{"id":9048,"date":"2020-03-24T14:44:08","date_gmt":"2020-03-24T14:44:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9048"},"modified":"2022-04-01T11:14:05","modified_gmt":"2022-04-01T11:14:05","slug":"nao-me-mereces","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-me-mereces\/","title":{"rendered":"Lamento, mas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Minha querida,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m one foot out the door and I already know I\u2019m going to miss you. I\u2019m going to miss everything good we had and I\u2019m going to miss having your love.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019m even gonna miss loving you, feeling your warmth on a daily basis and I\u2019m going to miss how my hand fits perfectly in yours.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But I made my decision and even if you tried to stop me, I\u2019m not sure you could.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/lauren-jarvis-gibson\/2017\/03\/i-dont-love-you-anymore-and-that-terrifies-me\/\" rel=\"noopener\">It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t love you anymore<\/a>, my emotions were always pure. What makes it even worse is that I think I\u2019ll love you for as long as I am alive.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">You\u2019ll always have a spot in my heart and I think your name will forever remain somewhere in the back of my mind.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70143\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg\" alt=\"jovem triste em pensamentos profundos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-in-deep-thoughts.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-in-deep-thoughts-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-young-woman-in-deep-thoughts-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Unfortunately, I\u2019m not so sure you\u2019ll ever have a spot in my life again.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Despite my feelings, this, what we have, is something I have to end. I just can\u2019t do this anymore. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I can\u2019t be the one to always forgive, I can\u2019t be the only one who\u2019s constantly trying to understand you and to see things from your perspective. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I can\u2019t keep finding excuses for your bad behavior and I can\u2019t be the only one dragging us forward.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I kept trying and trying, and whenever I felt bad about something that happened between us I\u2019d sleep on it and it would be better in the morning.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I\u2019d force myself to believe in whatever excuses you made and I forced myself to believe that things would change, that you\u2019d finally realize what you were doing to me, how much you were hurting me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I believed that at some point you\u2019d think about me and you\u2019d put my needs before the needs of others. But what I hoped for never came to life.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Esforcei-me tanto para ser t\u00e3o bom para ti. Esforcei-me tanto para te fazer feliz, para nos fazer funcionar. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Guardei os meus sentimentos porque n\u00e3o queria sobrecarregar-te com as minhas emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong> Eu queria ser forte por n\u00f3s os dois, mas algures no caminho, cansei-me. Cansei-me de te dar o meu amor e n\u00e3o receber nada em troca.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70146\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-up.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste a olhar para cima\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-up.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-up-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/sad-woman-looking-up-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Perdi-me no amor que sentia por ti e esqueci-me de cuidar de mim. Continuei a dar e tu continuaste a receber tudo sem nunca me dares nada em troca.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">The feeling that you were with me just so you wouldn\u2019t be alone, the feeling that you were with me just so you could have someone, never left me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Everything you did seemed to me like it was programmed. Because whenever I pulled back after you hurt me, you\u2019d reach for me and show me how it felt to be loved by you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Mas eu s\u00f3 tinha esses momentos quando tu sabias que tinhas feito algo de errado. Tu eras seletivo com o teu amor e eu era a \u00fanica que se empenhava desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Maybe that was my mistake. Maybe not holding back but giving you everything I had before you actually deserved it was the thing that made you think I\u2019d do anything for you, that I\u2019d never leave you.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">But there was not much I could do about that, as it\u2019s just the way I am.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">When I love, I love wholeheartedly. But I\u2019m also a girl who can walk away without ever looking back once she realizes that someone doesn\u2019t deserve me.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">E <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elitedaily.com\/dating\/women-leave\" rel=\"noopener\">once you\u2019ve lost me, I\u2019m gone forever.<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Truth be told, saying \u2018no\u2019 to you was always hard for me. I somehow had no issue with saying \u2018yes\u2019 and that\u2019s why my behavior might surprise you now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70149\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem preocupado a olhar para uma mulher triste\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-looking-at-sad-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-looking-at-sad-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/worried-man-looking-at-sad-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>Isto \u00e9 algo que nunca vos mostrei, mas agora acho que chegou a altura de vos mostrar<\/strong><strong> t<\/strong><strong>o outro lado do meu amor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It\u2019s time to show you how much I respect myself. And I respect myself enough to know when <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/talvez-seja-altura-de-desistir-das-citacoes\/\">it\u2019s time to give up<\/a> e ir-se embora.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">It\u2019s time to say \u2018no\u2019 to love and it\u2019s time for me to take care of myself and my heart because you\u2019re obviously not willing to do that.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Decidi direcionar todos os esfor\u00e7os que coloquei em n\u00f3s os dois apenas para mim agora. S\u00f3 me resta o meu orgulho porque queimaste tudo at\u00e9 \u00e0s cinzas.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">We were together but you never made me feel yours, not even from the start. And now it\u2019s time to admit the harsh truth and to walk away.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">I don\u2019t mean as much to you as you mean to me. Staying would mean giving up on myself and I\u2019m sorry, but it\u2019s time for me to stop being so selfless and to start thinking what it is that I need.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada sentada ao lado do seu homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/angry-woman-sitting-next-to-her-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>I need to guard my heart because you\u2019re the man I can\u2019t picture my life without and I\u2019m not half as important to you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nunca me deste metade do amor que eu te dei.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nunca me mostraste o teu apre\u00e7o, nunca tive o tempo que queria de ti, apenas o que achavas que eu merecia, e nunca deste valor \u00e0s coisas que fiz por ti.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Nunca pensaste em como as tuas ac\u00e7\u00f5es me afectariam e nunca paraste por um segundo para olhar para mim e pensar em quem tinhas ao teu lado.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>But I\u2019ve figured out who I have next to me &#8211; a man who doesn\u2019t deserve my time, my love or my efforts anymore.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong> Um homem a quem dei tudo de mim e n\u00e3o recebi nada em troca.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">So, my darling, I\u2019m sorry, but as far as I\u2019m concerned,<a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/shambhavi-sinha\/2017\/10\/i-just-want-to-know-how-our-story-ends\/\" rel=\"noopener\"> a nossa hist\u00f3ria acabou.<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">Boa sorte,<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\">A rapariga que se esfor\u00e7ou tanto<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-70141\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I\u2019m-Sorry-But-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Me-Anymore-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Lamento, mas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o me mereces\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I\u2019m-Sorry-But-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Me-Anymore-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I\u2019m-Sorry-But-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Me-Anymore-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My darling, I\u2019m one foot out the door and I already know I\u2019m going to miss you. I\u2019m going to miss everything good we had and I\u2019m going to miss having your love. I\u2019m even gonna miss loving you, feeling your warmth on a daily basis and I\u2019m going to miss how my hand fits&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":70159,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9048","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/I\u2019m-Sorry-But-You-Don\u2019t-Deserve-Me-Anymore.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":1,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9048","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9048"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9048\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/70159"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9048"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9048"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9048"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}