{"id":96259,"date":"2020-09-17T12:20:29","date_gmt":"2020-09-17T12:20:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=96259"},"modified":"2022-01-18T01:43:01","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T01:43:01","slug":"revelou-se-exatamente-quem-eu-pensava-que-era","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/revelou-se-exatamente-quem-eu-pensava-que-era\/","title":{"rendered":"Devia ter dado ouvidos ao meu instinto, pois revelaste ser exatamente quem eu pensava que eras"},"content":{"rendered":"

Antes de come\u00e7ar a namorar contigo, pensava que j\u00e1 te tinha percebido tudo.<\/p>\n

Parecia ser o tipo de homem que nunca prestou muita aten\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s rela\u00e7\u00f5es da sua vida. Parecia ser um tipo que s\u00f3 procurava divers\u00e3o e emo\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Sempre pensei que \u00e9ramos demasiado diferentes para sermos amigos. <\/p>\n

Ainda assim, havia algo em ti que me atra\u00eda tanto. Era o teu sorriso maroto? O teu esp\u00edrito aventureiro? A forma como passavas pela vida como se n\u00e3o fosse nada de especial?<\/p>\n

Acho que fui uma das raparigas que se apaixonou por o menino mau<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Costumava pensar que era demasiado inteligente para que algo assim me acontecesse. Nunca imaginei que esse tipo de homem fingisse ser t\u00e3o encantador e gentil quando queria conquistar uma rapariga.<\/b><\/p>\n

Disseste-me que nos pod\u00edamos divertir juntos, e isso era tudo o que importava. <\/p>\n

Disseste-me que eu era especial e que tudo o que nos deve interessar na vida s\u00e3o as experi\u00eancias com outras pessoas, por mais curtas que sejam (acho que isso devia ter sido o meu sinal de alarme), s\u00e3o b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os que devem ser desfrutadas e apreciadas enquanto duram.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mesmo assim, tu <\/b>tratou-me como uma rainha<\/b><\/a> durante aquele curto per\u00edodo de tempo em que estavas decidido a tornar-me tua. <\/b><\/p>\n

I now know you were only intrigued by a girl who wasn\u2019t willing to fall into your arms immediately because that\u2019s what you\u2019d been used to.<\/p>\n

I started thinking I really was special to you. I secretly thought I could change you. I was so sure that you were like that just because you hadn\u2019t found the one so far.<\/b><\/p>\n

E eu achava que era o tal.<\/p>\n

When I told you we had no similarities at all, you told me that opposites attract and we\u2019d make it all work.<\/p>\n

Sempre que eu partilhava as minhas d\u00favidas sobre ter esse tipo de rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mudavas de assunto e distra\u00edas-me com o teu charme.<\/p>\n

And yes, I fell for it. I fell for it because I wanted to believe that I could have my cake and eat it too; that\u2019s just how special you made me think I was.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Durante um certo per\u00edodo de tempo, esqueci-me de que alguma vez duvidei que a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o resultasse. Parecia t\u00e3o natural e acolhedor, estar contigo.<\/p>\n

Life\u2019s biggest misfortunes don\u2019t come when you expect them though.<\/p>\n

Quando comecei a perder-me em ti, confiando que t\u00ednhamos um belo futuro \u00e0 nossa frente, rebentaste a minha pequena bolha.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019d had enough. You\u2019d won me over, you\u2019d had your fun and now you\u2019d had enough.<\/p>\n

You were ready to move on to the next girl and for me… well, it felt like a bus had hit me when I was peacefully walking next to a lake.<\/p>\n

At that point, I didn\u2019t expect it at all. That\u2019s why it hurt so bad.<\/p>\n

Eu sabia quem tu eras desde o in\u00edcio e deixei que me manipulasses para pensar que t\u00ednhamos o que era preciso para sermos um casal a s\u00e9rio.<\/p>\n

Assim que baixei a guarda, atacaste-me com tudo o que tinhas.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se gostava de ter confiado nos meus instintos? Claro que sim.<\/p>\n

Quando te foste embora, senti-me a maior idiota do universo. Divertimo-nos muito, mas a forma como me magoaste n\u00e3o teve piada nenhuma.<\/p>\n

I knew from the beginning that you were the type of guy who\u2019d leave the minute he thought there was something more interesting out there and I was right.<\/p>\n

Mesmo assim, escolhi ignorar tudo o que sabia que estava certo e escolhi estar contigo. Esse foi o meu erro.<\/p>\n

I\u2019ve learned to trust myself more and trust people when they show me who they are, instead of losing my mind in sweet fantasies that will never be reality.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que para muitas raparigas que ficam com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido o problema \u00e9 que the guy wasn\u2019t who she thought he was<\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quando se trata do meu desgosto, o problema \u00e9 que tu \u00e9s exatamente quem eu pensava que eras.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Devia<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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