{"id":91484,"date":"2020-09-14T07:59:08","date_gmt":"2020-09-14T07:59:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=91484"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:04:17","slug":"sinais-de-que-esta-mesmo-a-perder-o-seu-tempo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sinais-de-que-esta-mesmo-a-perder-o-seu-tempo\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Sinais de que ele est\u00e1 definitivamente a desperdi\u00e7ar o teu tempo, mesmo que tenhas a certeza de que ele \u00e9 o tal"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 incr\u00edvel como, por vezes, nos apaixonamos e nunca vemos os sinais de que algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 quem pensamos que \u00e9.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, there\u2019s a guy in your life, right?<\/span><\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019re amazing together but there\u2019s this little scared voice in your head telling you that there\u2019s something wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n

So, you silence that voice, and make yourself believe everything is just perfect. But what if it isn\u2019t?<\/span><\/p>\n

Continue a ler para se informar atempadamente e evitar uma grande dece\u00e7\u00e3o mais tarde.<\/span><\/p>\n

1. He doesn\u2019t initiate meaningful conversations<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Um homem que se v\u00ea a passar uma vida inteira consigo estar\u00e1 ansioso por aprender o m\u00e1ximo de coisas sobre si.<\/span><\/p>\n

A intimidade e a liga\u00e7\u00e3o entre duas pessoas que est\u00e3o verdadeiramente apaixonadas \u00e9 um la\u00e7o muito importante que faz com que as pessoas queiram partilhar tudo com essa pessoa especial.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he only talks about random, shallow stuff with you, he doesn\u2019t truly care about discovering who you are deep inside.<\/span><\/p>\n

This goes to show there isn\u2019t true <\/span>intimidade<\/span><\/a> entre voc\u00eas os dois e devem parar de idealizar a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

2. Falta-lhe coer\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You maybe haven\u2019t thought about this much, but pay attention. Does it seem to you that he only calls you up when it\u2019s convenient for him?<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o est\u00e1 disposto a mudar os seus planos por si e a ir ter consigo quando voc\u00ea o quer ver?<\/span><\/p>\n

Infelizmente, isto significa que ele provavelmente <\/span>only calls you when he\u2019s bored<\/span><\/a> e, na verdade, ele tem-no em segundo plano.<\/span><\/p>\n

You shouldn\u2019t put up with a guy who doesn\u2019t cherish you as <\/span>a sua primeira escolha<\/span><\/a> \u2013 he\u2019s wasting your time.<\/span><\/p>\n

3. He doesn\u2019t give you the smallest sign of affection or attention<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t really remember a time he called just to tell you he was thinking of you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everything seems okay when you\u2019re together, but once he\u2019s away, he\u2019s definitely away, with no sign of his existence whatsoever.<\/span><\/p>\n

Of course, everybody has a lot on their plate, but sending a quick message doesn\u2019t really take much time.<\/span><\/p>\n

This probably means that he\u2019s not thinking of you as much as you\u2019re thinking of him, which is a clear sign he\u2019s a time waster and not who you believe him to be.<\/span><\/p>\n

4. He doesn\u2019t ask about your day<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When you get together he\u2019s willing to talk about anything and share details of his day, but he hardly ever asks about yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

Quando gostamos verdadeiramente de algu\u00e9m, interessamo-nos imenso pelo que lhe aconteceu durante o tempo em que estivemos afastados.<\/span><\/p>\n

Not asking how your day went means he\u2019s focused on himself and the fun part of your relationship \u2013 he doesn\u2019t really care much about you, your feelings, habits, or your life in general.<\/span><\/p>\n

You may not notice this at first, but as time passes you\u2019ll start <\/span>sentir-se s\u00f3<\/span><\/a> e abandonado na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n

5. Ele mente-lhe<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You may never have caught him lying about something big, but you\u2019ve noticed he isn\u2019t a stranger to telling quite a few small lies.<\/span><\/p>\n

He feels comfortable lying and you can tell that it\u2019s a part of who he is.<\/span><\/p>\n

Pode pensar que ele s\u00f3 lhe contou essas mentiras para parecer melhor, porque estava nervoso para que o visse da melhor maneira poss\u00edvel.<\/span><\/p>\n

Still, the truth is, if he ever planned anything serious with you, he\u2019d be open about who he is from the very beginning.<\/span><\/p>\n

You can\u2019t base a relationship on lies.<\/span><\/p>\n

6. Nunca repara nos pormenores<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Even though it\u2019s not uncommon for guys not to notice every little detail about us gals, a guy who truly loves you will notice plenty.<\/span><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll at least know your favorite movie, band, food\u2026 what makes you laugh and the things that you don\u2019t like or those that make you mad.<\/span><\/p>\n

When you think about it, most of us know these things about many of our acquaintances, why wouldn\u2019t he know about yours?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, the answer is simple \u2013 it\u2019s because he isn\u2019t interested in getting to know you better or making you happy.<\/span><\/p>\n

7. Nunca pergunta sobre os seus planos para o futuro<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Uma pessoa que o ama preocupa-se com os seus sonhos, objectivos e planos para o futuro.<\/span><\/p>\n

Whether you\u2019re at the beginning of your relationship or you\u2019ve been dating for a while, a guy who wants to be with you will be intrigued by how you want to spend your time in the future.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he envisioned spending his future with you, he\u2019d definitely ask questions about the way you see yours.<\/span><\/p>\n

If he hasn\u2019t, I\u2019m sorry to say that he probably doesn\u2019t see himself spending that much time with you, no matter how you feel about him.<\/span><\/p>\n

 8. Ele nunca faz perguntas sobre as outras pessoas da sua vida<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve never heard him mention your friends or family. You might think that he\u2019s just not that curious and he only cares about what he has with you, but\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n

A guy who\u2019s getting to know you and is willing to commit to you will definitely care about finding out at least a couple of things about your upbringing, the names of your parents, if you have siblings, or what are your friends like.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"8<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s incredible how sometimes we fall in love and never see the signs that someone is just not who we believe them to be. So, there\u2019s a guy in your life, right? You think that you\u2019re amazing together but there\u2019s this little scared voice in your head telling you that there\u2019s something wrong. So, you…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":91489,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91484","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/8-Signs-He\u2019s-Definitely-Wasting-Your-Time-Even-Though-You\u2019re-Pretty-Sure-He\u2019s-The-One.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91484","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91484"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91484\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91489"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91484"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91484"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91484"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}