{"id":9397,"date":"2017-12-01T12:28:25","date_gmt":"2017-12-01T12:28:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9397"},"modified":"2022-01-17T23:10:44","modified_gmt":"2022-01-17T23:10:44","slug":"todas-as-raparigas-amam-o-tipo-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/todas-as-raparigas-amam-o-tipo-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"Para todas as raparigas apaixonadas pelo homem errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mereces acordar de manh\u00e3 e n\u00e3o questionar o amor da pessoa que est\u00e1 ao teu lado. Mereces falar livremente, loucamente e apaixonadamente, e n\u00e3o pensar, nem por um segundo, que as palavras que saem dos teus l\u00e1bios est\u00e3o a aborrecer a pessoa que finge ouvir. Mereces o tipo de amor<\/a>, the kind of wild passion that has only existed in \u201cNicholas Sparks\u201d novels and in your wildest daydreams.<\/p>\n

Gostava que ele fosse assim para ti.<\/strong> I wish he didn\u2019t make you question who you are or who you\u2019re going to be. I wish he provided the net to catch you when you feel like breaking. I wish he wasn\u2019t the catalyst to your broken heart. I wish he wasn\u2019t the reason why you\u2019re crumbling. I wish he didn\u2019t make you cry, or leave you behind. I wish he didn\u2019t make you doubt love because love is actually quite a beautiful thing.<\/p>\n

And I know you\u2019ll find it one day.<\/strong> And that love, it\u2019ll be warm, and it\u2019ll be inviting. It\u2019ll leave you feeling glowing because real love is the kind of love you deserve to have and have deserved to have all along. You deserved real love while you sat in your room behind locked doors. You deserved real love while you told the same story to your best friend for hours on end. You deserved real love during the fights and when his words made you feel, if for only a minute, less than how you should ever feel about yourself.<\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o \u00e9 ele que vos define e agora, neste preciso momento, I know it\u2019s hard to let him go.<\/strong> A imagem do que ele poderia ser - de quem ele prometeu ser - fica consigo; perdura<\/strong>. Eu era como tu. Agarrei-me firmemente \u00e0 imagem do homem que queria que ele fosse: forte, protetor, carinhoso - mas ele nunca foi nada disso para mim. Na maioria das noites, ele apenas fingia. Cansei-me de adormecer sozinha num California King, a ver o nosso amor desmoronar-se e, durante algum tempo, lutei contra isso. Tentei convencer-me de que ficar juntos valeu a pena<\/a>. Tentei convencer-me de que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam momentos dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n

Mas esta n\u00e3o foi uma fase dif\u00edcil. Meu amor, ele bateu-me. Violou-me. Fez-me questionar a mim pr\u00f3pria. Fez-me odiar a mim pr\u00f3pria. Fez-me jurar que a vida nunca iria melhorar e, durante algum tempo, aceitei o tipo de amor que pensava merecer.<\/p>\n

Please, don\u2019t waste as much time as I did being too afraid to pursue a chance at true happiness. Don\u2019t belittle yourself. Don\u2019t devalue yourself.<\/a> Don\u2019t convince yourself that you\u2019re okay with a subpar kind of love-or life.<\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor requer coragem e esfor\u00e7o. Exige que fa\u00e7a escolhas sobre o tipo de amor e o tipo de vida que o vai definir. Escolha a felicidade. Escolher o homem<\/a> who is going to see sparks fly when you smile at him. Choose the man who dances with you to no music, who tells you he loves you because he means it, not because he thinks it\u2019s what you want to hear at that moment in time. Escolher o amor em primeiro lugar.<\/strong> Decide that you have no choice but to show yourself the kind of love that you know you\u2019re deserving of someone who will inspire you, cherish you, and want the very best for you for as long as time stands still. Esse amor come\u00e7a em ti.<\/strong> And I promise you that real kind of love, those sparks…they\u2019ll find you. And when they do, you\u2019ll be ready.<\/p>\n

por Courtney Dercqu<\/em><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You deserve to wake up in the morning and not question the love of the person lying beside you. You deserve to speak freely, crazily and passionately, and not think for even the slightest second that the words spewing from your pouty lips are boring the person who pretends to listen. You deserve the kind…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":9400,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9397","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/12\/oladimeji-odunsi-306172.jpg",800,631,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9397","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9397"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9397\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9400"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9397"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9397"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9397"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}