{"id":96950,"date":"2020-09-15T11:31:09","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:31:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=96950"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:11:47","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:11:47","slug":"desculpas-que-deve-deixar-de-utilizar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/desculpas-que-deve-deixar-de-utilizar\/","title":{"rendered":"5 desculpas que voc\u00ea deve parar de usar para permanecer em um relacionamento t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Olhando de fora, sair de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica deveria ser muito f\u00e1cil. Afinal de contas, tudo parece estar bem claro.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re unhappy being with your partner, it\u2019s apparent that your romance isn\u2019t going anywhere, and you are anything but compatible.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, o que \u00e9 que o impede de partir, quando as coisas parecem ser t\u00e3o \u00f3bvias?<\/p>\n

Well, the point is that you\u2019re probably using all kinds of excuses to stay in this toxic relationship.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s easier for you to hold on to these thoughts than to step out of your comfort zone and actually make a difference.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe will become the man I need\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"rosto<\/p>\n

A raz\u00e3o n\u00famero um pela qual as mulheres permanecem em m\u00e1s rela\u00e7\u00f5es \u00e9 uma esperan\u00e7a que n\u00e3o tem qualquer fundamento l\u00f3gico.<\/p>\n

Even though there\u2019s absolutely no sign that your o namorado pode mudar<\/a>Por alguma raz\u00e3o, acredita mesmo que isso vai acontecer.<\/p>\n

Esperas que ele acorde magicamente uma manh\u00e3 e perceba que deve deixar de te magoar.<\/p>\n

Pensa que o seu amor acabar\u00e1 por fazer com que ele mude de atitude e que o vosso romance mudar\u00e1 para melhor.<\/p>\n

Well, I hate to burst your bubble but people don\u2019t change unless they have a desire to do it themselves.<\/p>\n

Basically, you\u2019re waiting for a miracle that is unlikely to happen.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will regret my decision\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

What if you start to miss this man after you\u2019ve found the courage to leave him? What if you regret your decision the moment you make it?<\/p>\n

E se te aperceberes que, afinal, devias ter ficado com ele?<\/p>\n

E se ele acabar por ser o amor da sua vida e nunca o conseguir esquecer?<\/p>\n

Estas e outras perguntas semelhantes passam-lhe pela cabe\u00e7a sempre que pensa em acabar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something \u2013 this is exactly what your toxic boyfriend wants you to think.<\/p>\n

Foi ele que instalou essas d\u00favidas no teu c\u00e9rebro.<\/p>\n

The one who is deliberately playing with you and manipulating you into thinking that you can\u2019t make it without him.<\/p>\n

Trust me on this one: if you do leave him, it will be the best choice you\u2019ve ever made and you won\u2019t regret it for a second.<\/p>\n

\u201cHe is just emotionally broken\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s get one thing straight: your boyfriend doesn\u2019t treat you the way he does because he is emotionally unavailable and broken.<\/p>\n

He is not hurting you because he doesn\u2019t know any better.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a partir o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o sem ter consci\u00eancia disso.<\/p>\n

Ele n\u00e3o lhe est\u00e1 a dar migalhas do seu amor e aten\u00e7\u00e3o porque \u00e9 incapaz de amar.<\/p>\n

De facto, ele est\u00e1 a fazer tudo isso simplesmente porque pode. Em poucas palavras, ele \u00e9 um idiota<\/a>.<\/p>\n

With this in mind, I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll agree that he doesn\u2019t deserve your sympathy, so it\u2019s about time you stopped giving it to him.<\/p>\n

You keep finding excuses for his behavior and trying to dig deeper under his cold exterior. No, you won\u2019t find a vulnerable heart who loves you there.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll find nothing. There is no other part of his personality \u2013 he is just like that and this needs to stop being the reason why you stay with him.<\/p>\n

Contentar-se com menos vs. morrer sozinho<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Para ti, s\u00f3 h\u00e1 duas op\u00e7\u00f5es na vida. Podes deixar este tipo e morrer sozinha ou continuar a contentar-te com menos do que mereces.<\/p>\n

So, you assume that it\u2019s better to be with someone than to face loneliness.<\/p>\n

This man has convinced you that you\u2019re not meant to be loved and without him, you\u2019ll be forever single.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, this couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

In fact, I promise you that you\u2019ll find a man who deserves you if you pluck up the courage to leave this one behind.<\/p>\n

No entanto, mesmo que acabe por ficar solteiro, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 absolutamente nada de errado nisso.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy and I\u2019m sure you\u2019ll rock your solitude.<\/p>\n

\u201cI will be his hero\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Outro dos equ\u00edvocos comuns que muitas mulheres t\u00eam quando se trata de permanecer numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica \u00e9 a cren\u00e7a de que o seu homem precisa delas.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest: you would probably walk away from your boyfriend but you feel responsible for him.<\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019re the only one who can save him. The only one who can drag him out of his darkness and show him the light.<\/p>\n

Hear me out on this one: it\u2019s not your duty to reparar homens quebrados<\/a>. It\u2019s not your responsibility to sort his life out, help him grow up, or fight his demons.<\/p>\n

P\u00e1ra de p\u00f4r a felicidade dele \u00e0 frente da tua. Mais importante ainda: p\u00e1ra de p\u00f4r esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o condenada \u00e0 frente da tua paz.<\/p>\n

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Looking on from the outside, leaving a toxic relationship should be a piece of cake. After all, everything seems to be pretty clear. You\u2019re unhappy being with your partner, it\u2019s apparent that your romance isn\u2019t going anywhere, and you are anything but compatible. So, what is keeping you from leaving, when things seem to be…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":96960,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-96950","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-Excuses-You-Should-Stop-Using-To-Stay-In-A-Toxic-Relationship.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96950","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=96950"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/96950\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96960"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=96950"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=96950"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=96950"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}