{"id":97033,"date":"2020-09-15T11:45:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T11:45:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=97033"},"modified":"2021-08-12T09:10:21","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T09:10:21","slug":"aceitar-as-coisas-como-elas-sao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/aceitar-as-coisas-como-elas-sao\/","title":{"rendered":"Como aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o e 10 maneiras de mudar a sua vida"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dizerem-nos para aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o pode ser uma no\u00e7\u00e3o confusa. Afinal de contas, porque \u00e9 que o faria? A forma como reagimos a uma coisa depende inteiramente de n\u00f3s, certo?<\/p>\n<p><strong>But hear me out. As &#8220;unacceptable&#8221; as some things may appear to be, when you learn to practice acceptance in difficult situations, you are actually working toward your own well being.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>De que \u00e9 que estou a falar?<\/em> Well, it&#8217;s quite simple really.<\/p>\n<p>A vida tende a funcionar de forma misteriosa, o que pode fazer com que, por vezes, seja dif\u00edcil apreciar o momento presente.<\/p>\n<p>Num dia, somos a pessoa mais feliz do mundo e, no dia seguinte, os pensamentos negativos dominam-nos e a nossa paz de esp\u00edrito desaparece sem deixar rasto.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 precisamente por isso que aprender a lidar com situa\u00e7\u00f5es negativas \u00e9 crucial.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The power of acceptance allows you to recognize a particular situation for what it is and helps you truly understand someone else&#8217;s point of view.<\/p>\n<p>Acontecer\u00e3o coisas m\u00e1s e a sua situa\u00e7\u00e3o atual pode ser comprometida num piscar de olhos.<\/p>\n<p>Ent\u00e3o, como \u00e9 que se lida com a situa\u00e7\u00e3o atual sem perder a sanidade?<\/p>\n<p><em>Here&#8217;s your foolproof guide to preserving your inner peace in the face of the most negative situations.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/relacao-enredada-dicas-para-a-ultrapassar\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Relacionamento enredado: Defini\u00e7\u00e3o, sinais e dicas para super\u00e1-lo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>O poder da aceita\u00e7\u00e3o e 8 passos para o conseguir<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"reset numbered-headline\">Acknowledge what you&#8217;re dealing with<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97120\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com roupa informal a beber caf\u00e9 no escrit\u00f3rio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-casual-clothes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O primeiro passo para a paz interior \u00e9 aprender a reconhecer aquilo com que se est\u00e1 a lidar e a sua gravidade real.<\/p>\n<p>Um grande n\u00famero de pessoas que conhe\u00e7o est\u00e3o constantemente chocadas com as situa\u00e7\u00f5es em que se encontram.<\/p>\n<p>They&#8217;ll be like: &#8220;Oh my God, how can this be happening?!&#8221; or &#8220;I don&#8217;t understand why this is happening to me!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>E isso \u00e9 o resultado de n\u00e3o estarem dispostos a enfrentar o que est\u00e1 \u00e0 sua frente.<\/p>\n<p>We all get so caught up in our heads that we foolishly believe something is manageable, when in fact, it&#8217;s the opposite.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E depois, quando uma situa\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz se apresenta, somos apanhados de surpresa, a suspirar de incredulidade em vez de estarmos preparados para diferentes resultados poss\u00edveis.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>People have a tendency to create a bubble of self-delusion and distance themselves from reality by believing that something &#8220;simply needs to work out&#8221;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mas raramente funciona assim. A vida tem outros planos e a bolha rebenta antes de se ter a oportunidade de desfrutar da ilus\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 aqui que \u00e9 preciso dar um passo em frente e ver as coisas como elas realmente s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>You cannot allow yourself to be presented with facts and foolishly negate them because they don&#8217;t fit your preferred idea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97126\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher pensativa, com roupa confort\u00e1vel, segurando uma ch\u00e1vena perto de si, sentada no sof\u00e1 da sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-pensive-woman-in-cozy-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If you are given a red purse and you keep claiming it&#8217;s blue, it&#8217;s not going to change color \u2013 no matter how deeply you want it to.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o vale a pena ficar chocado e ser apanhado de surpresa por algo, recusando-se a reconhec\u00ea-lo pelo que \u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re in this situation whether you like it or not.<\/p>\n<p>You have two options. Recognize its importance and gravity or keep pretending it isn&#8217;t so.<\/p>\n<p>Podem passar dois anos e meio a iludir-se ou podem enfrentar a m\u00fasica.<\/p>\n<p>Tente canalizar as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas para encontrar algo de positivo na situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Como disse Buda: <em><strong>\u201cThe mind is everything. What you think, you become.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>So dig deep within yourself and try to figure out why you&#8217;re having such a hard time with non-acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>Estar\u00e1 apenas a agarrar-se a uma esperan\u00e7a perdida e ser\u00e1 altura de aceitar a realidade e seguir em frente?<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ter empatia consigo pr\u00f3prio durante todo o processo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97135\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de cabelo curto pensativa com as m\u00e3os a apoiar a cabe\u00e7a numa fotografia focada\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-short-haired-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s perfectly okay if you don&#8217;t see the point in acceptance at first. It can be daunting and difficult to imagine.<\/p>\n<p>So don&#8217;t be too hard on yourself if you find it challenging.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not a crime to find it hard to make peace with something you&#8217;re not happy about.<\/p>\n<p>E tens todo o direito de te sentires como te sentires nesta situa\u00e7\u00e3o espec\u00edfica.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But by learning to accept things as they are, you are granting yourself the ability to open your mind to things you never believed you&#8217;d find okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You are going to go through an array of emotions and stages before you&#8217;re able to fully embrace them. But that&#8217;s okay.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not a marathon. It&#8217;s a journey that&#8217;s going to be challenging to say the least.<\/p>\n<p>Permita-se respirar e dar um passo atr\u00e1s de vez em quando.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You are going to have an occasional freak-out (we all do) and you&#8217;re going to struggle at times, depending on the situation.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97136\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning.jpg\" alt=\"mulher adulta encostada \u00e0 parede com um top branco sem mangas\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-woman-leaning-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t be too hard on yourself. Don&#8217;t beat yourself up and criticize yourself for not being okay with certain things.<\/p>\n<p>A vida \u00e9 confusa e todos n\u00f3s ficamos presos, mas isso nunca deve impedir-nos de perseguir os nossos sonhos.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s what I do whenever I&#8217;m in a difficult situation that is preventing me from being as happy as I know I deserve to be.<\/p>\n<p>I visualize myself on a sunny, warm island. The sun is shining, birds are chirping, and I&#8217;m lounging on the beach, sipping my Martini.<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s a mild breeze and an overwhelming sense of calm.<\/p>\n<p>And nothing can go wrong here. I&#8217;m in paradise, completely at peace with myself and my surroundings.<\/p>\n<p>E \u00e9 isto que me ajuda a manter-me concentrado na tarefa que tenho em m\u00e3os nos momentos dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que, um dia, esta vai ser a minha realidade. Talvez n\u00e3o hoje, ou mesmo no pr\u00f3ximo ano.<\/p>\n<p>Mas um dia vou estar a beber aquele Martini, livre de todas as preocupa\u00e7\u00f5es, sabendo que est\u00e1 tudo bem.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And do you know what? It will be. Whatever you&#8217;re going through, visualize your happy place, and concentrate on what awaits you. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>I<em> promessa<\/em> it&#8217;ll help you cope.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Don&#8217;t take things personally (you&#8217;re <em>n\u00e3o<\/em> a victim of life&#8217;s cruel circumstances)<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97137\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa sentada ao ar livre em caminhos cimentados\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-sitting-outdoors-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s be honest here. We&#8217;ve all (at one point or another) had this annoying feeling like we&#8217;re constantly being targeted by life.<\/p>\n<p>Bad things keep piling on and it&#8217;s as if someone has it in for you. But I&#8217;m sorry to let you know you&#8217;re just dealing with some bad luck. That&#8217;s all.<\/p>\n<p>O ano passado foi provavelmente um dos piores anos da minha vida.<\/p>\n<p>Tive um problema atr\u00e1s do outro, desde perder um ente querido a problemas de trabalho, passando por ter de mudar de casa tr\u00eas vezes. Foi uma seca total.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But I didn&#8217;t let it get to me. I knew that life had dealt me a lousy hand and I had no choice but to accept it and learn to cope.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Did I like it? Absolutely not. But did I think that the world had conspired against me? Again &#8211; no.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So whatever you&#8217;re going through and whoever is causing you disarray, just know that most of the time it truly isn&#8217;t personal.<\/p>\n<p>When people treat you poorly in any capacity, it&#8217;s merely a reflection of how they&#8217;re feeling inside.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97140\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa apoiada nos corrim\u00f5es ao ar livre na cidade\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/pensive-woman-leaning--720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Lembra-te disso. A vida real pode ser mesmo uma seca, por vezes.<\/p>\n<p>Mas o \u00fanico caminho para o auto-aperfei\u00e7oamento \u00e9 reconhecer que <strong>\u00e9 preciso aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>Not because it&#8217;s good for you and not because you <em>tem de<\/em> como ele.<\/p>\n<p>But because if you don&#8217;t, you&#8217;ll constantly be looking over your shoulder. This too shall pass.<\/p>\n<p>Life doesn&#8217;t have it in for you and you haven\u2019t been put on this earth to suffer eternally.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re just experiencing a particularly lousy period that is preventing you from seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.<\/p>\n<p>But there is a light, scout&#8217;s honor! Just hold on a little while longer and start practicing the power of acceptance.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-ex-ja-anda-com-outra-pessoa-e-isso-magoa\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">O meu ex j\u00e1 anda a sair com outra pessoa e isso magoa - \u00e9 por isso<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Just because you accept it doesn&#8217;t mean you have to like it<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97141\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female.jpg\" alt=\"vista lateral de uma mulher pensativa sentada ao ar livre \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/sideview-of-a-pensive-female-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Okay, here&#8217;s what most people get wrong about this. Accepting things as they are doesn&#8217;t mean you have to like it in any way, shape, or form.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t let anyone delude you into thinking that just because you&#8217;re trying to be okay with something, you&#8217;re suddenly a fan of it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Acceptance doesn&#8217;t have anything to do with your preferences. You are merely accepting a situation exactly the way it is. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;re not trying to change it because you know it&#8217;s futile.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s a sign of maturity and progression.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, in an ideal world, everything would be exactly to your liking and you wouldn&#8217;t have to struggle with accepting negative situations.<\/p>\n<p>But we don&#8217;t live in an ideal world. Things don&#8217;t always go to plan, and sometimes, you&#8217;ll have to compromise.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97142\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively.jpg\" alt=\"mulher sentada pensativa nas pequenas rochas \u00e0 beira-mar, usando um top branco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-sitting-pensively-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E a melhor maneira de aproveitar o momento presente \u00e9 fazer as pazes com as coisas que n\u00e3o se podem mudar.<\/p>\n<p>Quantas vezes negou a si pr\u00f3prio a felicidade por estar a pensar em algo que gostaria que fosse diferente?<\/p>\n<p>E o que \u00e9 que isso vos trouxe de bom?<\/p>\n<p>Acho que j\u00e1 sei a resposta. Por isso, a partir de agora, em vez de ficar a remoer, comece a aceitar.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to like it in the least. But you do have to accept it for your own well being. The only way forward is through.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por isso, poupe a sua mente de pensamentos desnecess\u00e1rios, aceite as coisas como elas s\u00e3o e viva a vida que ama. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Some things are simply beyond your control and that&#8217;s okay.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ver a aceita\u00e7\u00e3o como uma forma de autocontrolo<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97144\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed.jpg\" alt=\"mulher \u00e1rabe de olhos fechados encostada \u00e0 parede do edif\u00edcio em vista lateral\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/arab-woman-with-eyes-closed-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The way things currently are doesn&#8217;t have to be ideal. And I bet that it isn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>Does this mean that you shouldn&#8217;t accept it even though you cannot affect it? Quite the contrary.<\/p>\n<p>You see&#8230; we all should fight for what we want and believe in. After all, isn&#8217;t that what life is all about?<\/p>\n<p>Encontrar aquilo que incendeia a nossa alma e perseverar at\u00e9 o conseguirmos?<\/p>\n<p>But sometimes, you&#8217;ll hit a bump or two. Sometimes, it&#8217;ll be manageable, and other times, the obstacles will be insurmountable.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E, nesses mesmos momentos, decide-se como tudo se vai desenrolar. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Vai continuar a perseguir algo que se est\u00e1 a revelar ilus\u00f3rio (para dizer o m\u00ednimo) ou vai atirar a toalha ao ch\u00e3o?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In my experience, it&#8217;s always best to know when it&#8217;s time to cut your losses and move on. You can&#8217;t win them all.<\/p>\n<p>And when you learn to be truly at peace with that, you&#8217;re going to achieve a level of self-control that not many possess.<\/p>\n<p>Isso ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 a viver a vida com mais paz e tranquilidade.<\/p>\n<p>Situations won&#8217;t always be desirable, but when you cannot affect the outcome, it&#8217;s best to just accept things as they are and move on to something better.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97146\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman-.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de neg\u00f3cios adulta a fechar os olhos, de p\u00e9 no telhado de um edif\u00edcio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman-.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/adult-business-woman--720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>And yes, it&#8217;s possible to find the peace within by acknowledging that some things just cannot be changed. <em>\u00c9 assim:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By distancing yourself from the situation once you realize it&#8217;s out of your hands. A healthy separation will help you heal.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Understanding that you shouldn&#8217;t punish yourself for something you had zero control over.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By allowing things to unfold the way you know they should regardless of your personal preferences.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Letting go of your toxic habit to react instinctively. It&#8217;s always preferable to count to 10 before making any judgments.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By finally knowing not to expect anything positive out of a negative experience. Some things aren&#8217;t meant to go your way.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 Choosing to remain calm amidst it all. You are the one who decides how you let it affect you. Choose wisely.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2022 By not agreeing with it but at the same time not being against it. Simply let it be the way that it is.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Desta forma, aprende o poder do autocontrolo que o ajudar\u00e1 a viver em paz.<\/p>\n<p>A chave \u00e9 n\u00e3o deixar que as emo\u00e7\u00f5es negativas controlem a forma como a sua vida se desenrola.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A aceita\u00e7\u00e3o pode trazer surpresas inesperadas e positivas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97147\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de uma senhora sorridente sentada perto de uma massa de \u00e1gua com a m\u00e3o no cabelo \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/portrait-of-a-smiling-lady-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 pensou no que poderia acontecer se decidisse deixar de lutar contra algo que n\u00e3o pode afetar?<\/p>\n<p>Sei que pode parecer disparatado, mas h\u00e1 muitas b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3os escondidas mesmo nas situa\u00e7\u00f5es mais dif\u00edceis.<\/p>\n<p>And when you stop fighting it and start accepting it, you&#8217;ll see what I mean.<\/p>\n<p>Poder\u00e1 mesmo aprender uma ou duas coisas sobre o funcionamento de algo em particular ou, melhor ainda, melhorar as suas pr\u00f3prias capacidades que lhe permitir\u00e3o reagir adequadamente.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sure you&#8217;ve heard the inspiring saying: <strong><em>\u201cEvery cloud has a silver lining\u201d<\/em>. E \u00e9 verdade!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s my personal example that I feel fits perfectly here. A few years ago, I broke up with my then-fiance.<\/p>\n<p>Needless to say &#8211;<em> era mau.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>At the time, it was truly a devastating period that I couldn&#8217;t imagine yielding any positivity.<\/p>\n<p>And for a while, it didn&#8217;t. I was lonely, sad, depressed, and hopeless.<\/p>\n<p>Tinha acabado de perder o amor da minha vida, a \u00fanica pessoa com quem esperava de todo o cora\u00e7\u00e3o envelhecer ao lado.<\/p>\n<p>What was I supposed to do now? How was I ever going to meet someone who&#8217;d understand me so deeply?<\/p>\n<p>Mas, tal como nos filmes, conheci algu\u00e9m quando menos esperava.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97149\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge.jpg\" alt=\"casal parado numa ponte de madeira a olhar um para o outro no seu primeiro encontro\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/couple-standing-at-wooden-bridge-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ainda estava a recuperar da separa\u00e7\u00e3o, completamente incapaz de estar com algu\u00e9m nessa altura.<\/p>\n<p>Mas, como a vida quis, ele perseguiu-me at\u00e9 eu concordar em sair com ele, e ainda bem que o fiz.<\/p>\n<p>Este homem era tudo o que eu nunca pensei que precisava e muito mais.<\/p>\n<p>Ele ajudou-me a sair do meu po\u00e7o sem fundo, esperando pacientemente que eu chegasse a um ponto em que pudesse corresponder aos seus sentimentos.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E, sem mais nem menos, uma das piores experi\u00eancias da minha vida trouxe-me a melhor pessoa <\/strong><strong>I&#8217;ve ever known.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Things will seem dark for a while. Then one day, you&#8217;ll start seeing a glimmer of light.<\/p>\n<p>Perceber\u00e1 que o que aconteceu teve de acontecer para lhe trazer algo melhor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nem sempre \u00e9 esse o caso. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>But doesn&#8217;t the mere fact that it is an actual possibility make the current situation at least a bit more manageable?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/como-deixar-de-procurar-a-validacao-dos-outros\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Como deixar de procurar a valida\u00e7\u00e3o dos outros para come\u00e7ar a prosperar<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Flaws and weaknesses are a part of everyone&#8217;s nature<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97151\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog.jpg\" alt=\"pessoa de p\u00e9 com um c\u00e3o perto de uma massa de \u00e1gua e de relva\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/person-standing-with-a-dog-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a scenario. You&#8217;re walking down the street, minding your own business, and you see a dog with its owner approaching you.<\/p>\n<p>You think to yourself: &#8220;Oh what a sweet doggo, I have to pet it!&#8221; which you do with a smile on your face the minute they pass you by.<\/p>\n<p>But instead of the cuddle that you expected in return, the dog bites your fingers (just barely), barks, and crawls back between its owner&#8217;s legs.<\/p>\n<p>Ora, \u00e9 evidente que o c\u00e3o n\u00e3o queria que lhe fizessem festas (como \u00e9 seu direito).<\/p>\n<p>But in this situation, you don&#8217;t go off on the sweet furry creature, because you get it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You understand that you probably should&#8217;ve asked if it was okay <em>previamente<\/em>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So you say that you&#8217;re sorry and give the dog a reassuring look, feeling really badly about assuming it would be okay with unsolicited attention.<\/p>\n<p>See where I&#8217;m going with this? People are oddly similar to dogs in this particular sense.<\/p>\n<p>You know that it&#8217;s in a dog&#8217;s nature to react (by barking or biting) if it feels threatened in any way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas isso s\u00f3 nos causa ang\u00fastia ou aborrecimento se nos recusarmos a aceit\u00e1-lo como uma parte normal (e bastante esperada) do seu comportamento.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97152\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9 perto de relva e de uma massa de \u00e1gua com um casaco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-standing-near-grasses-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Neste cen\u00e1rio, \u00e9 poss\u00edvel aceitar plenamente as coisas como elas s\u00e3o. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Aplique isto \u00e0 sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o com os seres humanos na sua vida quotidiana e veja como as coisas come\u00e7am subitamente a melhorar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s face it. Accepting that people are all flawed is much easier than constantly being flabbergasted by their actions.<\/p>\n<p>Para o conseguir, basta observar as pessoas que est\u00e3o entre n\u00f3s para descobrir a sua natureza.<\/p>\n<p>Once you do, it&#8217;ll become increasingly easier to accept them as they are and stop wasting time on being annoyed and mad.<\/p>\n<p>E o mesmo se aplica \u00e0s circunst\u00e2ncias.<\/p>\n<p>Depending on the particular situation you\u2019re in, you learn to embrace things that you cannot control quite quickly.<\/p>\n<p>You know what can be expected, therefore, you don&#8217;t allow yourself to lose sleep over it. Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because you&#8217;ve trained yourself to see it coming, which makes life that much easier.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Whenever you&#8217;re in doubt remember that this too shall pass.<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97154\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man.jpg\" alt=\"mulher ignorando o homem em foco, de p\u00e9 num campo relvado com pessoas em fundo\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-ignoring-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cPain is your friend; it is your ally. Pain reminds you to finish the job and get the hell home. Pain tells you when you have been seriously wounded. And you know what the best thing about pain is? It tells you you\u2019re not dead yet!\u201d<\/strong> <\/em>\u2013 G.I Jane<\/p>\n<p>Pense nisso. Sobreviveu a todas as dores de cabe\u00e7a, a todos os obst\u00e1culos intranspon\u00edveis e a todos os desafios que a vida lhe colocou.<\/p>\n<p>Every single time you thought that you couldn&#8217;t pick yourself up, you did.<\/p>\n<p>Sempre que teve a certeza de que a vida nunca mais seria a mesma, provou que estava enganado.<\/p>\n<p>De cada vez que algu\u00e9m te partiu o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e sentiste que o mundo tinha parado, conseguiste seguir em frente. <em>O que \u00e9 que isso vos diz?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;re a survivor. You go through hard times and you don&#8217;t let them chip away at your hope.<\/p>\n<p>You hold your head high and manage to crack a smile even when it&#8217;s the last thing you feel like doing.<\/p>\n<p>Sabe que a procrastina\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o leva a nada de bom. Sabe que sentir pena de si pr\u00f3prio \u00e9 contraproducente para o seu bem-estar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And every single time you feel like life has defeated you, you prove it wrong. Doesn&#8217;t that make you feel strong and badass?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>All the pain you feel is temporary. However lost you feel right now, it&#8217;s going to be okay within weeks.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97436\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher madura a pensar e a sorrir enquanto descansa no sof\u00e1\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mature-woman-thinking-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It might be hard to accept it now, but your whole life you&#8217;ve been proving this to be a fact.<\/p>\n<p>And now, for your own peace of mind, pick yourself up, remind yourself that there isn&#8217;t a challenge you cannot overcome and move forward.<\/p>\n<p>One day, you&#8217;ll be laughing about this. <em>Scout&#8217;s honor<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/8-sinais-de-que-e-uma-pessoa-que-gosta-de-agradar-as-pessoas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">8 sinais de que voc\u00ea agrada as pessoas e como deixar de ser um<\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\"><em><strong>10 maneiras de a sua vida come\u00e7ar a mudar para melhor<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Na vida, h\u00e1 muitas coisas que est\u00e3o fora do nosso controlo.<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas v\u00e3o-se embora, acontecem coisas infelizes a toda a hora e deparamo-nos com obst\u00e1culos que, por vezes, nos parecem maiores do que podemos suportar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Mas quando se aprende a aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o, com a ajuda dos passos acima mencionados, <em>este<\/em> is how it&#8217;ll change your life.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"reset numbered-headline\">Come\u00e7ar\u00e1 a acreditar mais em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97437\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"jovem mulher encantadora com cabelo loiro a sorrir no est\u00fadio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>If we&#8217;re being honest, the only person in your way is none other than you. You choose how you let things affect you.<\/p>\n<p>So when you train your mind to accept things and embrace the uncomfortable facts, you&#8217;ll start having more faith in yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll see that you are capable of taking on problems of all magnitudes and live your life peacefully, regardless of them.<\/p>\n<p>E tudo isto far\u00e1 com que seja muito mais f\u00e1cil apreciar o momento presente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Treinar\u00e1 a sua mente para reagir \u00e0s coisas de uma perspetiva racional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97441\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman.jpg\" alt=\"mulher adulta m\u00e9dia a sorrir ao ar livre num dia de sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/mid-adult-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>We are all guilty of reacting passionately instead of rationally sometimes. That&#8217;s just in our nature.<\/p>\n<p>But how much easier would your life be if you found a way to react in a way that doesn&#8217;t relieve you of your peace of mind?<\/p>\n<p>Ao seguir os passos acima, isto pode tornar-se realidade. Este \u00e9 o seu bilhete para uma vida sem stress (com excep\u00e7\u00f5es ocasionais) e uma navega\u00e7\u00e3o bastante tranquila.<\/p>\n<p>Give it a shot and see how good things can be for a change. Not being fazed by things is the dream, and it&#8217;s well within your reach.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll finally replace that fake smile with a genuine one<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97442\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle.jpg\" alt=\"imagem em \u00e2ngulo baixo de uma mulher a sorrir com as m\u00e3os na cintura\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-in-low-angle-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it feels like we have to force ourselves to be happy every day, doesn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n<p>For work, for our parents, for our friends going through their own thing&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Mas torna-se muito cansativo. A certa altura, s\u00f3 queremos ser genuinamente felizes. E esta \u00e9 a sua forma de l\u00e1 chegar. Aceita as coisas que n\u00e3o podes mudar.<\/p>\n<p>Fa\u00e7a as pazes com as circunst\u00e2ncias fora do seu controlo e viva a vida que quer viver.<\/p>\n<p>Once you do, you&#8217;ll notice that fake smile disappearing and a real one forming.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/regra-de-nao-contacto-o-poder-do-silencio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Regra de n\u00e3o contacto: O poder do sil\u00eancio ap\u00f3s uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Seguir em frente deixar\u00e1 de parecer uma tarefa imposs\u00edvel<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97444\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"figura desfocada de uma mulher de costas para o mar e p\u00e1ssaros a voar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/defocused-figure-of-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And isn&#8217;t that kind of the entire goal here? Moving on unaffected?<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve probably fooled yourself that you were okay more than once. But this mantra will help you actually<em> ser<\/em> Est\u00e1 bem, e vamos em frente.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll realize that you should&#8217;ve done this a long time ago&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97446\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita ao ar livre, mantendo o cabelo afastado do rosto\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/lovely-woman-outdoor-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But you&#8217;ll be okay with the fact that you didn&#8217;t! You will understand that this is your moment and the timing couldn&#8217;t have been better.<\/p>\n<p>Now you&#8217;re much stronger and more resilient, therefore, you&#8217;re able to accept it all and let it go just like that.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll start oozing confidence<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97447\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher de camisola branca e auscultadores grandes a sorrir e sentada nos bancos\/cadeiras ao ar livre\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-in-white-tank-top-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>And people will notice it too. You&#8217;ll be much more confident in yourself and it will show.<\/p>\n<p>There will be a new sense of pride within you that won&#8217;t go unnoticed.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s what usually happens once people get to this point.<\/p>\n<p>Unimportant things stop mattering, the big things don&#8217;t seem so big anymore, and the notion to enjoy the little things is no longer lost on you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll start being more goal-oriented<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97448\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman.jpg\" alt=\"retrato recortado de uma mulher sentada na sua mesa de escrit\u00f3rio\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/cropped-portrait-of-a-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>A sua nova perspetiva ajud\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 muito nessa tarefa.<\/p>\n<p>A sua motiva\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 a mesma. Os seus objectivos v\u00e3o finalmente parecer mais pr\u00f3ximos e a sua atitude vai prosperar.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll understand that life is full of unexpected twists and turns, but that doesn&#8217;t mean you should lose your cool.<\/p>\n<p>The power of acceptance will lead you through life and you&#8217;ll be motivated to do things you used to fear. The sky will be your limit.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll be as close to healthy living as ever<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97449\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a comer alimentos saud\u00e1veis na cama do hotel \" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-eating-healthy-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The occasional drink you used to have after a draining day won&#8217;t seem so alluring anymore.<\/p>\n<p>O fast-food que era o seu conforto ser\u00e1 substitu\u00eddo por uma dieta mais saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll start making small (but important) changes to your life that&#8217;ll jump-start a path to healthy living.<\/p>\n<p>Be it cigarettes, alcohol, unhealthy food&#8230;.you won&#8217;t find it so hard saying no anymore.<\/p>\n<p>A sua nova perspetiva de vida ir\u00e1 mudar completamente a sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/confie-no-tempo-da-sua-vida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u00c9 por isso que tens de confiar no timing da tua vida<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">You&#8217;ll find yourself sleeping better<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97450\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping.jpg\" alt=\"mulher jovem a dormir profundamente numa cama de linho branco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/young-woman-sleeping-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sabe-se que o stress afecta a nossa vida e a nossa capacidade de dormir \u00e0 noite.<\/p>\n<p>And if you used to have trouble sleeping, don&#8217;t be surprised if it all starts changing.<\/p>\n<p>Sleepless nights will be replaced with a night of full rest. And do you know why? Because you won&#8217;t go to bed anxiety-ridden.<\/p>\n<p>There won&#8217;t be a million issues rummaging through your mind.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ll know what deserves your attention and when to accept things as they are. And life will be peachy again.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">E estar\u00e1 muito mais bem equipado para ajudar um ente querido em necessidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97451\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior.jpg\" alt=\"Mulher ajuda homem s\u00e9nior a entrar num transporte p\u00fablico\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-helping-senior-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>E h\u00e1 algo melhor do que saber que conseguimos ajudar algu\u00e9m que amamos?<\/p>\n<p>As pessoas \u00e0 sua volta passam pelos seus pr\u00f3prios problemas, mas a sua ansiedade impede-o muitas vezes de se aperceber disso.<\/p>\n<p>So once you&#8217;ve got all your ducks in a row, your eyes will be more open to this.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The way you&#8217;ve managed to change <em>seu<\/em> life will help you make a change in someone else&#8217;s.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And once you do, it&#8217;ll be ten times more gratifying than anything before.<\/p>\n<p>Mudar a sua pr\u00f3pria vida \u00e9 suficientemente importante.<\/p>\n<p>But once this encourages others to make necessary adjustments in their own lives, it&#8217;s on a whole other level.<\/p>\n<p>H\u00e1 sempre uma forma de dar a volta \u00e0s coisas. S\u00f3 temos de estar dispostos a abrir a nossa mente e ver isso.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>\u201cIf you\u2019re feeling low, don\u2019t despair. The sun has a sinking spell every night, but it comes back up every morning. The way I see it, if you want the rainbow, you gotta put up with the rain.\u201d<\/strong> <\/em>\u2013 Dolly Parton<\/p>\n<p>Ver tamb\u00e9m: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/desafio-30-dias-de-amor-proprio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Desafio de 30 dias para o amor-pr\u00f3prio: torne-se a melhor vers\u00e3o de si mesmo<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-97455\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Como aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o e 10 maneiras de mudar a sua vida\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Being told to accept things as they are can be a confusing notion. After all, why should you? It is entirely up to you how you react to something, right? But hear me out. As &#8220;unacceptable&#8221; as some things may appear to be, when you learn to practice acceptance in difficult situations, you are actually&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":97453,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29637],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97033","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-life-hacks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29637,"label":"life hacks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/How-To-Accept-Things-As-They-Are-10-Ways-Itll-Change-Your-Life.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29637,"name":"life hacks","slug":"life-hacks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29637,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","parent":22911,"count":281,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29637,"category_count":281,"category_description":"When life gives you lemons - make lemonade, and allow these life hacks to remind you of your strength, potential, and the right to be happy.","cat_name":"life hacks","category_nicename":"life-hacks","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97033","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97033"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97033\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/97453"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97033"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97033"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97033"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}