{"id":9218,"date":"2020-06-28T13:26:18","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T13:26:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9218"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:15:16","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:15:16","slug":"planeado-ficar-afastado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/planeado-ficar-afastado\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela tencionava ficar, mas voc\u00ea afastou-a"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ela nunca se achou perfeita, mas tentou ser perfeita s\u00f3 para ti<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Ela s\u00f3 tinha olhos para ti. Ela queria ser digna de ti e queria muito ser digna do teu amor.<\/p>\n

Ela esperava que se continuasse a ser uma vers\u00e3o melhor de si mesma, se tentasse o suficiente para corresponder \u00e0s suas expectativas, voc\u00ea criaria um lugar para ela na sua vida.<\/p>\n

Tentava ser perfeita, tentava corrigir os seus defeitos e sorria por mais dolorosas que fossem as coisas por que passava, sempre na esperan\u00e7a de que viessem dias melhores.<\/p>\n

Ela n\u00e3o queria nada mais do que estar l\u00e1 para si<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She wasn’t one of those girls who wanted to have you 24\/7 even though you were on her mind all the time.<\/p>\n

She didn’t have sky-high expectations nor did she ever wish to have something you couldn’t offer her. Actually, she was the one ready to give all of herself to you.<\/p>\n

Ela s\u00f3 queria estar l\u00e1 para ti. Ela queria fazer parte da vossa vida.<\/a><\/p>\n

Ela queria ser uma pessoa em quem encontrasses conforto, queria que soubesses que a tinhas, dia e noite.<\/p>\n

When it came to you, she was selfless with how much she gave herself to you. But at the end of the day, you didn’t grant her that wish either.<\/p>\n

Ela queria amar-te<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ela queria que fosses a pessoa a quem ela daria o seu amor. Escolheu-te acima de tudo e de todos.<\/p>\n

Queria beijar-te quando estavas triste, queria ouvir o que correu mal quando estavas zangado e, quando estavas frustrado, queria ouvir-te e ajudar-te a melhorar.<\/p>\n

Ela era a tua pessoa, mas tu nunca foste realmente dela. Nunca permitiste que ela se aproximasse o suficiente para te deixar sentir o que ela sentia.<\/p>\n

Ela conhecia todos os teus defeitos, mas mesmo assim valorizava-os tanto como os teus pontos fortes<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

She never expected you to be extraordinary. She never wanted you to be something you weren’t. She accepted you just like that, just the way you were.<\/p>\n

She wasn’t blind, she was perfectly aware of your flaws, but she still valued them as much as your strengths.<\/p>\n

Ela sabia que eras apenas um ser humano e que, com todas as tuas falhas e todos os teus erros, continuavas a ser perfeito para ela.<\/p>\n

She should be next to you now, but she isn’t. <\/i><\/p>\n

She still can’t bring herself to hate you, even though you probably deserve it<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

If it was any other girl in her place, you’d be on her list of of people close to her heart to hate. But she can’t bring herself to do it.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o que fizeste, n\u00e3o importa o qu\u00e3o in\u00fatil a fizeste sentir, como a fizeste sentir que n\u00e3o era suficientemente boa e n\u00e3o importa o qu\u00e3o indigno \u00e9s do seu amor, ela nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de te odiar.<\/p>\n

Apesar de ela querer ficar, tu afastaste-a<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Truth be told, even though she is a good girl and she utterly cares about you, she wasn’t able to stay. She wanted to, but you gave her no reason to stay.<\/p>\n

She couldn’t continue bringing herself down just so she could keep you up.<\/p>\n

Down the road of giving you everything and getting nothing in return, she realized that sometimes you have to take care of yourself and sometimes you have to give up on love even when it’s not what you really want to do.<\/p>\n

So she left. But she didn’t leave willingly, afastou-a.<\/a> <\/p>\n

Afastaste-a ao n\u00e3o lhe dizeres o quanto a amavas, afastaste-a ao n\u00e3o apreciares os seus esfor\u00e7os, ao n\u00e3o valorizares tudo o que ela fez por voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

Afastaste-a ao escolheres sempre os outros antes dela.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o h\u00e1 desculpa para o que lhe fizeste<\/h2>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

You can’t blame it on your past and you can’t blame it on anything else. You lost a good girl and this one is on you. You broke her.<\/p>\n

Nunca lhe deste o que ela merecia e tudo o que ela sempre quis foi estar na tua vida. S\u00f3 precisavas de te mudar e arranjar um lugar para ela, mas at\u00e9 isso era pedir demais.<\/p>\n

Ela era \u00fanica e tu deixaste-a escapar<\/h2>\n

\"Retrato<\/p>\n

You should’ve loved her. You should’ve appreciated her. But you didn’t. And that’s why you don’t have her anymore.<\/p>\n

Quando lhe mostraste que ela n\u00e3o tinha lugar na tua vida, quando n\u00e3o lhe deste nada, ela recomp\u00f4s-se e teve dignidade suficiente para se afastar.<\/p>\n

But don’t ever blame it on her. Because she didn’t just walk away.<\/p>\n

A girl like her doesn’t just walk away like that, you pushed her away. But don\u2019t stress about it. She couldn\u2019t stay yours forever.<\/p>\n

One day, you will no longer have a place in her heart because there will be someone out there who’ll notice her. Who’ll be able to see her for all she is.<\/p>\n

Someone who’ll value her and treat her the way she deserves. But you’ll never find anyone like her again. She was a once in a lifetime opportunity. And you missed it.<\/p>\n

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