{"id":90547,"date":"2020-09-14T06:29:03","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T06:29:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90547"},"modified":"2022-07-15T09:49:17","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T09:49:17","slug":"os-homens-que-nos-magoaram-tambem-nos-tornaram-mais-sabios","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/os-homens-que-nos-magoaram-tambem-nos-tornaram-mais-sabios\/","title":{"rendered":"Como todos os homens que nos magoaram tamb\u00e9m nos tornaram mais s\u00e1bias"},"content":{"rendered":"

I know that this may sound a bit ridiculous but I would like to thank all the men that have hurt me. No really, I’m not joking. All girls should do the same.<\/span><\/p>\n

All those men didn’t only betray and disappoint us, they did much more. They taught us so many helpful lessons for our future.<\/span><\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa que devemos agradecer-lhes \u00e9 o facto de nos terem tornado mais fortes.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Partiram-nos o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e, no entanto, continuamos aqui. <\/span>We still believe in love and we still hope that one day it’ll find us, too.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Os nossos ex podem ensinar-nos muitas li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas e as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas tornam-nos realmente mais fortes e mais s\u00e1bios, e aqui est\u00e1 como.<\/span><\/p>\n

Por muito que o ames, deves sempre amar-te mais a ti pr\u00f3pria<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tu. Tu deves ser sempre a prioridade n\u00famero um da tua vida. Antes de te apaixonares por outra pessoa, tens de aprender a apaixonar-te por ti. <\/span>amor por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

Never allow anyone to become more important than you. Some people won’t appreciate you as you think they do. They’ll try to use you and your love.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s better to be alone than with someone who doesn’t respect you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You knew that he didn’t treat you the way he should have, but you chose to stay anyway and believed that he’d change.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ele nem sequer tentou mudar. Fazia-te sofrer mais e mais todos os dias.<\/span><\/p>\n

Isso f\u00ea-lo decidir: <\/span>entre uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica unilateral e a pura felicidade da liberdade, escolheu ser feliz de novo e n\u00e3o olhar para tr\u00e1s.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Don’t ever lose your identity in a relationship<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It’s okay to change some things about yourself, things that your partner isn’t okay with. However, you should never change yourself completely for someone else, no matter how strong your feelings for that person are.<\/span><\/p>\n

You should always be yourself and the right person will accept and love all of you. We all have some flaws and if someone doesn’t accept you the way you are, it’s their loss, not yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Estar consciente do seu valor pr\u00f3prio e nunca se contentar com menos do que merece<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A isto chama-se <\/i><\/b>respeito por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/i><\/b><\/a> Se negligenciarmos constantemente as nossas pr\u00f3prias necessidades numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, estamos a trair-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you have a good relationship with yourself, then no man can ever hurt you. You won’t allow him to do so because you know that you don’t deserve it.  <\/span><\/p>\n

S\u00f3 se pode confiar em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It’s a common misconception that women aren’t strong and independent and they should depend on their partners.<\/span><\/p>\n

A parte triste \u00e9 que a maioria das mulheres acredita mesmo nisso e confia plenamente nos seus companheiros.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Os nossos ex ensinaram-nos que isso \u00e9 completamente errado. A \u00fanica pessoa com quem podemos sempre contar \u00e9 connosco pr\u00f3prios, porque sabemos que, por muito dif\u00edceis que as coisas se tornem, nunca nos iremos embora.<\/span><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 algumas coisas que nunca se devem comprometer<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Fazer compromissos \u00e9 uma parte inegoci\u00e1vel de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a>. However, you should never forget your principles \u2013 that is something you should absolutely not compromise on.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s important to meet both yours and your partner’s needs but that doesn’t mean that you should compromise on some of your core values just to please them. That’s actually how women lose themselves in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tentar provar constantemente o seu valor \u00e9 apenas uma perda de tempo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It’s normal to try to prove yourself and your feelings to your partner at the beginning of your relationship. <\/span><\/p>\n

No entanto, se mesmo ao fim de algum tempo ainda tiver de o fazer constantemente, ent\u00e3o a rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o tem futuro e ambos est\u00e3o apenas a perder tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he can’t see your value and that your feelings are sincere, then he is blind and you should stop trying to prove yourself. He doesn’t deserve it.<\/span><\/p>\n

As rela\u00e7\u00f5es unilaterais s\u00e3o as piores<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Cada rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 composta por duas pessoas e cada uma delas tem de lutar para manter essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

If only one partner makes time and effort to maintain the relationship, then it’s a <\/span>rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve learned from our past relationships that it’s worse than being alone and we’ll never allow ourselves to be in a relationship like that again.<\/span><\/p>\n

It’s not worth the fight if there is no love<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You can try as much as you like to maintain your relationship but if the love has gone, then you’ll understand in time that it’s not worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

Existem muitas raz\u00f5es pelas quais devemos apreciar as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es passadas e estar gratos pelos nossos ex. Todas estas s\u00e3o li\u00e7\u00f5es valiosas que nos tornaram mais s\u00e1bios para as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es futuras.<\/span><\/p>\n

We\u2019ve made some huge mistakes that cost us a broken heart. I think we\u2019ve all made a promise to ourselves that we will never repeat those mistakes again.<\/span><\/p>\n

Compreendemos que somos a \u00fanica constante na nossa vida e fizemos de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios uma prioridade.<\/span><\/p>\n

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