{"id":94264,"date":"2020-09-29T13:01:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-29T13:01:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=94264"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:04:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:04:55","slug":"a-sua-atencao-nao-significa-nada","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-sua-atencao-nao-significa-nada\/","title":{"rendered":"A sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o significa nada se n\u00e3o tiveres o seu respeito"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 uma mulher atraente e altamente desej\u00e1vel - n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida sobre isso.<\/p>\n

Onde quer que v\u00e1, h\u00e1 muitos homens a olhar para si, a tentar comunicar consigo e a convid\u00e1-la para sair.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o \u00e9 diferente dos outros. \u00c0 primeira vista, ele parecia estar apaixonado por si.<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 tinha olhos para ti. Ele estava em cima de ti e fez tudo o que estava ao seu alcance para te conquistar.<\/p>\n

Por isso, naturalmente, pensou que ele era o tal. Ele deu-te tanta aten\u00e7\u00e3o e agiu como se fosses a mulher dos seus sonhos.<\/p>\n

However, as soon as he got what he wanted, everything changed. No, I\u2019m not just talking about taking you to bed.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m referring to the fact that this guy started treating you differently as soon as you showed him that he had captured your heart.<\/p>\n

As soon as he became aware that you\u2019d fallen for him, he showed you his true colors.<\/p>\n

A partir desse momento, tornou-se evidente que este tipo tinha absolutamente n\u00e3o vos respeito<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Nunca teve em considera\u00e7\u00e3o as suas opini\u00f5es, sentimentos ou desejos.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, come\u00e7ou a fazer quase tudo para captar a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

You just wanted the man from the beginning of your relationship back \u2013 at any cost.<\/p>\n

Estava pronto para fazer o que quer que fosse necess\u00e1rio para se tornar mais simp\u00e1tico para este tipo<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t even have to directly ask you to change \u2013 you did it by yourself.<\/p>\n

In the beginning, you started pretending to be someone you\u2019re not. However, you didn\u2019t do it with the intention of deceiving him.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 querias que ele te visse como melhor, mais inteligente, mais atraente e mais interessante.<\/p>\n

No entanto, com o tempo, perdeu-se. A rapariga que costumava ser, de repente, n\u00e3o se encontrava em lado nenhum.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you something: I know that you want this guy\u2019s undivided attention.<\/p>\n

I know that you\u2019re the happiest person in the world when he texts you or when he likes your social media posts.<\/p>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Sei que o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o salta de alegria quando ele arranja tempo para te ver.<\/p>\n

No entanto, while you were busy chasing him and trying to get his attention, you missed something much more important: his respect \u2013 which you\u2019ve never got.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Believe me on this one: His attention means nothing if you don\u2019t have his respect.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, este homem n\u00e3o \u00e9 diferente de qualquer outro tipo de homem que a observa nas discotecas.<\/p>\n

For someone like him, you\u2019re nothing but a piece of meat. He sees you as a trophy \u2013 as a girl all of his friends would like to be with but can\u2019t.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care about your reputation or future. Most importantly: he doesn\u2019t care how you feel and whether you might suffer later on.<\/p>\n

Deep down, he knows you\u2019re a catch. <\/strong><\/p>\n

He knows that he is not enough for you, which is why he gives you breadcrumbs of his attention \u2013 so you will always come asking for more.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele usa toda esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o para manter o controlo sobre si. Faz jogos mentais para a manter agarrada, porque n\u00e3o tem mais nada para oferecer.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

So please, don\u2019t do whatever he asks you to do. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t run into his arms every time he calls you, don\u2019t sleep with him if that\u2019s the only thing he wants, and don\u2019t send him nudes in the hope of getting a text back.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Acredita em mim: isto \u00e9 tudo menos respeito.<\/p>\n

This guy doesn\u2019t really appreciate your presence in his life, nor does he cherish the deep love you feel for him.<\/p>\n

De que \u00e9 que est\u00e1 \u00e0 espera exatamente? Achas que he\u2019ll change<\/a>? That he\u2019ll grow to respect the real you with time?<\/p>\n

If that is so, you\u2019re just wasting your time. Things will remain like this forever and this guy will never start treating you right.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m begging you not to give him any more of your energy. Instead, be patient enough to wait for a guy who deserves you.<\/p>\n

Instead of fighting for this immature boy\u2019s undivided attention, wait for a real man who will give you many more valuable things, such as respect, loyalty, and appreciation.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Porque o amor verdadeiro \u00e9 assim.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019re an attractive and highly desirable woman \u2013 there is no doubt about that. Wherever you go, there are plenty of guys staring at you, trying to communicate with you and ask you out. He is no different than the rest. At first glance, he seemed to be infatuated with you. He had eyes for…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":100499,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-94264","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/His-Attention-Means-Nothing-If-You-Dont-Have-His-Respect.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94264","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=94264"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/94264\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/100499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=94264"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=94264"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=94264"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}