{"id":9748,"date":"2020-10-07T09:35:31","date_gmt":"2020-10-07T09:35:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9748"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:04:55","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:04:55","slug":"homem-que-ama-o-abuso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/homem-que-ama-o-abuso\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o homem que me ama depois dos meus abusos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu sei que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil amar algu\u00e9m quebrado. Eu sei que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil amar algu\u00e9m que ainda est\u00e1 preso no seu passado abusivo.<\/p>\n

I know it\u2019s hard to love someone who is afraid of your love and touch<\/b> . Para amar algu\u00e9m que acredita que n\u00e3o \u00e9 am\u00e1vel.<\/a> But you still love me, you\u2019re still here.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re still waiting for me.<\/p>\n

Por isso, obrigada. Obrigado por acreditarem em mim. Obrigado por acreditarem que posso melhorar. Por acreditarem que posso voltar a amar, por acreditarem que posso ultrapassar o meu medo.<\/p>\n

Thank you for being my biggest fan and support. For holding my hand even when I didn\u2019t know I needed you to hold it. Obrigado por seres a minha for\u00e7a quando eu n\u00e3o tinha nenhuma<\/b> . Por ser minhas asas enquanto as minhas estavam quebradas.<\/p>\n

Obrigado pela vossa paci\u00eancia. Sei que ainda h\u00e1 alturas em que volto a esse estado de esp\u00edrito.<\/p>\n

There are still times when I\u2019m waiting for your approval because I learned to wait for his. <\/b><\/p>\n

There are still times when I\u2019m afraid you\u2019ll be unhappy because he made me believe that his happiness was my only goal in life.<\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

And I know how hard it is to love a broken soul, to wait for someone who doesn\u2019t even know what true love looks like.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por me lembrares de quem sou. Obrigado por me mostrares o qu\u00e3o forte posso ser, o qu\u00e3o incr\u00edvel e feroz eu sou. Thank you for showing me that I\u2019m lovable.<\/b><\/p>\n

Every single day you make sure I hear \u2018I love you\u2019. Every day you make sure that I know my worth. Thank you for that.<\/p>\n

After being constantly broken and abused, it\u2019s hard to remember who you once were. It\u2019s hard to believe you are lovable, when the person you loved the most told you you\u2019re not.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por me fazeres rir.<\/b><\/p>\n

Honestly, I hadn\u2019t laughed for so long that I forgot how to do it. My laugh was rusty, so it was weird when I first heard it after all that time. You know, I never thought I\u2019d smile again. I never thought I\u2019d be happy again.<\/p>\n

Acreditava seriamente que era incapaz de ser feliz. Presa naquele po\u00e7o sem fundo de desespero, emo\u00e7\u00f5es e sonhos desfeitos. Presa naquele tempo em que ele tinha total poder sobre mim. Presa naquele meu inferno.<\/p>\n

Mas, de alguma forma, descobriste uma maneira de me tirar dessa situa\u00e7\u00e3o. Descobriste a forma de me p\u00f4r um sorriso na cara.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Descobriste como me amar, como me fazer sentir o teu amor<\/b> .<\/p>\n

With every kiss, every feather-like touch and every \u2018I love you\u2019 I hear. You make me feel loved when you share your silence with me.<\/p>\n

Fazes-me sentir amada quando partilhas comigo os teus medos e os teus pensamentos mais profundos. Fazes-me sentir amada todos os minutos do dia e eu agrade\u00e7o-te por isso.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por me amares no meu ponto mais inamov\u00edvel.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

Thank you for wanting me when I didn\u2019t want myself when I didn\u2019t want this life. Thank you for showing me how amazing it can be.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por me teres dado algo pelo qual vale a pena viver e lutar. E obrigado por me fazeres ver que a culpa nunca foi minha.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso um tipo especial de homem para amar uma mulher destro\u00e7ada, para amar uma mulher maltratada. E tu \u00e9s a minha.<\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know it\u2019s hard loving someone broken. I know it\u2019s hard loving someone who is still stuck in their abusive past. I know it\u2019s hard to love someone who is afraid of your love and touch . To love someone who believes she is unlovable. But you still love me, you\u2019re still here. You\u2019re still…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":119748,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29632],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9748","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-abuse-and-trauma"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29632,"label":"abuse & trauma"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/To-The-Man-Loving-Me-After-My-Abuse-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29632,"name":"abuse & trauma","slug":"abuse-and-trauma","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29632,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","parent":22911,"count":138,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29632,"category_count":138,"category_description":"Learn the signs of emotional and physical abuse and how to protect yourself from toxic patterns in relationships with your partner, friends or family.","cat_name":"abuse & trauma","category_nicename":"abuse-and-trauma","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9748"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9748\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/119748"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9748"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9748"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9748"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}