{"id":92852,"date":"2020-09-11T12:38:14","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T12:38:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=92852"},"modified":"2022-06-10T12:04:45","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T12:04:45","slug":"o-meu-marido-quer-o-divorcio-mas-eu-ainda-o-amo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-meu-marido-quer-o-divorcio-mas-eu-ainda-o-amo\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu marido quer o div\u00f3rcio mas eu ainda o amo - 16 coisas a fazer e a n\u00e3o fazer"},"content":{"rendered":"

O meu o marido quer o div\u00f3rcio mas Continuo a am\u00e1-lo<\/a>. What we have is worth fighting for and I can’t let years of marriage to my best friend just wither\u2026 Is it too late to make my marriage work?<\/em><\/p>\n

It depends. There are countless factors and underlying issues that could be influencing your husband’s incredibly difficult decision.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, ele acordou um dia e deu-lhe esta not\u00edcia chocante.<\/p>\n

O que acreditava ser mais uma manh\u00e3 de ter\u00e7a-feira acabou por ser a \u00faltima coisa que esperava: conversa de div\u00f3rcio.<\/p>\n

However, before you’re served actual divorce papers, there’s plenty of time to get to the bottom of your broken marriage and find a glimmer of hope that could salvage it.<\/p>\n

Marriage problems aren’t unusual, but it takes a lot of work to save a marriage that your husband is so eager to end. So let’s get to it.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o disfuncional: O que \u00e9 e como reconhecer os sinais<\/a><\/p>\n

O que N\u00c3O fazer quando o seu marido quer o div\u00f3rcio<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Before we delve into getting your husband back, first, let’s make sure you don’t manifest any of these behaviors.<\/p>\n

Estes factores reduzir\u00e3o significativamente as suas hip\u00f3teses de reconcilia\u00e7\u00e3o e s\u00f3 o afastar\u00e3o ainda mais.<\/p>\n

Atuar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Em primeiro lugar e acima de tudo, mantenha a sua compostura. O seu comportamento durante este per\u00edodo estranho \u00e9 de import\u00e2ncia vital.<\/p>\n

Don’t go all crazy and start drinking and partying.<\/p>\n

Stay away from temptations that will only make your husband more sure of his decision. Don’t bash him on social media either.<\/p>\n

O que deve fazer \u00e9 manter-se calmo, tranquilo e controlado e passar muito tempo a refletir sobre a forma de evitar o processo de div\u00f3rcio.<\/p>\n

Don’t immediately think that it’s too late.<\/p>\n

Every married couple has their challenges, it’s all about figuring it out together and looking for that spark if it’s still there.<\/p>\n

Implora-lhe que te aceite de volta<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A healthy relationship doesn’t require begging, pleading, crying, or pressuring your spouse to stay with you, especially if you notice all those signs your husband isn’t in love with you.<\/a><\/p>\n

And I’m certain you don’t want his sense of obligation to keep him by your side.<\/p>\n

Think about your mental health. You’re having a hard time dealing with this as it is. Begging will only make you more desperate.<\/p>\n

Try to find out why he’s so hell-bent on divorcing you in the first place and consider all options before doing something you’ll regret.<\/p>\n

Os limites saud\u00e1veis s\u00e3o importantes. Por mais dif\u00edcil que seja neste momento, tente manter-se respeitoso e manter a sua dignidade.<\/p>\n

Tentar comprar de volta o seu amor<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Especially if you feel like your actions may have prompted his decision, trying to buy his love won’t get you anything but more misery.<\/p>\n

Love isn’t for sale. And if you did something to jeopardize his trust in you, no money or lavish gifts could compensate \u2013 that is, unless you want him to become your ex-husband soon.<\/p>\n

If you’ve ever been to marriage counseling, you probably understand that buying your loved ones’ love is a surefire step in the wrong direction.<\/p>\n

Concentre-se em restabelecer a liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional para evitar a inevit\u00e1vel montanha-russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: O meu ex j\u00e1 anda a sair com outra pessoa e isso magoa - \u00e9 por isso<\/a><\/p>\n

Tentar manipul\u00e1-lo para que fique<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It’s not okay to think O meu marido quer o div\u00f3rcio, mas eu continuo a am\u00e1-lo, o que me d\u00e1 o direito de usar todos os meios necess\u00e1rios para ficar com ele.<\/em><\/p>\n

I know you’re probably saying to yourself, O meu div\u00f3rcio, as minhas regras<\/em>mas tenta p\u00f4r-te no lugar dele.<\/p>\n

How would you feel if he manipulated you into staying where you didn’t feel right?<\/p>\n

Love isn’t about manipulation. Love is a natural, organic feeling that’s either there or it isn’t.<\/p>\n

Instead of resorting to manipulative tactics, turn to good friends and say what’s on your heart.<\/p>\n

I love my husband more than anything, but I’d never resort to lowly tactics to save my marriage, and you shouldn’t either.<\/p>\n

Recorrer aos seus entes queridos para cumprir as suas ordens<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Os processos de div\u00f3rcio s\u00e3o confusos, complicados e entre duas pessoas.<\/p>\n

Don’t involve your close friends or family unless absolutely necessary.<\/p>\n

Esta \u00e9 a altura de fazer um exame de consci\u00eancia e discutir assuntos como a pens\u00e3o de alimentos para os filhos, a conta banc\u00e1ria conjunta e outros aspectos t\u00e9cnicos que t\u00eam de ser resolvidos se o div\u00f3rcio estiver realmente planeado.<\/p>\n

It’s between you two, and no one else. If there’s nothing you can do, the very least you can do is keep it civil.<\/p>\n

Quanto mais pessoas tentarmos trazer para o meio, mais t\u00f3xico se torna.<\/p>\n

Telefonar-lhe e enviar-lhe mensagens de texto incessantemente<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quando \u00e9 que esta t\u00e1tica fez com que a outra pessoa quisesse responder-lhe mais rapidamente? Quando muito, s\u00f3 cria mais frustra\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Take it easy with the phone calls. Especially if he’s currently sleeping on his best friend’s couch.<\/p>\n

Quer mostrar-lhe que pode ter considera\u00e7\u00e3o pelo seu espa\u00e7o, e n\u00e3o o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n

Talvez ele s\u00f3 precise de respirar um pouco. O div\u00f3rcio \u00e9 um grande passo.<\/p>\n

If he’s rushing into it, this time alone will give him a good chance to consider what this entails.<\/p>\n

You’re more likely to get him back if you grant him the time he needs. After taking a step back, things become clearer.<\/p>\n

Tentar atra\u00ed-lo de volta, recordando-lhe os bons momentos que viveram<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

He already knows. It’s not like his memories are suddenly erased and he doesn’t remember how happy you once were.<\/p>\n

No matter what’s keeping him away from you, past memories won’t do the trick.<\/p>\n

Reminiscing will only make it hurt more because it’ll remind him how different things are now.<\/p>\n

And I don’t mean in a good way. You don’t want to have to call him an ex-husband, right?<\/p>\n

So don’t rub it in his face because he’s aware of your happy days.<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 precisa de tempo para perceber se voc\u00eas os dois podem voltar a esse lugar.<\/p>\n

D\u00ea-lhe a oportunidade de ver o quanto um futuro sem si \u00e9 desgastante.<\/p>\n

Espiar o seu marido<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Trust is the foundation of every marriage. If you can’t trust your life partner, then who pode<\/em> em que confias?<\/p>\n

Apesar desta situa\u00e7\u00e3o dif\u00edcil, nunca se rebaixe ao ponto de o seguir, de o espiar, de ler as suas mensagens de texto, etc.<\/p>\n

It’s below you, and it’s a sign that o vosso casamento n\u00e3o tem salva\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you trusted him, you wouldn’t feel the need to breach his privacy. He’ll tell you what you want to know; just ask him.<\/p>\n

Besides, if you’re certain that he’s keeping secrets from you, how solid was your marriage anyway?<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Relacionamento enredado: Defini\u00e7\u00f5es, sinais e dicas para super\u00e1-lo<\/a><\/p>\n

Here’s What You SHOULD Do When Dealing With Divorce Talk<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

Now that we’ve tackled all the don’ts<\/em> de lidar com esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, eis algumas medidas proactivas que pode tomar para tentar faz\u00ea-lo mudar de ideias.<\/p>\n

If anything, it’ll keep your mental health in check.<\/p>\n

Manter-se confiante e forte, independentemente da sua decis\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por muito dif\u00edcil que seja engolir isto neste momento, a vida continua.<\/p>\n

Regardless of what’s going on in his head, your life has to move forward. Especially if there are kids involved.<\/p>\n

You have to remain strong for them too. They need both parents, not just one of you. You can’t take a break from being a mother.<\/p>\n

Por isso, tenta pensar neles, se n\u00e3o no teu pr\u00f3prio bem-estar. Ser forte \u00e9 a sua \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o neste momento.<\/p>\n

Viva a sua vida, fa\u00e7a o que faz normalmente e reze pelo melhor.<\/p>\n

Hard times make you stronger, one way or another, so keep your spirits high and your chin up. If there’s love, there’s hope.<\/p>\n

Let your husband speak what’s on his heart without judging<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Keep it clean, civil, and classy. There has to be a way in which you can discuss what’s happening without pointing fingers.<\/p>\n

It’s important that your husband knows that you’re eager to save your marriage.<\/p>\n

It’s vital that he knows that this is a safe environment where he can speak freely and honestly.<\/p>\n

Like I said before, without trust, you don’t have much. Trust him to share his feelings openly without lashing out.<\/p>\n

Ele tem o direito de sentir o que sente. Reconhe\u00e7a as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es e frustra\u00e7\u00f5es se quiser encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Ser a melhor vers\u00e3o de si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Agora \u00e9 a altura de brilhar verdadeiramente. Em vez de pensar O meu marido quer o div\u00f3rcio mas eu continuo a am\u00e1-lo<\/em>Seja o melhor de si e concentre-se em si.<\/p>\n

Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio. Cuida de ti. Concentra-te nas tuas necessidades.<\/p>\n

Por um segundo, ponha os problemas do seu casamento em segundo plano e volte a concentrar-se em si.<\/p>\n

You are deserving of love. Just because your husband wants a divorce, it doesn’t mean you stop taking care of yourself. This is not the time to fall apart.<\/p>\n

This is your chance to be your best self \u2013 not for him, but for you.<\/p>\n

E quando ele a vir de volta \u00e0 sua antiga gl\u00f3ria, pode faz\u00ea-lo reconsiderar a sua decis\u00e3o. Mas fa\u00e7as o que fizeres, f\u00e1-lo por ti.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Identificar, lidar e sobreviver a uma sogra narcisista<\/a><\/p>\n

Respect him, he’s still your husband<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Just because you’re dealing with something so messy, complex, and draining, it doesn’t give you the right to be disrespectful toward him.<\/p>\n

He’s still your husband. He’s still the father of your children. Treat him with the same respect you seek in return.<\/p>\n

Manter a classe durante toda esta prova\u00e7\u00e3o ir\u00e1 inevitavelmente ajudar a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Isso pode n\u00e3o trazer o seu marido de volta, mas vai mostrar-lhe que, apesar desta enorme tristeza, consegue reunir for\u00e7as e manter-se respeitosa.<\/p>\n

Isto ajudar-vos-\u00e1 a serem civilizados uns com os outros, o que os vossos filhos apreciar\u00e3o mais do que ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Afastar-se de discuss\u00f5es t\u00f3xicas<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

If your husband tries to bait you into having meaningless, toxic fights, don’t indulge him.<\/p>\n

Hopefully, you’re dealing with it in a healthy way. But if you’re not, you can be the bigger person.<\/p>\n

Dependendo das quest\u00f5es que envolvem a conversa sobre o div\u00f3rcio (falta de tempo de qualidade, caso emocional, perda de confian\u00e7a, etc.), mantenha o seu n\u00edvel de compostura.<\/p>\n

Just because you’re steering clear of pointless arguments, doesn’t mean you have to smile and dance around him.<\/p>\n

Tudo depende dos problemas que afectam o vosso casamento.<\/p>\n

But my advice is to stay away from anything that doesn’t nurture your well-being.<\/p>\n

Experimente a terapia de casal<\/h2>\n

\"conselheiro<\/p>\n

Se conseguir convencer o seu marido a juntar-se a si, este pode ser o passo na dire\u00e7\u00e3o certa para a salva\u00e7\u00e3o do seu casamento.<\/p>\n

It’s not easy admitting that you need help. It’s definitely even more difficult to relay all your personal issues and flaws to a third party.<\/p>\n

Mas quando se pensa em todos os benef\u00edcios poss\u00edveis, \u00e9 preciso, pelo menos, considerar a hip\u00f3tese.<\/p>\n

You could be dealing with something that a trained professional can help you find a way out of. Don’t be embarrassed to seek help.<\/p>\n

Only those who know when to ask for help ultimately end up finding what they’re looking for.<\/p>\n

Dar-lhe o espa\u00e7o de que ele precisa<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Most importantly, give him room to breathe. Give him time to consider if he really wants this or if it’s just a minor bump in the road.<\/p>\n

Em vez de estar t\u00e3o fixado em O meu marido quer o div\u00f3rcio, mas eu continuo a am\u00e1-lo,<\/em> concentrar-se em dar-lhe tempo para reavaliar seu<\/em> necessidades.<\/p>\n

He’s having a hard time too, you know?<\/p>\n

Just because he was the one asking for the divorce, does not mean he’s happy it has come to this.<\/p>\n

Anos de casamento a ir pelo cano abaixo \u00e9 a \u00faltima coisa que algu\u00e9m quer.<\/p>\n

Space could be the only thing keeping you married at this point. Don’t crowd him and ruin your chances of reconciliation.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: Desafio de 30 dias para o amor-pr\u00f3prio: torne-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesmo<\/a><\/p>\n

Mantenha a sua vida quotidiana como era<\/h2>\n

\"grupo<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o s\u00f3 deve manter as suas actividades quotidianas, como deve considerar a possibilidade de acrescentar ainda mais.<\/p>\n

For example, if you’ve been neglecting spending time with close friends, now’s the time to catch up.<\/p>\n

There is always something keeping you from just going out and unwinding. Now’s your chance to do what’s best for tu<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Por um momento, esque\u00e7a os seus problemas conjugais e reencontre-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Passar a ter uma vida saud\u00e1vel. Arranje um novo passatempo e fa\u00e7a exerc\u00edcio.<\/p>\n

Isto far\u00e1 inevitavelmente com que se sinta mais forte, melhor, rejuvenescido e capaz de enfrentar qualquer obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\n

O objetivo \u00e9 lembrar-se da sua for\u00e7a e perseveran\u00e7a, independentemente do estado do seu casamento. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Understand that you’re just as powerful without him.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Independentemente do que aconte\u00e7a entre voc\u00eas os dois, tu \u00e9s suficiente.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You’ve done the best that you could and whatever happens next, you’ll be okay. Maybe not today or tomorrow, but someday.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o h\u00e1 desafio suficientemente forte para destruir o vosso casamento, desde que ambos estejam dispostos a deixar de lutar um contra o outro e a come\u00e7ar a lutar um pelo outro.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Dave Willis<\/p>\n

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