{"id":9272,"date":"2019-11-29T12:07:18","date_gmt":"2019-11-29T12:07:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9272"},"modified":"2022-01-11T00:15:32","modified_gmt":"2022-01-11T00:15:32","slug":"vai-sentir-falta-de-perceber-que-nao-precisa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/vai-sentir-falta-de-perceber-que-nao-precisa\/","title":{"rendered":"You Will Miss Me When You Realize That I Don't Need You (Voc\u00ea sentir\u00e1 minha falta quando perceber que eu n\u00e3o preciso de voc\u00ea)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 engra\u00e7ado como as pessoas tomam os seus entes queridos como garantidos. Pensamos que se algu\u00e9m nos ama, essa pessoa estar\u00e1 sempre presente, independentemente do que lhe fizermos.<\/p>\n

Bem, desculpa rebentar a tua bolha, mas eu tenho outra opini\u00e3o sobre a vida.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want the love of my life to take me for granted, thinking that I will always be there for him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I can\u2019t be there if someone doesn\u2019t want me to be. I can\u2019t help him if he doesn\u2019t want to be helped. And most of all, I can\u2019t have enough love for both of us.<\/p>\n

I once heard that you don\u2019t know what you have until it is gone. I think that you do, but deep down, you think that you will never lose it.<\/p>\n

E era isso que pensavas de mim.<\/p>\n

You had that strange idea that I will be there even when you don\u2019t want me. You thought that I don\u2019t have my life and my self-respect.<\/p>\n

Pensaste que eu precisava de ti como preciso do ar nos meus pulm\u00f5es. Mas em toda essa confus\u00e3o, esqueceste-te que Eu sei cuidar de mim. <\/a><\/p>\n

Sabes, querida, quando o amor morre, j\u00e1 nada \u00e9 importante. Eu fui testemunha de que o nosso amor estava a morrer lentamente quando n\u00e3o fizeste qualquer esfor\u00e7o para o salvar.<\/p>\n

Era sempre eu que fazia um esfor\u00e7o extra para salvar o que t\u00ednhamos. Era eu que tentava falar contigo quando discut\u00edamos.<\/p>\n

Fui eu que trouxe a paz para a nossa casa, pagando-a com as minhas l\u00e1grimas. E fui eu que me preocupei mais.<\/strong><\/p>\n

E tu?<\/p>\n

Pensaste que o amor ia durar para sempre s\u00f3 porque me puseste uma alian\u00e7a de casamento.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see that it takes a lot of time and effort to maintain the relationship we once had\u2014or you just thought that I will handle that.<\/p>\n

Talvez tenhas pensado que serei eu a salvar-nos quando a vida se tornar dif\u00edcil. Bem, pensaste mal.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be the only one to fight for our love. I just asked you to fight for me and you couldn\u2019t even do that.<\/p>\n

Por isso, desta vez, demito-me. Desisto de ti e da vida que tenho vivido h\u00e1 demasiado tempo.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 n\u00e3o sou uma mulher feliz e alegre e tu \u00e9s o culpado disso. Tenho tentado fazer a minha pr\u00f3pria sorte, mas tu estragas os meus planos sempre que te vejo.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t know what happened to you but you are not the same person anymore.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t recognize the man I sleep with every night.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t see the point in your actions and in your words. It hurts me so much when you don\u2019t trust me like you used to.<\/p>\n

It hurts me when you don\u2019t look at me with that passion in your eyes that I was able to see before. And frankly speaking, I don\u2019t want to live like this anymore.<\/p>\n

Eu mere\u00e7o muito mais do que uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o quase terminada. Eu mere\u00e7o muito mais do que um homem quebrado.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, este \u00e9 o meu \u00faltimo adeus.<\/a> Hoje come\u00e7o um novo cap\u00edtulo da minha vida e desta vez ser\u00e1 sem ti.<\/p>\n

After all this shit that you did to me, don\u2019t try to crawl back once you realize that I can survive without you.<\/p>\n

Now I see that you weren\u2019t in love with me, but you were in love with the feeling that I needed you to function normally. And you are broken now when you see that I can do things on my own.<\/p>\n

O teu mundo est\u00e1 a desmoronar-se porque v\u00eas que eu consigo viver normalmente sem ti.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t see this coming, right?<\/strong><\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how that small and na\u00efve girl you once met grew older and became this strong and independent woman. Well, I am here, stronger than ever and I don\u2019t want you in my life anymore.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t need you and that is what hurts you the most. So now, you can start living the life I have lived all these years with you.<\/p>\n

You can cry every night while waiting for my text I won\u2019t send. You can follow me in the street to see who I am meeting with. And most of all, you can see that our love is dead.<\/p>\n

Uma vez disse-te que sentirias a minha falta<\/a> when you realize that I don\u2019t need you anymore.<\/p>\n

And that day has come\u2014the day when I felt much better because I stopped giving you second chances!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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It is funny how people take their loved ones for granted. You think that if someone loves you, they will always be there no matter what you do to them. Well, sorry to burst your bubble, but I have another opinion about life. I don\u2019t want the love of my life to take me for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":29432,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9272","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/11\/back-view-backlit-city-847483-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9272","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9272"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9272\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/29432"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9272"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9272"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9272"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}