{"id":9657,"date":"2021-09-30T10:39:16","date_gmt":"2021-09-30T10:39:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9657"},"modified":"2024-10-25T10:52:24","modified_gmt":"2024-10-25T08:52:24","slug":"no-proximo-ano-vou-por-me-em-primeiro-lugar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/no-proximo-ano-vou-por-me-em-primeiro-lugar\/","title":{"rendered":"Em 2025, vou p\u00f4r-me a mim pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Em 2025, quero sentir o verdadeiro amor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quero sentir a paz interior. E quero que todas as cicatrizes da minha alma desapare\u00e7am. Eu lutarei contra todos os pensamentos sobre n\u00e3o ser capaz de fazer algo.<\/p>\n<p>Porque j\u00e1 tive pensamentos negativos suficientes e isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que eu queira continuar a fazer no pr\u00f3ximo ano.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>So, 2025, here I come\u2014stronger than ever, more beautiful than ever and one year smarter.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mudei, mas n\u00e3o me importo nada com isso. Finalmente, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/4-reasons-need-learn-love\/\">Aprendi a amar-me a mim pr\u00f3prio.<\/a> Aprendi a respeitar-me e a preocupar-me menos com o que os outros t\u00eam para dizer.<\/p>\n<p>I will not be the one who doesn\u2019t take chances because she thinks that she can\u2019t handle them. Instead, I will try.<\/p>\n<p>I will try to do things that I never did before and if I fail, I will surely learn a lesson from it. But one thing is for sure\u2014I will keep trying until I get where I want.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Em 2025, estou a deixar o meu passado onde ele pertence<\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114107 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach.jpg\" alt=\"uma bela rapariga ruiva com uma t-shirt amarela est\u00e1 na praia\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-girl-in-a-yellow-T-shirt-stands-on-the-beach-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to think about the mistakes I made nor about how they affected my life. Instead, I want to focus on what is in front of me. I don\u2019t want to be harsh on myself just because I failed to do something right.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to feel bad about it anymore. I just want to let it go.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Speaking of letting go, I want to let go of something else\u2014all the toxic people who made a living hell out of my life.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to have any contact with them because I love my life and I don\u2019t want them to ruin it. I don\u2019t want to listen to them gossip about others because they will surely do it about me as well.<\/p>\n<p>I just want to be far away from them because they don\u2019t have the positive energy I crave. I will let go of anyone who makes me think that I am not worthy.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Em 2025, quero<\/i><\/b><b><i>parar de tentar ser algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o sou s\u00f3 para me integrar.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be someone people will mold into the shape of their own taste. This time, I want to be the real me, even if it means that others will turn their backs on me.<\/p>\n<p>At\u00e9 agora, aprendi que \u00e9 melhor estar sozinho do que em m\u00e1 companhia.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Em 2025, aprenderei a respeitar-me mais.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114108 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uma bela morena sorridente, com uma camisa cor-de-rosa e uma saia branca, est\u00e1 na rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/beautiful-smiling-brunette-in-a-pink-shirt-and-white-skirt-stands-on-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Farei tudo para chegar onde quero e pensarei mais em mim do que nos outros. Desta vez, vou fazer de mim uma prioridade e n\u00e3o uma op\u00e7\u00e3o. Penso que esse \u00e9 o caminho para a felicidade e hei-de l\u00e1 chegar, mais cedo ou mais tarde.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Em 2025, aprenderei <a href=\"https:\/\/www.huffingtonpost.com\/dr-ashlee-greer\/stop-letting-other-peoples-opinions-control-you_b_9587330.html\" rel=\"noopener\">not to bother my head with other people\u2019s opinions<\/a><\/i><\/b> .<\/p>\n<p>I<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-te-vou-desiludir\/\"> won\u2019t let anyone affect my life<\/a>. No final, sou eu que vou sofrer nesta pele, ou ser feliz, consoante a situa\u00e7\u00e3o. E isso \u00e9 uma \u00f3ptima raz\u00e3o para os outros me deixarem em paz.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t tolerate people coming into my life to make me feel sad. If they are to be a part of my life, they need to earn their place there. Otherwise, it doesn\u2019t make any sense.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Em 2025, aprenderei a amar-me novamente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Aceitar-me-ei com todos os pr\u00f3s e contras. Porque sou eu e todas as coisas que me aconteceram e que me transformaram na pessoa que sou hoje.<\/p>\n<p>Vou mostrar a mim pr\u00f3prio que n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m mais valioso do que eu. E depois de me aperceber disso, vou come\u00e7ar a acreditar nisso tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Em 2025, estou a concentrar-me na minha hist\u00f3ria.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-114109 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks.jpg\" alt=\"uma bela mulher ruiva, com um vestido cor de vinho e um casaco cinzento, caminha\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/a-beautiful-red-haired-woman-in-a-burgundy-dress-and-gray-coat-walks-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be a side character in someone else\u2019s story. This time, I want to be the protagonist. This year will be special because I will put myself first.<\/p>\n<p>Vou escolher-me a mim pr\u00f3prio. Vou pensar apenas de forma positiva. Vou aceitar-me tal como sou.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>E quando voltar atr\u00e1s, no final de 2025, quero dizer a mim pr\u00f3prio que este ano foi o ano em que algo mudou realmente.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Quero saber que, nesse ano, estabeleci novos objectivos que consegui alcan\u00e7ar. Quero sentir que realizei alguns dos meus desejos e que me coloquei num bom caminho para voltar a ser feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Quero sentir que aquele ano foi tudo o que eu andava \u00e0 procura e que finalmente encontrei a receita para uma vida boa.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Nesse ano, quero saber que finalmente me pus em primeiro lugar!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Em 2025, vou p\u00f4r-me a mim pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar \" class=\"wp-image-176444\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-8x12.jpg 8w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-640x960.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-Pinterest-800x1200.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In 2025, I want to feel real love. I want to feel the peace within. And I want all the scars on my soul to fade away. I will fight every thought about not being able to do something. Because I have had enough negative thoughts and that is not something I want to keep&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":176445,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/In-2025-I-Will-Put-Myself-First-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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