{"id":93543,"date":"2020-09-11T13:14:29","date_gmt":"2020-09-11T13:14:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=93543"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:19:28","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:19:28","slug":"ela-nao-esta-zangada-nem-chateada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-nao-esta-zangada-nem-chateada\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 zangada ou chateada - ela apenas est\u00e1 farta dele"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>A \u00fanica coisa pior do que uma mulher zangada \u00e9 uma mulher que n\u00e3o sente nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When a woman reaches the point where she feels nothing \u2013 that&#8217;s how you know you\u2019ve blown all your chances and have lost her forever.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s no way you can get her back or make her stay, she&#8217;s gone because there&#8217;s nothing left for her.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Women are givers and nurturers but once they have nothing to give and you don&#8217;t have anything to give in return \u2013 they&#8217;re done with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You crossed all the lines \u2013 and there were many.<\/p>\n<p>I wish I could say she&#8217;s mad, or upset, but that part of the mourning process is long gone.<\/p>\n<p>Ela j\u00e1 passou noites sem dormir \u00e0 espera que tu mudasses, mas tu n\u00e3o fizeste nada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela curou-se atrav\u00e9s da sua raiva, atrav\u00e9s das suas l\u00e1grimas, e agora elas libertaram-na. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93546\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/side-view-of-a-woman-crying.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de uma mulher a chorar com o rosto focado, limpando-o com as mangas\" width=\"800\" height=\"529\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/side-view-of-a-woman-crying.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/side-view-of-a-woman-crying-300x198.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/side-view-of-a-woman-crying-768x508.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Permitiu-se fazer o luto e despedir-se dos sonhos que tinha contigo.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Agora sabe que a \u00fanica pessoa com quem pode contar \u00e9 consigo pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why she decided to care for herself. She decided to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-poder-de-se-afastar-de-um-homem\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">recuperar o seu poder<\/a> and store it where it belongs \u2013 in herself.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s nothing sadder and more liberating at the same time than the fact that you can indeed survive everything.<\/p>\n<p>You can get used to anything \u2013 even to being taken advantage of and pushing forward after being severely heartbroken.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 poss\u00edvel sobreviver a ambas. Por isso, ela preferiu a segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela fartou-se das suas respostas tardias, das suas respostas vagas e da sua fuga a perguntas simples.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela ficou farta de ter de decidir sempre tudo sozinha, mesmo quando tu devias estar do lado dela e ajud\u00e1-la.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-93547\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/upset-woman-sitting.jpg\" alt=\"mulher perturbada sentada na cama com um top branco\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/upset-woman-sitting.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/upset-woman-sitting-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/upset-woman-sitting-1024x680.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/upset-woman-sitting-768x510.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/upset-woman-sitting-1536x1020.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela fartou-se de pensar que eram uma equipa quando, na realidade, era a \u00fanica que se esfor\u00e7ava.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>E o que dizer de todas as intimida\u00e7\u00f5es casuais e das provoca\u00e7\u00f5es de que ela passou noites a sentir-se culpada?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nobody deserves to be disrespected daily and then act like everything is okay when it isn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Women aren&#8217;t supposed to mother their partners or obey their orders.<\/p>\n<p>O amor tem a ver com a troca m\u00fatua e a aprecia\u00e7\u00e3o do outro.<\/p>\n<p><strong>O que \u00e9 bom \u00e9 que ela pode sempre optar por sair de uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o que a magoa. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>She can always choose to step back into her power \u2013 and she did.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even though she felt weak and helpless \u2013 she knew deep down she isn&#8217;t. She knew that there&#8217;s so much more in her.<\/p>\n<p>She knew that the things that happened to her don&#8217;t define her. The man she loved doesn\u2019t define her. The problems she had don&#8217;t define her.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93548\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-black.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de camisa preta e casaco preto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-black.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-black-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-black-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ela sabia que toda a gente tem o direito de mudar e de ser o que quiser.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quanto menos pensarmos no passado, mais oportunidades veremos \u00e0 nossa frente.<\/p>\n<p><strong>That\u2019s why she decided to move on completely and close the chapter of her life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s because she knew that <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/sou-glorioso-meio-amado\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">there\u2019s more to life than half-love<\/a> and unreliable men, there\u2019s more to life than feeling caged and waiting for something that will never happen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Esperar por uma mudan\u00e7a foi o que a levou a fazer a sele\u00e7\u00e3o final.<\/p>\n<p>Quanto menos se sentia, mais livre se tornava. E apaixonou-se por isso, apaixonou-se pela liberdade e pelo seu pr\u00f3prio poder.<\/p>\n<p>Ela aprendeu que nenhum homem vale a sua sanidade, o seu livre arb\u00edtrio, a sua liberdade de express\u00e3o e as suas l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez disso, decidiu viver a sua vida de uma forma em que os seus sentimentos sejam bem acolhidos e respeitados, quer isso inclua homens ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>She decided to feel again because of herself and she did: She\u2019s not mad, she\u2019s not upset; This time \u2013 she just loves herself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93551\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Shes-Not-Mad-Or-Upset-\u2013-Shes-Just-Done-With-Him-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 zangada ou chateada - ela apenas est\u00e1 farta dele\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Shes-Not-Mad-Or-Upset-\u2013-Shes-Just-Done-With-Him-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Shes-Not-Mad-Or-Upset-\u2013-Shes-Just-Done-With-Him-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Shes-Not-Mad-Or-Upset-\u2013-Shes-Just-Done-With-Him-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Shes-Not-Mad-Or-Upset-\u2013-Shes-Just-Done-With-Him-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The only thing worse than an angry woman is a woman who feels nothing. When a woman reaches the point where she feels nothing \u2013 that&#8217;s how you know you\u2019ve blown all your chances and have lost her forever. There&#8217;s no way you can get her back or make her stay, she&#8217;s gone because there&#8217;s&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":93549,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-93543","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Shes-Not-Mad-Or-Upset-\u2013-Shes-Just-Done-With-Him.jpg",800,507,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93543","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=93543"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/93543\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/93549"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=93543"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=93543"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=93543"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}