{"id":95717,"date":"2020-09-15T10:47:59","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T10:47:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=95717"},"modified":"2022-02-27T02:09:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T02:09:44","slug":"nao-estrague-o-seu-presente-para-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-estrague-o-seu-presente-para-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o estragues o teu presente por algu\u00e9m que nunca foi o teu futuro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Passou por um inferno - n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida sobre isso.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from.<\/p>\n

O homem que amavas mais do que a ti pr\u00f3pria afastou-se de ti quando menos esperavas.<\/p>\n

Enquanto planeava o seu futuro em conjunto, pensando que ele estava a fazer o mesmo, ele deixou-te<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sem mais nem menos, abandonou-te quando mais precisavas dele.<\/p>\n

Ele esmagou todos os seus sonhos e quebrou toda a sua personalidade num milh\u00e3o de peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

Deixou feridas no teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e na tua alma. Deixou marcas em todo o teu ser que acreditas que nunca poder\u00e3o ser apagadas.<\/p>\n

No entanto, despite all the pain he\u2019s caused you, deep down you still hope that he\u2019ll come back<\/strong>. Of course, you won\u2019t admit this to anyone.<\/p>\n

In fact, you can barely admit it to yourself. You know that it\u2019s completely pointless and in vain but you just can\u2019t help it.<\/p>\n

\"grande<\/p>\n

Even though common-sense keeps telling you that you\u2019re nothing but a fool, your heart can\u2019t stop waiting for a miracle \u2013 a miracle that will probably never happen.<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que ainda vive no passado. O vosso traumas<\/a> assombram-no e a sua bagagem emocional pesa-lhe.<\/p>\n

Continuamos a agarrar-nos ao potencial. Pensamos em todos os planos que t\u00ednhamos e perguntamo-nos onde as coisas correram mal<\/a>.<\/p>\n

As much as you try, you can\u2019t seem to move on. You can\u2019t force yourself to continue your life and finally get over this man.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like your heart refuses to heal. Like it can\u2019t recover and glue itself back together, no matter how hard you try.<\/p>\n

Even when you meet someone new, you compare them to your ex. You can\u2019t give anyone else a chance simply because they are not him.<\/p>\n

Basicamente, a sua vida est\u00e1 a passar por si. Os meses e os anos passam enquanto est\u00e1 pacientemente e pacificamente sentado sem fazer nada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, quanto tempo mais tenciona perder?<\/p>\n

Do you think that you will live forever and that you can afford to spend more time on someone who probably doesn\u2019t even remember your name?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

I can promise you one thing: one of these days, you\u2019ll see what you\u2019ve done with your life.<\/p>\n

To be exact, you\u2019ll see that you\u2019ve done literally NOTHING.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll realize that you\u2019ve been nowhere while this man is long gone and doesn\u2019t give you a second thought.<\/p>\n

In fact, you\u2019re destroying your present because of a past that has no future.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Detesto ter de vos estragar a cabe\u00e7a, mas isto man isn\u2019t coming back<\/a>.<\/p>\n

After all, if he planned on getting back together with you, he wouldn\u2019t have left you in the first place.<\/p>\n

Your past is behind you and it won\u2019t repeat itself.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change anything that has happened, so what\u2019s the point of replaying it over and over in your head?<\/p>\n

As much as you don\u2019t want to hear this, the harsh truth is that you won\u2019t get the closure you\u2019re waiting for.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

This man won\u2019t repent his sins, nor will he give you the apology you want so badly.<\/p>\n

Talvez n\u00e3o o veja agora, mas a sua dor tornou-se a sua zona de conforto.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ve gotten used to it and you dwell on all the what ifs and could have beens.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I\u2019m begging you to finally leave the past behind you\u2013where it belongs.<\/p>\n

Sei que \u00e9 preciso muita coragem mas, por favor, sejam suficientemente corajosos para dar um salto para o vosso futuro, apesar de ser desconhecido. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I assure you\u2013you\u2019re strong enough to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Em vez de esperar que o seu ex regresse \u00e0 sua vida, transfira a sua energia para a esperan\u00e7a de que algu\u00e9m novo se cruze no seu caminho.<\/p>\n

Have faith that the love of your life is yet to come. That you\u2019ll find the right man and he\u2019ll erase every scar your ex left on you.<\/p>\n

Mais importante ainda: tenha f\u00e9 que o seu futuro feliz ser\u00e1 muito melhor do que o seu passado doloroso.<\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You\u2019ve been through hell\u2013there is no doubt about that. You\u2019ve been disappointed, heartbroken, and betrayed by someone you least expected it from. The man you loved more than yourself walked away from you when you expected it the least. While you were planning your future together, thinking he was doing the same, he left you….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":95725,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95717","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/Don\u2019t-Ruin-Your-Present-For-Someone-Who-Was-Never-Your-Future.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95717","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=95717"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95717\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/95725"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=95717"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=95717"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=95717"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}