{"id":9393,"date":"2017-12-01T12:19:25","date_gmt":"2017-12-01T12:19:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9393"},"modified":"2021-08-12T13:06:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T13:06:09","slug":"rapariga-que-pensa-que-nunca-vai-amar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-que-pensa-que-nunca-vai-amar\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que pensa que nunca mais vai amar"},"content":{"rendered":"

O seu objetivo \u00e9.<\/strong> I know… I know, it hurts right now. Sei que te sentes destro\u00e7ado, maltratado<\/a>e incapaz de reunir a energia necess\u00e1ria para se levantar da cama. Sei que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que eu possa dizer ou fazer que vos possa consolar.<\/strong> But this pain you are feeling in this moment, that seems like it\u2019s going to consume you, it will pass.<\/strong> Not before it\u2019s had its way with you, not before it\u2019s made you feel all the feels you have to feel, but eventually, it will fade into the past and become part of what makes you who you were meant to become.<\/p>\n

Uma vez que a dor o tenha libertado das suas garras, cuspir-lhe-\u00e1 um pouco mais forte e um pouco mais desconfiado. Acreditar\u00e1s que o amor \u00e9 o inimigo. Que o amor \u00e9, em \u00faltima an\u00e1lise, a causa de toda esta agonia e vais jurar que o vais abandonar. Jurar\u00e1s a Deus e a quem te quiser ouvir que NUNCA mais voltar\u00e1s a amar. Que nunca deixar\u00e1s que algu\u00e9m ou alguma coisa te coloque de novo nesse lugar. Quem te pode culpar? Foi preciso tudo o que havia em ti para sobreviver a essa dor, porque \u00e9 que havias de querer voltar a faz\u00ea-lo? Como \u00e9 que podes sequer imaginar permitir que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o se abra novamente?<\/strong><\/p>\n

I\u2019ve been there. In that place where love seems like your enemy and your heart a weapon to be used against you. But it\u2019s not. Foste feito para amar e para ser amado.<\/strong> O teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o deve estar cheio de alegria e felicidade. Love didn\u2019t break you<\/a>. Love didn\u2019t desert you. He did. And now he\u2019s gone. Let him take all of the blame, and leave love for you. Let the person who didn\u2019t love you be the cause of your pain, and let love be the solution. Let love be the thing that heals you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Start small if you have to, love your favorite coffee cup that delivers liquid life into your mouth and warms your soul on a cold morning. Love your bed that feels like you\u2019re floating on a cloud when you need to escape the pressures of the day. Love the way your cat cuddles with you in the morning.<\/p>\n

Look at all of the things you love and the joy that those things bring you. Love didn\u2019t hurt you. Love didn\u2019t make you cry. Love gives you a thousand reasons to be happy every day. Don\u2019t blame love because he did you wrong. He is not love. He is just an asshat who didn\u2019t know what he had, and that\u2019s on him-not love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Before you swear off love and promise you will never do it again\u2026 take notice of all the things you have in your life that you do love=your family, your friends, yourself. He didn\u2019t take love from you.<\/a> He didn\u2019t render you incapable of mustering up that emotion. Ainda amas e voltar\u00e1s a amar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Amor,
\nA girl who thought she would never love again… until I realized, I never stopped.<\/p>\n

by\u00a0Tia Grace<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You will. I know… I know, it hurts right now. I know you feel broken, battered, and incapable of mustering up the energy to even get out of bed. I know that there is nothing I can say or do that will console you. But this pain you are feeling in this moment, that seems…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":9395,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9393","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/alexandru-zdrobau-195418-1.jpg",800,580,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9393","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9393"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9393\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9395"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9393"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9393"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9393"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}