{"id":9085,"date":"2020-04-14T16:19:47","date_gmt":"2020-04-14T16:19:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9085"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:21:11","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:21:11","slug":"o-gajo-da-carta-nao-deu-amor-merecido","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-gajo-da-carta-nao-deu-amor-merecido\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para o homem que n\u00e3o me deu o amor que eu merecia"},"content":{"rendered":"

'Querido Tu'<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Depois de todos estes anos contigo, compreendo finalmente que te amei mais.<\/p>\n

Eu era a \u00fanica que fazia sempre um esfor\u00e7o extra pela nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, enquanto tu n\u00e3o fazias qualquer esfor\u00e7o para que as coisas funcionassem.<\/p>\n

I always wanted to know why you didn\u2019t love me and why you didn\u2019t think that I was worthy. And I did everything in my power to make you happy.<\/p>\n

And in all that mess I forgot the most important thing\u2014to love and respect myself.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

But it is all over now. I am a priority to myself and I don\u2019t regret all those nasty things that happened to me.<\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for them, I wouldn\u2019t be this strong. And for that, I want to thank you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If it weren\u2019t for you, I would never have learned that loving someone doesn\u2019t mean that they will give their love back to me, or even half of that love.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por me mostrarem que as pessoas de quem gost\u00e1vamos podem transformar-se em completos estranhos algures no caminho.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Thank you for teaching me that love doesn\u2019t just mean spending time with someone and listening to their problems.<\/p>\n

Agora, nunca mais deixarei que outro homem me trate como uma op\u00e7\u00e3o. Se alguma vez me voltar a apaixonar, ser\u00e1 por um homem que morra de medo de me perder.<\/p>\n

E essa ser\u00e1 a \u00fanica regra que respeitarei em rela\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 devem saber que eu era o tipo de mulher que amava loucamente e que s\u00f3 assim sabia funcionar.<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

Amei e perdi, mas fui sempre eu, uma rapariga com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga, enquanto tu jogavas outro tipo de jogo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Your mind games were anything but good. You were the man with the mask all the time. You made a big show for everyone around you but you couldn\u2019t deceive me.<\/p>\n

Conhecia a tua verdadeira cara e mesmo assim decidi ficar contigo.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t have a clue about love. Love is all that you think it isn\u2019t. Love is waking up to the same person every day and choosing that person every single day.<\/p>\n

Love isn\u2019t passive, it is an action, something that lives inside of us and something that has to be nurtured.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

When I think about it, I realize that maybe, just maybe, you weren\u2019t ready for all that love that I had for you.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how to act when someone pampered you and showered you with love.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o foste capaz de me dar o amor de que eu precisava e, por isso, nunca te perdoarei. Nunca recebi o amor que tanto desejava e tu nunca te preocupaste com isso.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Era mais f\u00e1cil virares-me as costas do que esfor\u00e7ares-te por criar uma bela hist\u00f3ria de amor.<\/p>\n

Now that it is all over, I don\u2019t regret anything because I am a much stronger person than I was when I was with you.<\/p>\n

Agora, quero um amor que se limite ao bom senso e n\u00e3o me contentarei enquanto n\u00e3o o conseguir.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de ficar em casa \u00e0 espera que me liguem, escolho-me a mim pr\u00f3pria todos os dias.<\/p>\n

And when you realize how much of a loving and caring person I am one day and you wish to have a second chance with me, please know that I won\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n

I still believe in second chances but I don\u2019t think everyone deserves them-and that includes you!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Uma<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

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\u2018Dear You\u2019 After all these years with you, I now finally understand that I loved you more. I was the one who would always go the extra mile for our relationship while you gave zero effort to make things work. I always wanted to know why you didn\u2019t love me and why you didn\u2019t think…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":77475,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9085","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/A-Letter-To-The-Guy-Who-Didn\u2019t-Give-Me-The-Love-I-Deserve.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9085","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9085"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9085\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/77475"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9085"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9085"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9085"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}