{"id":93293,"date":"2020-09-11T12:55:48","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T12:55:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=93293"},"modified":"2022-07-15T07:43:01","modified_gmt":"2022-07-15T07:43:01","slug":"nunca-deixar-que-outro-homem-consuma-o-meu-tempo-e-energia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-deixar-que-outro-homem-consuma-o-meu-tempo-e-energia\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca deixarei que outro homem consuma o meu tempo e a minha energia sem os merecer primeiro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acredito na igualdade de esfor\u00e7os. Falta de esfor\u00e7o<\/a> shows me nothing but a lack of interest and that’s not how I imagine my relationship to be. <\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, it’s a huge turn-off.<\/strong><\/p>\n

I want a passionate and meaningful relationship where we both completely support each other and understand each other\u2019s needs.<\/p>\n

Quero um homem que aprecie a minha aten\u00e7\u00e3o e o meu amor por ele, e que n\u00e3o o tome como garantido. Eu quero fazer com que cada dia conte<\/a> e ser especial.<\/p>\n

I want to be sure he\u2019s my soulmate and I want to proudly call him the amor da minha vida.<\/em><\/p>\n

That requires a lot of patience and time, but I’m willing to give it if he shows me an appreciation and desire to do the same.<\/p>\n

I want a love that’s always evolving and growing, not one where I\u2019m stuck in something stagnant and directionless.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Quero que a minha energia seja devolvida, quero ser alimentado por ela.<\/strong><\/p>\n

J\u00e1 me queimei a tentar dar uma oportunidade a um homem e n\u00e3o receber nada em troca.<\/p>\n

I let him waste my time and my energy I could’ve saved for myself and my aspirations \u2013 or a better man.<\/p>\n

Ele ignorava o potencial do meu amor, por isso n\u00e3o valia a pena tentar demonstr\u00e1-lo.<\/p>\n

This time, I’ll do it differently.<\/p>\n

This time I won’t take the active role if he does nothing to inspire it. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I won’t make the first move or take action before he proves he’s worthy of it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

E como \u00e9 que um homem prova que \u00e9 digno? Fazendo um esfor\u00e7o. Mostrando uma preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna com o seu bem-estar e procurando-a a si e s\u00f3 a si.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let your mind convince you you\u2019re not worthy of someone\u2019s aten\u00e7\u00e3o total<\/a>. If the man is right \u2013 he won\u2019t have a doubt.<\/p>\n

He will do anything to win your heart and prove to you that he\u2019s the one you can trust and build your life with.<\/p>\n

I need to protect my heart because it’s already been broken by a careless man and I have no desire to relive that scenario.<\/p>\n

I learn from my mistakes and one of the most profound things I learned is that love shouldn’t be about going out of your way to please another person.<\/strong><\/p>\n

In fact, that\u2019s the worst thing you can do.<\/p>\n

A base de qualquer rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel \u00e9 a liberdade de sermos n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios e de agirmos como n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios enquanto a outra pessoa faz o mesmo.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Faz esse mesmo esfor\u00e7o extra noutras rela\u00e7\u00f5es da sua vida ou apenas nas rom\u00e2nticas?<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o muito mais saud\u00e1veis do que as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas?<\/p>\n

If the answer is yes like I imagine, I think there\u2019s a reason for that. It\u2019s because we feel less pressure and act more like ourselves.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, a maioria das rela\u00e7\u00f5es come\u00e7a com a tentativa de parecer e ser melhor para a pessoa de quem gostamos e, no processo de ganhar o seu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o, perdemo-nos lentamente.<\/p>\n

Nunca te percas. Ser tu<\/em> \u00e9 a coisa mais atractiva que se pode fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

A ser tu<\/em> is exactly what\u2019s going to attract the right man into your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ame-se primeiro. D\u00ea tempo a si pr\u00f3prio. D\u00ea aten\u00e7\u00e3o a si pr\u00f3prio. Desenvolve a tua energia.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Be passionate about life and yourself. Don\u2019t wait for someone else to start living your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You start living your life right now \u2013 you don\u2019t need anyone else.<\/p>\n

After you start shining in your authenticity, that\u2019s when the man who can follow you will notice your shine.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t dim your own light or think you\u2019re less than, just because your love life has had its ups and downs.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s perfectly fine. We\u2019re here to learn.<\/p>\n

You still have the time and the energy \u2013 only this time around, use it wisely.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Desta vez, d\u00ea-o a si pr\u00f3prio e veja como o amor-pr\u00f3prio se transforma em todos os outros tipos de amor que deseja.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Nunca<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I believe in equal effort. Lack of effort shows me nothing but a lack of interest and that’s not how I imagine my relationship to be. In fact, it’s a huge turn-off. I want a passionate and meaningful relationship where we both completely support each other and understand each other\u2019s needs. I want a man…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":93382,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-93293","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/Ill-Never-Let-Another-Man-Consume-My-Time-And-Energy-Without-Deserving-Them-First.jpg",800,511,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93293","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=93293"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93293\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93382"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=93293"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=93293"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=93293"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}