest-Of-Your-Life-Doesnt-Have-To-Be-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mistakes always seem fatal at first. Especially mistakes that have to do with love. Love is what hurts the most. The man I thought I loved the most, the man I gave my everything to, ended up being nothing but a mistake in the end. I felt so defeated so many times and almost gave&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":23,"featured_media":90091,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29631],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90089","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-getting-over-him"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29631,"label":"getting over him"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/He-Was-A-Mistake-But-The-Rest-Of-Your-Life-Doesnt-Have-To-Be.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Leah Lee","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/leah\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29631,"name":"getting over him","slug":"getting-over-him","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29631,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","parent":29627,"count":124,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29631,"category_count":124,"category_description":"Getting over someone you still care about is one of the biggest challenges, but nothing is impossible when you know you're not alone, so check out our brilliant advice.","cat_name":"getting over him","category_nicename":"getting-over-him","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90089","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/23"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=90089"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/90089\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/90091"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90089"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=90089"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90089"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}