{"id":9022,"date":"2020-08-24T13:31:57","date_gmt":"2020-08-24T13:31:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9022"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:04:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:04:39","slug":"perseguir-te-nao-vale-a-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/perseguir-te-nao-vale-a-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Se tenho de te perseguir, ent\u00e3o n\u00e3o vales a pena"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">De todas as coisas que quero na vida, a \u00faltima \u00e9 andar atr\u00e1s de ti. <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/on-arete\/why-to-let-things-happen-not-make-things-happen-7f0dd3aecc09\" rel=\"noopener\">I don\u2019t want to force anything<\/a>e muito menos o amor.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If I have to run after you so you notice me, if I have to bend over backwards to show you I\u2019m worthy, then I\u2019m sorry, but it\u2019s you who is not worth it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I\u2019m worthy of your love just the way I am.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Isn\u2019t love about accepting the person just the way she is? I don\u2019t have to pretend to be someone who I\u2019m not just so you\u2019ll like me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I don\u2019t have to disregard everything I want and believe in just so I\u2019ll be a fit for you. If I have to make major changes physically or any other way, then it\u2019s not me who\u2019s wrong, it\u2019s you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>And know that I know I\u2019m enough.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">If you\u2019re unable to see how enough I am, I\u2019m sure there will be someone else who will. I\u2019m perfectly aware of the person I am.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I know how hard I try each day to be a better version of myself. I know that and that\u2019s why I won\u2019t ever settle for a man who doesn\u2019t see me as worthy.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112354\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher atenta sentada ao ar livre na natureza\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/mindful-young-woman-sitting-outdoor-in-nature-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I\u2019ve worked so hard to build myself up, so if you think I\u2019m just gonna give that up so easily, you\u2019re mistaken.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m not just gonna let you ruin my confidence. I\u2019m not gonna allow anyone to treat me less than I deserve. Because I know how much I deserve.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And I don\u2019t deserve to chase anyone. You might not see me as someone special, but I\u2019m sure there will be a man who\u2019ll see me as the greatest treasure of this world.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I know love is full of mutual efforts and that sometimes I will be the one who will need to put in extra effort and then sometimes it will be you who\u2019ll need to try harder and I\u2019m perfectly okay with it.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But what I\u2019m not okay with, and I\u2019ll never be okay with, is <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/christine-hassler\/love-and-relationships_b_3998866.html\" rel=\"noopener\">chasing after someone who isn\u2019t ready to man up<\/a> e escolher uma mulher solteira.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">What I\u2019ll never get used to and what I\u2019ll never accept is that a person needs to prove to someone her worth.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I just can\u2019t allow myself to ever become such a person because if I do, I know that I\u2019d start hating myself at some point.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112355\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"mulher muito preocupada sentada no telhado\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/pretty-worried-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Verdade seja dita, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de complicado no que toca a rela\u00e7\u00f5es. Se me queres, mostra-me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Se queres estar comigo, escolhe-me e fica comigo. Isto \u00e9 algo que deve ser natural.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Porque, querida, se preciso de lutar com unhas e dentes s\u00f3 para que repares em mim, ent\u00e3o nunca esteve destinado a acontecer.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I&#8217;ve learned the hard way what love is not. I&#8217;ve already allowed myself to chase after someone who never planned to be with me to begin with.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And there isn&#8217;t anything uglier in this world than to be a part of an &#8216;almost&#8217; relationship.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Because you know you&#8217;re the only one trying and yet you manage to convince yourself that the truth is different.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Well, I&#8217;ll never deceive myself again. I&#8217;m through seeing people better than they are. I don&#8217;t believe in fairy tales anymore.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112356\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada ao ar livre\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/sad-woman-sitting-outdoor-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">And nobody will convince me that what&#8217;s going on between us is love. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.google.ba\/search?q=Love+should+never+feel+this+hard.&amp;oq=Love+should+never+feel+this+hard.&amp;aqs=chrome..69i57&amp;sourceid=chrome&amp;ie=UTF-8\" rel=\"noopener\">O amor nunca deveria ser t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil.<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>If you want someone in your life, you&#8217;re going to make a spot for them. If you truly love someone, you won&#8217;t ever second-guess yourself. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>You\u2019ll do everything in your power to prove to that person your feelings.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The person you love will know she&#8217;s loved and she won&#8217;t ever need to wonder where she stands in your life because you&#8217;ll tell her loud and clear where she belongs.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Everything else is just a poor excuse for love. And I&#8217;m through with that. I deserve more.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-112352\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-I-Have-To-Chase-You-Then-Youre-Not-Worth-It-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se tenho de te perseguir, ent\u00e3o n\u00e3o vales a pena\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-I-Have-To-Chase-You-Then-Youre-Not-Worth-It-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-I-Have-To-Chase-You-Then-Youre-Not-Worth-It-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-I-Have-To-Chase-You-Then-Youre-Not-Worth-It-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-I-Have-To-Chase-You-Then-Youre-Not-Worth-It-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Out of all things I want in life, the last one is to chase after you. I don\u2019t want to force anything, let alone love. If I have to run after you so you notice me, if I have to bend over backwards to show you I\u2019m worthy, then I\u2019m sorry, but it\u2019s you who&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":112358,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9022","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-I-Have-To-Chase-You-Then-Youre-Not-Worth-It-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9022","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9022"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9022\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112358"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9022"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9022"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9022"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}