{"id":9167,"date":"2020-03-25T08:50:29","date_gmt":"2020-03-25T08:50:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9167"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:20","slug":"10-truques-psicologicos-para-conseguir-um-compromisso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-truques-psicologicos-para-conseguir-um-compromisso\/","title":{"rendered":"Como fazer com que ele se comprometa e queira apenas voc\u00ea"},"content":{"rendered":"

Given that you’re here, I suppose you’re in a situation where you\u2019ve met a great guy but he doesn\u2019t want to be in a relationship even though he\u2019s regularly been taking you on fun dates and he really seems interested, right?<\/p>\n

He’s been sending you mixed signals for what seems like a decade now and you have no idea what is really going on.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa em que consegue pensar \u00e9 naquela famosa pergunta que incomoda muitas mulheres em todo o mundo: Como fazer com que ele se comprometa?<\/b><\/p>\n

You can really see a future together with him but every time you bring up the idea of you two taking it to the next level (officially being boyfriend and girlfriend), he ends up hiding in his \u2018man cave\u2019 and he doesn\u2019t want to hear anything about it.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de repetir que gosta das coisas como est\u00e3o e que he doesn\u2019t want to commit<\/a> to something serious because he\u2019s not ready yet or because he doesn’t even know whether he’s ready or not and he wants to play safe and preserve your current \u2018pending status\u2019.<\/p>\n

Compreendo como \u00e9 cansativo para si lidar com estes disparates e com a quantidade t\u00f3xica de indecis\u00e3o que paira no ar, quando tudo o que quer \u00e9 que ele abra os olhos e veja o quanto gosta dele e que t\u00eam uma grande rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Tudo o que quer \u00e9 um verdadeiro estatuto de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ou seja, uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o exclusiva em que ele se esforce por responder a todos os seus telefonemas e fa\u00e7a todas aquelas coisas giras e pequenas que os casais fazem um pelo outro, porque isso tem muito valor para si, certo?<\/p>\n

E pode ficar com ele! <\/b>Sim, pode transformar o seu homem com fobia ao compromisso num homem novo, cheio de auto-confian\u00e7a e sem qualquer tipo de problemas de compromisso.<\/p>\n

Trust me, there is a way you can escape from the gray zone you\u2019ve been stuck in for too long.<\/p>\n

Basta seguir estas dicas e truques e conseguir\u00e1 que ele se comprometa consigo num piscar de olhos!<\/p>\n

Deixar de falar de compromissos<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Antes de mais, se quer que um homem se comprometa com uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria, tem de parar de falar sobre isso.<\/p>\n

Why? Because you\u2019re putting pressure on him and no man wants to be pressured or forced to do something, let alone enter a long-term relationship.<\/p>\n

Para ser exato, ningu\u00e9m gosta de press\u00e3o porque a press\u00e3o leva ao stress e quem \u00e9 que quer estar com uma pessoa que o stressa?<\/p>\n

Por isso, falar de compromisso \u00e9 um grande erro se quiser aprender a faz\u00ea-lo comprometer-se sem press\u00e3o e em tempo recorde.<\/p>\n

You see, once you stop talking about it, he will think that you got over the whole idea of commitment, so he\u2019ll ask himself eventually why that is so and he\u2019ll be thinking about commitment even more. And that’s exactly what we need, right?<\/p>\n

Colocar as suas necessidades em primeiro lugar<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t invest too much of yourself in him. Instead of waiting for him to change and finally decide to commit, make plans by yourself and stay a whole day in your room reading or watching movies or having fun with your girls.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a o que o faz feliz e a sua autoestima, o seu valor pr\u00f3prio e a sua paix\u00e3o atingir\u00e3o o seu auge.<\/p>\n

What I’m about to tell you is the greatest relationship advice I’ve ever received: When you stop making him your number one priority, he\u2019ll crave your presence!<\/b><\/p>\n

Ele ver\u00e1 como \u00e9 dedicada a si pr\u00f3pria e querer\u00e1 fazer parte desse mundo tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Mi\u00fada, quando deixares de fazer tudo por ele, ele n\u00e3o s\u00f3 vai querer ter uma boa rela\u00e7\u00e3o contigo, como vai querer casar contigo!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 4 sinais vermelhos precoces de que ele ter\u00e1 problemas de compromisso<\/a><\/p>\n

Mencionar o seu ex (subtilmente)<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t do this a huge amount because you don’t want to be the type of woman who primarily uses jealousy in order to improve her love life and make a guy commit.<\/p>\n

Mas se o fizer de uma forma subtil e decente, o seu homem vai come\u00e7ar a pensar no seu ex e voc\u00ea vai motiv\u00e1-lo a querer ser melhor do que ele!<\/p>\n

You can casually say that your ex has been texting you but that it’s nothing important and that he shouldn’t worry about it.<\/p>\n

Even if you have blocked your ex on all social media, it doesn\u2019t hurt to play a mind game because it\u2019ll make your man wants to be better than your ex!<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll invest more energy into your relationship and he\u2019ll want to be your boyfriend before you get back with your ex, just to show you how much of a better catch he is.<\/p>\n

Manter a dist\u00e2ncia<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Relationship experts claim that when we like someone, it\u2019s really easy to get carried away and constantly be in their presence.<\/p>\n

And that’s exactly what you shouldn’t do if you want to learn how to get him to commit!<\/p>\n

Em vez de passar todo o seu tempo livre com ele ou sonhar em passar todo o seu tempo com ele, precisa de manter uma dist\u00e2ncia saud\u00e1vel dele e deix\u00e1-lo sentir a sua falta como o diabo!<\/p>\n

Deixe-o perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio onde est\u00e1 e com quem. Fa\u00e7a-o comprometer-se, afastando-se.<\/p>\n

Let him think that you’re dating other men or your ex even though you’re lying in your bed watching your favorite TV shows or having the time of your life with your girls.<\/p>\n

Let him walk on eggshells and you’ll get an answer on how to get him to commit to dating you exclusively.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll realize how much he misses you and that he doesn\u2019t want another guy to slip into your life.<\/p>\n

Trust me, he wouldn\u2019t want to miss his chance to win you and make you his official girlfriend!<\/p>\n

Be \u2018the woman\u2019 in his life<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Se isto for feito incorretamente, pode afugent\u00e1-lo de si, por isso ou\u00e7a com aten\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

By being ‘the woman’ in his life, I don\u2019t mean you being constantly in his face and replacing his mother\u2014NO!<\/p>\n

The best way to be ‘the woman’ in his life is by sending him textos de bom dia<\/a> e textos de boa noite<\/a>Talvez at\u00e9 \u00e0 mesma hora todos os dias e todas as noites, para que ele se lembre disso como uma rotina.<\/p>\n

And the next step is ‘aborting the mission’ and stopping doing any of it.<\/p>\n

Stop for a couple of days and see what happens. He\u2019s the one sending the messages every day now, right? It\u2019ll be a part of his routine he doesn\u2019t want to miss.<\/p>\n

Que melhor maneira de o tornar consistente do que estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo, certo?<\/p>\n

Recompensa-o<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Os homens gostam de ser recompensados pelas suas mulheres pelos seus esfor\u00e7os, porque isso f\u00e1-los sentir como verdadeiros homens, capazes de cuidar das suas mulheres e de as fazer felizes.<\/p>\n

Os homens gostam de ser notados e apreciados pelas suas boas ac\u00e7\u00f5es e gestos.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se ele fizer algo querido por si, algo que a fa\u00e7a sentir especial, lembre-se sempre de o recompensar e de lhe mostrar o quanto isso significa para si.<\/p>\n

Remember to acknowledge that his efforts are appreciated and he’ll keep trying hard for you.<\/p>\n

The more you reward him, the more he’ll be invested in making you feel special and loved!<\/p>\n

And don’t you worry. These rewards don\u2019t need to be some expensive gifts; a simple \u2018thank you\u2019 and a kiss on the cheek can do the job.<\/p>\n

You can hug him or make him pancakes, it\u2019s really up to you. Just be invested and consistent!<\/p>\n

Ser simp\u00e1tico para os seus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"jovens<\/p>\n

Um dos maiores atalhos para fazer com que o seu homem se comprometa totalmente consigo \u00e9 dar-se bem com os amigos \u00edntimos dele.<\/p>\n

I’m sure you already know that men put a lot of effort into their friendships and if you don\u2019t get along with his friends, your chances of becoming his girlfriend are not that good or non-existent.<\/p>\n

If his best friends like you, they\u2019ll put in a good word about you and he\u2019ll see how much they want you two to be together.<\/p>\n

He’ll see that they are really fond of you, which will automatically trigger him to consider you becoming his official girlfriend and making you a part of their crew!<\/p>\n

Ser misterioso<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O mist\u00e9rio \u00e9 a maior excita\u00e7\u00e3o e a maior motiva\u00e7\u00e3o para qualquer homem e, de facto, ser misteriosa \u00e9 uma das melhores coisas que pode fazer para que ele se comprometa consigo.<\/p>\n

But remember to keep this only to a certain extent as well because if you become overly mysterious, he might just think that you’re hiding something serious from him, which will make him walk away from you (especially if you ignore him for a serious amount of time).<\/p>\n

So, sometimes when he\u2019s looking at you, take out your phone and smile for no reason, just to make him ask himself what is going on and why you aren\u2019t running around to win him over and make him yours.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a melhor receita para uma dose saud\u00e1vel de mist\u00e9rio que o far\u00e1 pensar em si mais do que nunca.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 12 sinais sensuais de linguagem corporal que a tornam irresist\u00edvel para os homens<\/a><\/p>\n

Torn\u00e1-lo divertido<\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

If you want to learn how to get him to commit to you in no time, then don\u2019t make him think that commitment is something overly serious and that once he enters into a relationship, his life and time spent with his friends will come to an end. Don’t do it.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, fa\u00e7a-o de forma leve e despreocupada e ele apaixonar-se-\u00e1, n\u00e3o s\u00f3 por si, mas por toda a ideia de compromisso.<\/p>\n

Bowling games and little road trips with a lot of laughter will make it all look easy-going and he won\u2019t have a problem with being in a committed relationship with you.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, HE WILL DESIRE to be in a committed relationship with you, not because he needs to but because it’s so much fun and he really, really wants to.<\/p>\n

Continuem o bom trabalho<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Lastly, if he asks you to be his girlfriend and you start a wonderful relationship together, don\u2019t start nagging him or pushing him just days after you\u2019ve achieved your goal.<\/p>\n

Why? Because you\u2019ll make him regret his decision if you start controlling him and if you demand to be constantly around him.<\/p>\n

You need to continue having your own life instead of being too attached to his because otherwise, it\u2019ll just scare him even more than it did before.<\/p>\n

Tem de continuar a dar-lhe espa\u00e7o para si pr\u00f3prio, para as suas noites de conv\u00edvio com muita cerveja e outras actividades que significam muito para ele.<\/p>\n

Por muito que queira fazer algumas coisas, tenha sempre cuidado para n\u00e3o o sobrecarregar com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, porque se o fizer, ele pode voltar \u00e0 sua fase inicial de fobia ao compromisso, que \u00e9 exatamente o que quer evitar que aconte\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Getting him to commit to you is not an easy task. It is a process that demands lots of patience, dedication and understanding, even after he’s finally yours.<\/p>\n

Mas quando apanhar o jeito, tornar-se-\u00e1 uma mestre do compromisso e far\u00e1 com que ele a queira e deseje a si e s\u00f3 a si!<\/p>\n

Just remember to continue subtly reminding him that it was his decision to commit to you and that it was the best decision he’s ever made in his life!<\/p>\n

And don’t forget to enjoy every second of your new journey\u2014called a happy, committed relationship!<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: 5 raz\u00f5es chocantes pelas quais nunca se deve for\u00e7ar um homem a comprometer-se<\/a><\/p>\n

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