While you might not like to admit it, I know that you\u2019ve caught yourself in the following behavior patterns at least once in your life.<\/p>\n
Well, good news: You\u2019re not alone.<\/p>\n
Coment\u00e1rios sarc\u00e1sticos<\/h2>\n
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Sarcasm and irony are all fun and games when you find someone who\u2019s on the same wavelength as you.<\/p>\n
No entanto, isso \u00e9 bastante raro e este tipo de coment\u00e1rios \u00e9 mais provavelmente uma forma de comportamento passivo-agressivo.<\/p>\n
As piadas s\u00e3o uma coisa. Afinal de contas, toda a gente adora uma rapariga com um grande sentido de humor.<\/p>\n
Mas o sarcasmo \u00e9 uma coisa completamente diferente e us\u00e1-lo para gozar com o seu parceiro nunca \u00e9 aceit\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n
Eu percebo. Tentas disfar\u00e7ar os teus coment\u00e1rios com humor.<\/p>\n
If you see that he got insulted, you can always tell that you didn\u2019t mean it and that you were joking.<\/p>\n
But it\u2019s time to stop doing it. Your partner needs to know when you\u2019re serious and when you\u2019re just messing around.<\/p>\n
O tratamento silencioso<\/h2>\n
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Simply put, you\u2019re giving your boyfriend the silent treatment when you refuse to talk to him.<\/p>\n
However, you don\u2019t tell him that you\u2019ve stopped talking \u2013 you just start ignoring him.<\/p>\n
This is not ghosting; you don\u2019t disappear from his life. You\u2019re still there, you just pretend that he is not present next to you.<\/p>\n
Sometimes you do this because you don\u2019t know to express yourself verbally the right way.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re scared that you\u2019ll start insulting him or say something you don\u2019t really mean, so you choose to remain silent.<\/p>\n
At other times, you do it deliberately. You don\u2019t want to break up with your boyfriend, but you want to punish him by not talking to him.<\/p>\n
Either way, this isn\u2019t rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel<\/a> comportamento.<\/p>\n You might expect your problems to magically go away if you don\u2019t talk them through.<\/p>\n In reality, you\u2019ll achieve precisely the opposite effect. Sometimes, you need to fight your issues out and solve them in that way.<\/p>\n Sabe como a maioria dos homens acusa as mulheres de serem chatas a toda a hora?<\/p>\n Bem, mesmo que possa considerar isto um estere\u00f3tipo, \u00e9 um facto comprovado que muitas raparigas s\u00e3o culpadas desta forma de comportamento passivo-agressivo.<\/p>\n Basicamente, queixa-se regularmente sem uma raz\u00e3o \u00f3bvia. Anda pela casa, todo rabugento, mostrando que nada funciona para si.<\/p>\n O problema com este padr\u00e3o de comportamento \u00e9 que nunca aparece do nada. Em vez disso, tem sempre uma hist\u00f3ria mais profunda.<\/p>\n For you, it\u2019s more than clear that you\u2019re not satisfied with something in your relationship.<\/p>\n Pode estar descontente com algo que o seu namorado fez anteriormente.<\/p>\n No entanto, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa.<\/p>\n Your boyfriend doesn\u2019t have the ability to find a cause-effect relationship between these two things.<\/p>\n So, he concludes that you\u2019re just being grumpy for nothing.<\/p>\n What I\u2019m trying to tell you here is that you\u2019ll accomplish literally nothing with this behavior.<\/p>\n In fact, you\u2019ll just chase him away even more with your negative energy.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, pense na sua insatisfa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio o que realmente o incomoda e tenha uma conversa madura sobre isso com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n If you\u2019re one of those people who constantly criticize their partner, I have a newsflash for you: He was like this when you met him. <\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, tens duas op\u00e7\u00f5es: Podes aceitar todos os defeitos dele ou afastar-se<\/a>.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t misunderstand me.<\/p>\n Nobody is attacking you for not being happy with your boyfriend\u2019s behavior, his progress in life, or the way he treats you.<\/p>\n However, you won\u2019t get anywhere if you point out his imperfections all the time. In fact, he\u2019ll just end up rebelling even more against you.<\/p>\nComportamento rabugento<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nCr\u00edticas constantes<\/h2>\n
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