{"id":92414,"date":"2020-09-10T13:44:05","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T13:44:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=92414"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:27:35","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:27:35","slug":"um-homem-a-serio-pedira-desculpa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-homem-a-serio-pedira-desculpa\/","title":{"rendered":"Um homem de verdade pedir\u00e1 desculpas porque te valoriza mais do que o seu orgulho"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 se fartou de ver homens a fingir que n\u00e3o sabem o que fizeram de errado?<\/strong><\/p>\n

What\u2019s worse, they expect you to forget about it or ridicule your behavior and accuse you of being passive-aggressive.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m done with that. I refuse to waste my time on men who aren\u2019t able to put their ego aside.<\/strong><\/p>\n

For how long do women just passively have to accept that men are \u2018\u2019like that\u2019\u2019 and keep living their life caged in someone\u2019s fake sense of self?<\/p>\n

A man who loves you will not want to make you feel like you\u2019re less than him. He will hate to see you hurt or in pain.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t put his pride or some silly fight above your love. When there\u2019s love, there\u2019s a way.<\/p>\n

When we\u2019re selfless, it\u2019s easy to deixar de lado o orgulho<\/a> e ver para al\u00e9m do problema superficial.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas porque \u00e9 que a autorreflex\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil para os homens em geral?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t require any work, just objective thinking about their behavior. How hard is it to say two little words?<\/p>\n

Why is it so hard to say I\u2019m sorry? Well, there are a few reasons.<\/p>\n

The first reason is they have a hard time admitting they\u2019re wrong.<\/strong> Isso f\u00e1-los parecer menos competentes e eles detestam isso.<\/p>\n

If they say they\u2019re sorry, it means you win \u2013 or that\u2019s how they see it.<\/p>\n

Needless to say \u2013 men don\u2019t like to lose; they don\u2019t like to feel weak.<\/p>\n

A segunda raz\u00e3o \u00e9 responder com sim, mas acrescentando o pequeno e irritante mas imediatamente a seguir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

They play the blame game. I did this but you did that first. This doesn\u2019t get you anywhere.<\/p>\n

A terceira raz\u00e3o \u00e9 o medo da vulnerabilidade.<\/strong> Admitting you\u2019re wrong is admitting you are a vulnerable being.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Unfortunately, many men are brainwashed into thinking they shouldn\u2019t show their feelings, and sometimes this is the cost \u2013 a pointless obstacle in communication that could be resolved so quickly.<\/p>\n

Nenhuma destas raz\u00f5es desculpa a falta de pedido de desculpas, apenas explica as poss\u00edveis raz\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

If a man can\u2019t apologize after doing something wrong \u2013 ele est\u00e1 a desrespeit\u00e1-la<\/a>. It\u2019s clear as day, no doubt about that.<\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s very easy to see that he doesn\u2019t value your feelings. Why else would he prioritize his pride?<\/p>\n

Why is something banal more important than love and his significant other\u2019s feelings?<\/p>\n

The truth is \u2013 women don\u2019t really want that much. They just want a homem maduro<\/a> who can admit that he\u2019s wrong when he\u2019s wrong.<\/strong><\/p>\n

With a mature man \u2013 you can resolve any problem with a conversation. There are no unnecessary fights and silly pride.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no jealousy and no mind games. He is responsible and careful with words. He doesn\u2019t let his ego loose<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Um homem maduro valoriz\u00e1-la-\u00e1 mesmo quando discordarem, porque sabe que as diverg\u00eancias fazem parte da rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele apoi\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o nos seus objectivos e am\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 pelo que voc\u00ea \u00e9.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be afraid of saying those two words \u2013 in fact, he will encourage communication and problem-solving.<\/p>\n

Um verdadeiro homem procura sempre melhorar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o em vez de a manter estagnada.<\/strong> Que melhor objetivo poderia haver para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria?<\/p>\n

Para crescer, as coisas t\u00eam de evoluir e mudar. T\u00eam de se tornar melhores e mais s\u00e1bias e n\u00e3o ficarem presas num ciclo vicioso de problemas e medos do passado.<\/p>\n

Os relacionamentos s\u00e3o a melhor arma contra o orgulho e todos os tipos de comportamento ego\u00edsta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"conversa<\/p>\n

In a relationship you just can\u2019t be selfish \u2013 otherwise, it\u2019s a very dysfunctional relationship.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s always better to learn from the things that trigger us and make us feel the things we\u2019d rather not feel.<\/p>\n

Devemos lutar contra as fraquezas e isso inclui um ego fr\u00e1gil.<\/p>\n

The funny thing is \u2013 it\u2019s so easy to just admit something, let go, and learn from your mistake. But that would take a mature man.<\/p>\n

If your man is ready to admit his wrongs \u2013 he has his priorities listed correctly.<\/p>\n

If your man apologizes after being wrong \u2013 know that he\u2019s a keeper. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That means that to him \u2013 your love comes first, sempre<\/em>\u2026 and that\u2019s what true love is about.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Um<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Do you ever get sick of men pretending they don\u2019t know what they did wrong? What\u2019s worse, they expect you to forget about it or ridicule your behavior and accuse you of being passive-aggressive. I\u2019m done with that. I refuse to waste my time on men who aren\u2019t able to put their ego aside. For…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":92477,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-92414","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Real-Man-Will-Apologize-Because-He-Values-You-More-Than-His-Pride.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92414","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=92414"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92414\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92477"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=92414"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=92414"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=92414"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}