{"id":90826,"date":"2020-08-13T20:48:43","date_gmt":"2020-08-13T20:48:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=90826"},"modified":"2021-11-15T15:41:14","modified_gmt":"2021-11-15T15:41:14","slug":"nao-deixaras-que-ninguem-te-faca-estas-coisas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-deixaras-que-ninguem-te-faca-estas-coisas\/","title":{"rendered":"Se te amas verdadeiramente, n\u00e3o deixar\u00e1s que ningu\u00e9m te fa\u00e7a estas 8 coisas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A maioria das pessoas diz que gosta de si pr\u00f3pria. Infelizmente, <\/span><b><i>that isn&#8217;t true love with most of us<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Damos demasiado de n\u00f3s a algumas pessoas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We change ourselves completely for our loved ones. We lose ourselves when we&#8217;re in a relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>That&#8217;s not how <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/aumentar-o-amor-proprio-e-deixar-de-se-sentir-indesejado\/\"><b><i>o amor-pr\u00f3prio \u00e9<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i> suposto ser<\/i><\/b><b>.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Se realmente <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aprender-a-amarmo-nos-a-nos-proprios\/\">ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/a>Nunca permitirias que algu\u00e9m te dissesse como deves mudar-te completamente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>It&#8217;s not important who goes or stays in your life<\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">; you&#8217;re all that&#8217;s important. You&#8217;re the only constant in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why you have to know your worth. You have to be aware of what you deserve and never settle for any less. In light of that, you should never let anyone do any of the following things to you:<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Faz-nos duvidar de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90830 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de casaco preto ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Self-love comes from self-worth. You should never let anyone make you doubt yourself and tell you that you can&#8217;t do certain things.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Podes conseguir mais do que pensas. Podes fazer tudo o que quiseres. <\/span><b><i>S\u00f3 tem de acreditar em si pr\u00f3prio e nunca permitir que ningu\u00e9m diminua a sua luz.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Desvalorizam-no perante os outros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90831 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench.jpg\" alt=\"quatro pessoas sentadas num banco de bet\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-sitting-on-bench-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I honestly swear that some people really enjoy doing this. And I&#8217;ll never be able to understand why. Do they think they are better than others or what?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Irrelevant. The important thing is that you shouldn&#8217;t allow this from anyone. If you allow one person to undermine you, then someone else will think that you&#8217;re okay with it and do the same to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Utilizar<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90832 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres seguram numa caneta enquanto est\u00e3o sentadas \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/women-holding-pen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all people have a pure and clean heart like you \u2013 you have to be aware of that always. You&#8217;ll meet some people that will only try to use you and your naivety.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s why it\u2019s important never to let your heart control your mind, otherwise you won&#8217;t be able to realize when someone&#8217;s only using you and your feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Maltratar-te<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90833 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar com homem sentado \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mais uma vez, \u00e9 preciso estar atento <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/carta-rapariga-perdeu-o-valor-proprio\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">do seu valor pr\u00f3prio<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Know your value and don&#8217;t settle for any less than you deserve, no matter how much you love someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stand up for yourself. Don&#8217;t try to fool yourself. If someone mistreats you, that means they don&#8217;t respect you. And <\/span><b><i>onde n\u00e3o h\u00e1 respeito, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 verdadeiramente amor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Gozar contigo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90834 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks.jpg\" alt=\"quatro pessoas a beberem bebidas em p\u00e9 ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/people-having-drinks-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A little teasing among friends is normal. But if it&#8217;s only one-sided, then that is not just playful teasing. It&#8217;s bullying and that&#8217;s something you should never allow.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show others that you&#8217;re confident. Put an end to that constant taunting and tell the culprits that you aren&#8217;t okay with it. Tell them that their teasing hurts your feelings and that you won\u2019t put up with it anymore.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Controlar a sua vida<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90835 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a olhar para o mar durante o dia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-sea-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Very often, when people fall in love, they let their significant other control their life. And they don&#8217;t become aware of it until they realize that their relationship has become toxic and unhealthy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Por muito que ames a outra pessoa, deves sempre amar-te mais a ti pr\u00f3prio. <\/i><\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A vida \u00e9 t\u00e3o imprevis\u00edvel e nunca se sabe o que o futuro nos trar\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can never be sure that you&#8217;ve met your soulmate or that you&#8217;ll stay with that person forever. If you let someone control your life other than yourself, you&#8217;ll feel lost if they ever had to break up with you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Afetar as suas decis\u00f5es<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90836 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisola branca no campo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-in-the-field-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We have all different opinions about certain things and we also have all the right to voice them. It\u2019s good to hear out someone\u2019s advice, especially if it&#8217;s coming from those close to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, you are the only person who is in charge of your life and you should be the one to make your own decisions and choices. Don&#8217;t let other people&#8217;s opinions affect your decisions.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Abusar de si<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90837 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher zangada a falar com um homem, de p\u00e9, ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-to-man-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No matter how much you love someone, never \u2013 I repeat \u2013 never let them abuse you in any kind of way.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Physical violence isn&#8217;t the only form of an abusive relationship. There are so many other types and that&#8217;s why sometimes we don\u2019t even realize that we&#8217;re being abused by our significant other.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Ultimatos constantes, comportamento controlador, <\/i><\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-sinais-vermelhos-de-que-o-ciume-dele-nao-e-saudavel\/\"><b><i>ci\u00fame desmedido<\/i><\/b><\/a><b><i>, guilt trips, verbal abuse, constant criticism\u2026<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos estes s\u00e3o sinais de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o doentia e abusiva e de um comportamento que nunca deve ser tolerado se realmente se ama e se preocupa com o seu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-90884 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se te amas verdadeiramente, n\u00e3o deixar\u00e1s que ningu\u00e9m te fa\u00e7a estas 8 coisas\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Most people say that they love themselves. Unfortunately, that isn&#8217;t true love with most of us. We give too much of ourselves to some people. We change ourselves completely for our loved ones. We lose ourselves when we&#8217;re in a relationship. That&#8217;s not how self-love is supposed to be. If you truly love yourself, you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":90829,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-90826","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/If-You-Truly-Love-Yourself-You-Wont-Let-Anyone-Do-These-8-Things-To-You.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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