{"id":9304,"date":"2020-11-29T21:38:20","date_gmt":"2020-11-29T21:38:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9304"},"modified":"2022-01-27T23:26:59","modified_gmt":"2022-01-27T23:26:59","slug":"a-rapariga-do-lado-feio-cuida-sempre-dos-outros","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-rapariga-do-lado-feio-cuida-sempre-dos-outros\/","title":{"rendered":"O lado feio de ser uma rapariga que toma sempre conta dos outros"},"content":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re always there for people who need a friend…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

\u00c9 o tipo de pessoa com quem as pessoas podem sempre contar. Dia e noite, est\u00e1 sempre dispon\u00edvel para quem precisa.<\/p>\n

E as pessoas contam consigo sobretudo porque encontra sempre a coisa certa para dizer no momento certo.<\/p>\n

Your comfort feels so good and that\u2019s why people always rely on you when they need a friend.<\/p>\n

You never get to treat people the way they treat you…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You live by your own rules and even though you\u2019d want to treat people the way they treat you to teach them a lesson, you can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t because you\u2019re not that kind of a person.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have a mean bone in your body and you can never make others taste their own medicine.<\/p>\n

Quando nos d\u00e3o um murro, respondemos com bondade, tentando sempre evitar fazer coisas m\u00e1s \u00e0s pessoas.<\/p>\n

You forgive easily…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Since you\u2019re the type of person who always tries to understand others, you have a hard time holding grudges.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o importa o quanto algu\u00e9m nos magoou, n\u00e3o importa quanto tempo sentimos essa dor presente em n\u00f3s mesmos, perdoa muito facilmente.<\/a><\/p>\n

Sempre que algu\u00e9m te magoa<\/a>Se n\u00e3o formos capazes de nos colocar no lugar deles, acabamos por os perdoar.<\/p>\n

You forgive too much…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

No matter how many times someone has shown you that you shouldn\u2019t trust them, you keep placing your hand in the fire, hoping this time you won\u2019t get burned.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re just not the type of person who remembers bad things.<\/p>\n

And sometimes even if you don\u2019t forget that someone did you wrong, you needing to take care of people is always bigger than your pain.<\/p>\n

You often forget about yourself because of others…<\/h2>\n

\"raparigas<\/p>\n

Talvez nesse dia queira fazer algo s\u00f3 para si.<\/p>\n

Talvez tenha decidido que este per\u00edodo ser\u00e1 apenas sobre si e sobre si, mas sempre que algu\u00e9m vem a correr pedir-lhe ajuda, esquece tudo o que tem em m\u00e3os, tudo o que planeou, e decide cuidar primeiro das suas necessidades.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you never have time for yourself.<\/p>\n

People are used to your kindness…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t have a mean bone in your body and people know that.<\/p>\n

Obter a vossa bondade<\/a>ter-te por perto para cuidar deles, s\u00e3o coisas que devias estar a fazer porque eles nunca sentiram a tua aus\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

Estavas sempre presente quando precisavam de ti e ter boas pessoas por perto \u00e9 algo a que nos habituamos muito rapidamente.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why it\u2019s never something extraordinary when you do a favor for others because that\u2019s something they\u2019re expecting from you anyway.<\/p>\n

You feel bad for saying \u2018no\u2019…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Because people got used to your kindness and your favors, they are surprised when they see you with too much on your plate and you trying to say \u2018no\u2019 to them.<\/p>\n

I wrote \u2018trying\u2019 for a reason, because even though you feel like saying \u2018no\u2019 to them, your guilty conscience doesn\u2019t allow you to do it.<\/p>\n

It would keep you awake at night and it would make you feel bad or make you feel like a bad person and that\u2019s the last thing you want.<\/p>\n

So you end up doing things for other people who don\u2019t deserve you lifting one finger for them.<\/p>\n

Nobody knows how you feel…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

The worst part of being a girl who always takes care of others is to see that there isn\u2019t anyone to take care of you.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m se cai num buraco negro. Podes estar em baixo, tamb\u00e9m te podes sentir mal com a tua vida. Mas ningu\u00e9m d\u00e1 por isso.<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m saberia o que fazer contigo.<\/p>\n

So you don\u2019t let others know how you feel. You bottle your feelings up and you decide to take care of yourself alone.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re never treated the way you deserve to be treated…<\/h2>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

O lado feio de ser uma rapariga que cuida dos outros \u00e9 o facto de as pessoas nunca se comportarem connosco da forma que deviam.<\/p>\n

Nunca nos tratam como merecemos ser tratados.<\/p>\n

You deserve the world. You deserve someone who\u2019ll know how to treat you.<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m mereces que cuidem de ti. Mereces o amor que continuas a dar aos outros. E esperas vir a t\u00ea-lo um dia.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que vai conseguir - basta ser paciente.<\/p>\n

O lado bonito de ser uma rapariga que cuida sempre dos outros \u00e9 o facto de haver uma pessoa por a\u00ed que \u00e9 calorosa e gentil tal como tu.<\/p>\n

That person is going through whatever you\u2019re going through as well.<\/p>\n

So don\u2019t lose hope and don\u2019t turn out to be like everyone else in this world.<\/p>\n

Mantenha-se fiel a si pr\u00f3prio para que a sua alma g\u00e9mea o possa reconhecer quando se encontrarem.<\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re always there for people who need a friend… You\u2019re the type of person whom people can always count on. Day and night, you\u2019re always available for those in need. And people count on you mostly because you always find the right thing to say at the right moment. Your comfort feels so good and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":124312,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29636],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9304","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-help"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29636,"label":"self help"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/The-Ugly-Side-Of-Being-A-Girl-Who-Always-Takes-Care-Of-Others-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29636,"name":"self help","slug":"self-help","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29636,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","parent":22911,"count":314,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29636,"category_count":314,"category_description":"Whenever you feel lost or hurt in love and life, these self-help tips will help you overcome challenges and make you feel better instantly.","cat_name":"self help","category_nicename":"self-help","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9304","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9304"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9304\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/124312"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9304"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9304"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9304"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}