{"id":91622,"date":"2021-02-01T11:11:52","date_gmt":"2021-02-01T11:11:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=91622"},"modified":"2021-08-30T13:49:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T13:49:43","slug":"parar-de-romantizar-estas-relacoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/parar-de-romantizar-estas-relacoes\/","title":{"rendered":"Pare de romantizar estes 5 padr\u00f5es de relacionamento"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o sei exatamente como aconteceu, mas a verdade \u00e9 que a nossa cultura romantiza algumas coisas sobre o amor que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o boas.<\/p>\n

Existem algumas cren\u00e7as enganadoras sobre as rela\u00e7\u00f5es que muitos jovens acreditam ser verdadeiras, mas que na realidade s\u00e3o bastante t\u00f3xicas.<\/p>\n

Rapazes maus tornam-se bons<\/h2>\n

\"bad<\/p>\n

The next thing you need to stop romanticizing ASAP is bad boys. I\u2019m sure you\u2019re familiar with the concept of beauty and the beast.<\/p>\n

A\u00ed est\u00e1 voc\u00ea, uma rapariga bem educada de uma boa fam\u00edlia, com todos os As correctos desde que se lembra.<\/p>\n

Foi sempre protegida e cuidada.<\/p>\n

And then there\u2019s him, a rebellious, adventurous young guy who\u2019s always on the edge of the law.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 um problema e tu sabes disso. Basicamente, voc\u00eas os dois n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada em comum, exceto esta paix\u00e3o avassaladora que os atrai um para o outro.<\/p>\n

Parece um clich\u00e9? N\u00e3o \u00e9?<\/p>\n

Bem, isso acontece constantemente e \u00e9 muito romantizado na cultura popular.<\/p>\n

However, instead of turning your bad boy into a nice guy, it\u2019s more likely that you\u2019ll end with an abuser, drug addict, or at the very least an immature boy who forever refuses to grow up.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de rom\u00e2ntico nisso, pois n\u00e3o?<\/p>\n

O ci\u00fame \u00e9 algo positivo<\/h2>\n

\"O<\/p>\n

Quando v\u00eas que um homem tem ci\u00fames do teu ex ou do teu amigos homens<\/a>, you think to yourself: \u201cWow, this guy must be so into me.\u201d<\/p>\n

Para ser sincera, lisonjeia-a o facto de ele ter tanto medo de a perder.<\/p>\n

He wants you entirely for himself and doesn\u2019t want to share your attention with anyone.<\/p>\n

Ele deve gostar muito de ti, certo? Bem, errado!<\/p>\n

O ci\u00fame pode ser potencialmente perigoso e n\u00e3o tem nada de rom\u00e2ntico.<\/p>\n

Before you know it, you\u2019ll be trapped in a toxic relationship with a control freak.<\/p>\n

You might enjoy spending all of your time with this guy now, but trust me, as soon as the butterflies are gone, you\u2019ll want out as well.<\/p>\n

Espera s\u00f3 at\u00e9 ele come\u00e7ar a proibir-te de sair, de te vestires como gostas e de sa\u00edres com os teus amigos.<\/p>\n

Instead of being flattered, you\u2019ll feel suffocated and tied down.<\/p>\n

Os homens s\u00e3o naturalmente emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Detesto ser eu a quebrar a sua bolha, mas isto tem de ser dito: O vosso love can\u2019t change a man<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Por isso, em vez de romantizar os homens emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis, corra pela sua vida assim que avistar um.<\/p>\n

De facto, a maior parte dos homens que se deixam levar pela hist\u00f3ria da indisponibilidade emocional s\u00e3o, na verdade, uns aut\u00eanticos idiotas.<\/p>\n

They are jerks who don\u2019t want to commit and consciously refuse to attach to another person.<\/p>\n

Assim, os vossos esfor\u00e7os para abrir os seus cora\u00e7\u00f5es ao amor s\u00e3o praticamente em v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll just end up hurting yourself and they\u2019ll keep on preying on their next victim.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o respeitar os limites<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You know how in the movies, a girl likes a boy, but she herself isn\u2019t aware of her emotions and she especially doesn\u2019t plan on admitting them to him.<\/p>\n

Por isso, ela continua a rejeit\u00e1-lo. No entanto, ele \u00e9 suficientemente persistente para continuar a persegui-la.<\/p>\n

Well, things in real life don\u2019t work out like that. In fact, \u201cno\u201d always means \u201cno.\u201d<\/p>\n

You know what is romantic? Respecting boundaries and other people\u2019s wishes.<\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 suficiente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

While you\u2019re young and restless, you assume that o amor \u00e9 suficiente<\/a>. Pode conquistar tudo e n\u00e3o pode ser conquistado por nada.<\/p>\n

At least, that\u2019s what the fairytales, love novels, and romantic comedies have taught you, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

\u00c9 a \u00fanica coisa que procuramos num homem: o facto de o amarmos e de ele nos amar de volta.<\/p>\n

De acordo com isto, nada mais importa.<\/p>\n

Your differences, the fact that you don\u2019t want the same things, and even your incompatibility are all defeated in front of this all-mighty force.<\/p>\n

No entanto, a verdade \u00e9 diferente.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que h\u00e1 outras coisas, como o respeito, a comunica\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, o compromisso, vis\u00f5es de mundo semelhantes e outras coisas necess\u00e1rias para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o bem sucedida.<\/p>\n

Poder-se-ia pensar que as coisas s\u00e3o sempre f\u00e1ceis quando h\u00e1 amor.<\/p>\n

All pieces of the puzzle magically fall together and if they don\u2019t, it means that you two don\u2019t care for each other enough.<\/p>\n

Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos que, mesmo quando existe amor verdadeiro, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio trabalhar arduamente. \u00c9 preciso construir uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o se se quiser que ela seja saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

O amor \u00e9 apenas uma base.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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