{"id":91804,"date":"2020-09-16T22:01:28","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T22:01:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=91804"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:24:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:24:44","slug":"nem-toda-a-gente-vai-gostar-de-si","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nem-toda-a-gente-vai-gostar-de-si\/","title":{"rendered":"Nem toda a gente vai gostar de ti e n\u00e3o faz mal que assim seja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;Not everyone is going to like you. Don&#8217;t let it phase you.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u2013 Unknown<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before I say anything else, I feel like I should be honest with you (that doesn&#8217;t mean the rest of what I say will be a lie).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I humbly and wholeheartedly admit that I&#8217;m one of those individuals who have spent (better said wasted) half of their lives worrying about what other people think and whether they&#8217;re going to like me or not.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Queria ser adorado e apreciado pelos outros, tanto na vida real como no mundo virtual <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociais<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por isso, eu estava literalmente pronto a fazer QUALQUER COISA se isso significasse ganhar a sua aprova\u00e7\u00e3o.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Demorei algum tempo a perceber que, ao fazer tudo isto, me estava a privar de <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and I&#8217;d become a legit <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">agradar \u00e0s pessoas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. I&#8217;d lost touch with my true self and become devoid of personality.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>I used to dance to other people&#8217;s tunes, but now I&#8217;m creating my own.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Falando de um dos mais valiosos <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">li\u00e7\u00f5es de vida<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that no one teaches you at school. I no longer worry about being everyone&#8217;s <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ch\u00e1vena de ch\u00e1<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, being judged, or gossiped about and I&#8217;ve never been happier!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cada um de n\u00f3s pode optar por adotar um destes dois princ\u00edpios fundamentais:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>a)<\/b> <b><i>N\u00e3o me preocupar com o que os outros pensam ou com o facto de gostarem de mim.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>b)<\/b><b><i> Preocupar-se com o que os outros pensam e procurar ativamente a sua aprova\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se me perguntarem, o primeiro princ\u00edpio provou ser o mais eficiente e livre de stress, enquanto o segundo \u00e9 um atalho para acabar num ciclo, diminuindo a sua <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">e n\u00e3o ter o controlo da sua <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vida pr\u00f3pria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A verdade \u00e9 que nem toda a gente vai gostar de si e isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo com que se deva preocupar.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>Como superar o facto de que nem todos v\u00e3o gostar de si&nbsp;<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Questionar porque \u00e9 que precisa que todos gostem de si e o aprovem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91822 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com \u00f3culos a tocar no queixo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-chin-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instagram, Facebook, Twitter e outros <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">redes sociais<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Todas as aplica\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam uma coisa em comum: Queremos ser vistos, seguidos, retweetados, elogiados e por a\u00ed fora. O mesmo acontece na vida real.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Por outras palavras:<\/span><b> We want to be liked because it&#8217;s in our <\/b><b>natureza humana<\/b><b> (and that&#8217;s totally okay).&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">But, sometimes this becomes an addiction and we&#8217;re no longer in control of it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D\u00e1 por si a preocupar-se com os seguintes tipos de coisas? <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why didn&#8217;t he\/she like my <\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">publica\u00e7\u00e3o anterior<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">? Why don&#8217;t they approve of my style \/ ideas \/ habits?&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Em caso afirmativo, deve questionar-se porque \u00e9 que tem tend\u00eancia para o fazer. Esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 normalmente relacionada com uma baixa <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/passos-para-um-amor-proprio-incondicional\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autoestima<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e a falta de aten\u00e7\u00e3o dos pais durante a inf\u00e2ncia.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ao question\u00e1-lo, descobrir\u00e1 qual \u00e9 a verdadeira raz\u00e3o por detr\u00e1s da sua necessidade de ser apreciado e aprovado por todos. \u00c9 claro que, uma vez identificada a raz\u00e3o, \u00e9 preciso come\u00e7ar a trabalhar nela.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Trabalhar para desenvolver uma melhor rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91823 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira a olhar para a montanha enquanto est\u00e1 sentada ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-looking-at-mountain-4-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Em vez de tentar agradar a todos os <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pessoa solteira<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> you come into contact with, you need to start working on winning your own approval. You&#8217;ll do that by <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/aumentar-o-amor-proprio-e-deixar-de-se-sentir-indesejado\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">desenvolver uma melhor rela\u00e7\u00e3o consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean that you should only focus on positive things about yourself, but you need to be realistic. You can make a list of things you like about yourself and things you would like to improve.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s the real definition of who you REALLY are! When you accept yourself for who you are and do your best every day, you won&#8217;t bother with what other people are saying or thinking about you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Think about all those people YOU don&#8217;t like<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91824 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com batom vermelho a segurar uma caneca branca\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-mug-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I really love this one because we seldom think about it, but it rings true to the core! Pause for a moment and think about the people in your life that you don&#8217;t really like.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, think about why you don&#8217;t like them. Perhaps it\u2019s because they have a weird way of expressing themselves, they are rude, loud, or shy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O passo seguinte \u00e9 perguntar a si pr\u00f3prio se isso \u00e9 algo que pode mudar ou algo que o incomoda realmente?&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Penso que a sua resposta \u00e9 a seguinte: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No, this is not something I can influence and it&#8217;s none of my business. I just don&#8217;t like them and that&#8217;s all.&nbsp;<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You see, that&#8217;s the exact same thing someone who doesn&#8217;t like you would say as well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, not everyone is going to like you and vice versa. It&#8217;s a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">simples facto<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> that you need to ACCEPT as it\u2019s the only way to <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ultrapassar isso<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Decifrar a diferen\u00e7a entre cren\u00e7as e a verdade real<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91825 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com cabelo encaracolado perto de uma planta verde\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-plant-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Diferentes <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">tipos de pessoas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> como o caixa do <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">mercearia<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, o seu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">escola secund\u00e1ria<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pares, colegas e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhores amigos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> todos vos v\u00eaem de uma forma diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Todos eles t\u00eam cren\u00e7as sobre as pessoas que os rodeiam e essas cren\u00e7as n\u00e3o s\u00e3o necessariamente a verdade real.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lembro-me da minha <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ensino m\u00e9dio<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8220;adventures&#8221; when I wasn&#8217;t liked by some students, so they would spread lies about me. But, I didn&#8217;t really care about it because my <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amigos \u00edntimos<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> e eu sabia a verdade.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s what you need to do as well! Always decipher the difference between their beliefs and the truth. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As \u00fanicas pessoas que sabem a verdade real s\u00e3o tu e aqueles que te conhecem e <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">amo-te<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> por quem realmente \u00e9s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You shouldn&#8217;t bother with what some irrelevant person in your life thinks about you if you yourself know whether their assumptions are valid or just plain wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Verificar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91839 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com cabelo azul sentada num cadeir\u00e3o\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-armchair-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antes de ficar mal-humorado ou frustrado com alguma coisa, avalie primeiro a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s say that you found a <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">novo emprego<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you&#8217;re trying hard to make a good impression, so you work extra hours and do your best every day.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Passado algum tempo, repara que o seu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">colega de trabalho<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> doesn&#8217;t like you and now you&#8217;re wondering about what you have done wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Antes de tirar conclus\u00f5es precipitadas, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio verificar toda a situa\u00e7\u00e3o de uma perspetiva diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Chances are high that this colleague feels threatened by you because you&#8217;re diligent, organized, and determined and now you&#8217;re making them feel bad about themselves because they are the total opposite of you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tenho vontade de repetir: <\/span><b>Not everyone is going to like you and that&#8217;s totally okay!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/como-deixar-de-procurar-a-validacao-dos-outros\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Como deixar de procurar a valida\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros para come\u00e7ar a prosperar<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re not everyone&#8217;s cup of tea and this doesn&#8217;t mean there&#8217;s something wrong with you<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91840 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente sentada num telhado a olhar para a dist\u00e2ncia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-rooftop-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The biggest mistake that many people make is thinking that not being liked by someone means there&#8217;s something wrong with them.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quer dizer, vivemos no s\u00e9culo XXI e estamos a evoluir todos os dias, o que resulta em mais diversidade, coisas novas, novas personalidades, etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Neither you or I are everyone&#8217;s <\/b><b>ch\u00e1vena de ch\u00e1<\/b><b> e isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo com que nos devamos preocupar.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I&#8217;m an introvert who gets easily drained by social events and you might be an extrovert who likes partying and social gatherings and this doesn&#8217;t make either of us RIGHT or WRONG.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean you should change yourself for the sake of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/namorar-introvertidos-14-coisas-importantes-a-saber-antes-de-namorar-com-eles\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">namorar introvertidos<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou ser apreciado e aceite por mais pessoas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Apenas temos prefer\u00eancias diferentes e tudo o que podemos fazer \u00e9 aceit\u00e1-lo e seguir em frente.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t take it personally<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91852 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher sorridente com casaco de ganga junto a um muro de graffiti\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-near-graffiti-wall-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If there&#8217;s one thing you should really MEMORIZE from this entire article, it is the following: <\/span><b>Don&#8217;t let someone <\/b><b>else&#8217;s<\/b><b> a opini\u00e3o define-o!<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Just because someone doesn&#8217;t approve of your style or choices, you shouldn&#8217;t get offended by it. You can respect their opinion, but never let it define you.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t take things personally because you will waste your life thinking about what other people think instead of doing things you enjoy.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have the right to express your opinion even if it is different from other people&#8217;s and if they don&#8217;t like it, you shouldn&#8217;t take it personally.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s the real beauty of being who you are and nourishing your true self. Respecting other people\u2019s opinions, but not letting them define you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;re allowed to be who you are<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91856 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente de camisa branca ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoor-9-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sim! Tu \u00e9s tu e n\u00e3o existe outro TU em todo o universo. Tens todo o direito de ser quem \u00e9s porque, ao faz\u00ea-lo, trazes diversidade e beleza ao mundo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Agora imagine que cada um de n\u00f3s era igual e tinha medo de ser diferente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It would be really hard to differentiate ourselves or fall in love with someone when we&#8217;re all the same (and we would certainly die of boredom).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Be proud of who you are and don&#8217;t be afraid to express yourself in every aspect of your life. If you&#8217;re a girl and you want to wear tomboy clothes (even though they are considered unfeminine), then do it!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you&#8217;re a guy and you&#8217;re afraid of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/horoscope\/life-horoscope\/zodiac-sign-expresses-emotions\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">exprimir as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> porque \u00e9 considerado feminino, mas mesmo assim f\u00e1-lo! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this is who you are and if you&#8217;re comfortable with it, there&#8217;s absolutely no reason why you shouldn&#8217;t be YOU.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t overthink it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91857 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira com \u00f3culos de sol deitada num carro\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-lying-on-car-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Don&#8217;t let other people&#8217;s potential opinion make you anxious about your own actions. Just remind yourself of the fact that there are also people you don&#8217;t like and it is not a big deal, right?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, why would you overthink if someone else doesn&#8217;t like you? When you put it that way, it sounds really funny. But, we human beings like to complicate things even when we&#8217;re offered an easy way out.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Relaxe, respire fundo e pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio o seguinte: <\/span><b><i>Ser\u00e1 que daqui a cinco anos ainda estarei a preocupar-me com estas mesmas coisas?&nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let me answer this one for you: You won&#8217;t! The truth is, you won&#8217;t remember any of it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right now it might seem like a big deal if someone doesn&#8217;t like you, but after some time you will find yourself laughing at it and thinking about whether you could have used your time more wisely.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><b>8 Things That Happen When You&#8217;re (Finally) Okay With Not Being Liked By Everyone<\/b><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline reset\">Permite-nos ser quem somos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91869 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente de vestido branco a tocar no seu cabelo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-touching-her-hair-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I believe there&#8217;s nothing more powerful in the whole wide world than knowing who you are and being proud of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you&#8217;re basically okay with yourself!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You accept the fact that you&#8217;re an imperfect human being and you don&#8217;t worry about it. Instead, you embrace it. You make an effort to be your <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor eu<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> every day and that&#8217;s all that matters.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re not anxious about expressing yourself in front of other people because you know the only thing that matters is that you believe in what you&#8217;re talking about.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Respeita os outros e defende-se a si pr\u00f3prio e aos seus princ\u00edpios.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Sabe quando dizer n\u00e3o<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91878 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top azul sentada na areia\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-sitting-on-sand-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 um <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">agradar \u00e0s pessoas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. You know when to say no because you&#8217;re being true to yourself. If someone asks you to do something you&#8217;re not okay with, you reject them politely and move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After that, you don&#8217;t spend the rest of the day worrying about whether they still like you or not. Why? Because you don&#8217;t care.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You know that you did the right thing and they have a choice to respect that or to hold grudges. And whatever their choice is, you don&#8217;t take it personally.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Em vez de se esfor\u00e7ar para agradar a todos \u00e0 sua volta, concentra-se no que quer e no que lhe parece certo. \u00c9 a melhor dose de amor-pr\u00f3prio e respeito por si pr\u00f3prio!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-sinais-de-que-e-uma-pessoa-que-gosta-de-agradar-as-pessoas\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8 Signs You&#8217;re A <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Agradar \u00e0s pessoas<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> E como deixar de o ser<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Pode exprimir-se livremente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91880 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar com mulher sentada \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re worried about being liked by everyone, you tend to overthink your words and actions. We all know the drill:&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Hmm&#8230;if I wear this dress to a party, everyone will think that I overdid it. I probably shouldn&#8217;t wear it (because I don&#8217;t want them to think that I&#8217;m trying too hard. Instead, I want them to like me.)<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Well, when you&#8217;re FINALLY okay with not being liked by everyone, you don&#8217;t overthink such things. You think about how you feel in that dress and not about what other people might say.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Your own comfort becomes your number one priority and not other people&#8217;s opinions. You&#8217;re not afraid to express yourself in different ways because you know that&#8217;s who you truly are and you&#8217;re not ashamed of it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Voc\u00ea <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/como-deixar-tudo-para-tras\/\"><b>tornar-se LIVRE<\/b><\/a><b>.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if everyone else around you is partying, you&#8217;re not afraid to read a book instead and say that you&#8217;re not interested in going out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the majority of people are wearing\/doing one thing, you&#8217;re not afraid to rock your own style and do what feels natural to you and not someone else.<\/span><b>&nbsp;<\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ajuda-o a gastar o seu tempo de forma sensata<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91886 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher de top castanho a caminhar perto de \u00e1rvores\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-walking-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aprendi da maneira mais dif\u00edcil que preocupar-me com o que as outras pessoas pensam e com o facto de gostarem de mim \u00e9 uma enorme perda de tempo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are so many inspiring, creative things we can do instead of blindly dancing to other people&#8217;s tunes and &#8220;begging&#8221; them to like us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando nos apercebemos disso, optamos por gastar o nosso tempo de forma sensata. Mimamo-nos com coisas nutritivas <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/dicas-de-cuidados-pessoais\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">autocuidado<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> rituais<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vamos dar um passeio, vamos ao cinema sozinhos.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We dance like there&#8217;s no tomorrow (not caring about what others think) and Taylor Swift agrees with us as well:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;&#8216;Cause the players gonna play, play, play, play, play<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E os odiadores v\u00e3o odiar, odiar, odiar, odiar, odiar<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baby, I&#8217;m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eu sacudo-a, eu sacudo-a<\/span><\/i><i><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quem parte cora\u00e7\u00f5es vai partir, partir, partir, partir, partir, partir<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">E os falsificadores v\u00e3o fingir, fingir, fingir, fingir, fingir<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baby, I&#8217;m just gonna shake, shake, shake, shake, shake<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I shake it off, I shake it off.&#8221;<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (Shake It Off)<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Torna-se uma inspira\u00e7\u00e3o para os outros<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91889 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com batom vermelho e casaco preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-wearing-black-jacket-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esta \u00e9 uma das minhas preferidas. Pense nos seus \u00eddolos e modelos (se tiver um ou alguns) e pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio o que \u00e9 que gosta neles?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Provavelmente, fazem as coisas de forma diferente dos outros, t\u00eam um estilo diferente, uma opini\u00e3o diferente, etc., certo?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And that&#8217;s the reason why you like them!&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>You see, when you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you become an inspiration to others because you&#8217;re not afraid to be who you are.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Let&#8217;s say that you wear a different, non-standard outfit to school or work one day. Some people will see you as a weirdo, while others will be inspired by your courage.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That&#8217;s exactly what happens with your role models as well. Some people like them and are inspired by them, while others don&#8217;t and that&#8217;s totally okay.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The truth is, not everyone is going to like you and by being who you are, you\u2019ve got nothing to lose because you become an inspiration to others.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Dar o seu melhor (em vez de se preocupar) passa a ser o seu lema<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91891 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de top vermelho a utilizar um computador port\u00e1til enquanto est\u00e1 sentada \u00e0 mesa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-using-laptop-5-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Esfor\u00e7a-se por ser o seu <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor eu<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> hoje e todos os dias, porque dar o seu melhor torna-se o seu lema de vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You no longer worry whether someone will judge your choices, habits or ideas because you know that you&#8217;re being the <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">melhor para si<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pode ser.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quando se sabe isso, protege-se de qualquer potencial negatividade.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You don&#8217;t have a problem acknowledging your flaws and quirks, admitting when you&#8217;re wrong, correcting your mistakes, or apologizing.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You&#8217;re open to constant growth and that&#8217;s the main thing you&#8217;re focused on. You see every mistake as a <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/6-licoes-de-vida-importantes-que-a-dor-quebra\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and you don&#8217;t blame yourself or others for it.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Vemos as coisas como elas s\u00e3o e tentamos melhor\u00e1-las, mas tamb\u00e9m aceitamos as que n\u00e3o podemos mudar.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ser diferente \u00e9 a chave para o sucesso<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91892 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com dois p\u00e3ezinhos de cabelo a segurar \u00f3culos\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-holding-eyeglasses-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Courtney Love once said that: &#8220;All publicity is good publicity to a certain degree&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Se o seu desejo \u00e9 tornar-se um influenciador (que \u00e9 uma das voca\u00e7\u00f5es modernas mais populares hoje em dia), ser diferente ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 de in\u00fameras formas.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Both people who like you and those who don&#8217;t (good and bad publicity) will make you successful because the only thing that matters is that you&#8217;re a hot topic.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O mais importante \u00e9 que eles partilhem, comentem e gostem das suas coisas, o que ir\u00e1 impulsionar o seu perfil e, consequentemente, torn\u00e1-lo bem sucedido.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This rule can be applied to every aspect of our lives as well. When we&#8217;re not afraid to be different from others, we develop a different mindset and skills \u2013 like thinking outside the box, for example.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So, yes, be different and don&#8217;t worry whether someone will like you or not because this is the key to success.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ajuda-o a atrair coisas mais positivas para a sua vida<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91895 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sorridente de p\u00e9 na floresta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-forest-3-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When you&#8217;re okay with not being liked by everyone, you spread positive <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">vibra\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e0 sua volta e, mais importante, ao Universo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Thinking positively attracts more positive things into your life and that&#8217;s <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-passos-para-manifestar-o-amor-com-uma-pessoa-especifica-usando-a-lei-da-atracao\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">a Lei da Atra\u00e7\u00e3o<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">O que quer que penses, atrai-lo-\u00e1s para a tua vida.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Now, imagine that you constantly worry about not being liked by others and how it makes you feel miserable. This will only attract more negative things into your life (and you don&#8217;t want that).&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-91905 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1.jpg\" alt=\"mulher loira de p\u00e9 num campo de trigo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-in-field-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Instead of worrying about other people&#8217;s approval, the only thing you should be worrying about is being the best version of yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whenever you&#8217;re feeling down about the fact that not everyone is going to like you, remember the following:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>&#8220;You can\u2019t change how people treat you or what they say about you. All you can do is change how you react to it.&#8221;<\/i><\/b><b> \u2013 Mahatma Gandhi<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/o-verdadeiro-amor-aceita-nos-tal-como-somos\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">True Love Accepts You As You Are, It Doesn&#8217;t Compare You To Others<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-93360 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Nem toda a gente vai gostar de ti e n\u00e3o faz mal que assim seja\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;Not everyone is going to like you. Don&#8217;t let it phase you.&#8221; \u2013 Unknown Before I say anything else, I feel like I should be honest with you (that doesn&#8217;t mean the rest of what I say will be a lie).&nbsp; I humbly and wholeheartedly admit that I&#8217;m one of those individuals who have spent&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":91820,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-91804","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Not-Everyone-Is-Going-To-Like-You-And-Heres-Why-Thats-Okay.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91804","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=91804"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/91804\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/91820"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=91804"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=91804"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=91804"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}