{"id":98362,"date":"2020-09-21T10:05:25","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T10:05:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98362"},"modified":"2022-08-12T08:02:50","modified_gmt":"2022-08-12T08:02:50","slug":"a-errada-fara-com-que-se-sinta-inutil-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-errada-fara-com-que-se-sinta-inutil-2\/","title":{"rendered":"A pessoa errada vai fazer-te sentir in\u00fatil, a pessoa certa vai mostrar-te que vales a pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s easy to start believing there\u2019s something wrong with us when we end up with the <\/b>pessoa errada<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

It takes time to understand they were just that\u2014the wrong person.<\/b><\/p>\n

However, before we realize that, we\u2019re bound to go through the hell of re-examining ourself and wondering why we weren\u2019t enough for that person even when we tried our best.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s a terrible feeling to be constantly put down whenever you say or do something, especially when that something reflects your whole being.<\/p>\n

How many times did he stop you from speaking your own mind or threatened you after you did something that wasn\u2019t good or acceptable according to his selfish views?<\/p>\n

It\u2019s like someone telling you you\u2019re wrong for being you and you know what? <\/b>Life\u2019s too short for those kinds of people<\/b><\/a> e rela\u00e7\u00f5es!<\/b><\/p>\n

Life\u2019s too short for anyone who makes you worthless or less than. If he\u2019s not able to see all the things you bring to the table and only looks for what\u2019s not there, he\u2019s not the one<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If everything you say is disrespected and you feel like you constantly need to hold yourself back, he\u2019s not the one.<\/p>\n

You can\u2019t change a person who only sees what they want to see and thinks only of themselves and their well-being. They\u2019re too busy ignoring their own shortcomings and you can do nothing about it.<\/p>\n

Yes, you can love that person and still leave them for your own good. We don\u2019t choose whom we love but we do choose what to do with our life.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to do it but once we do it, things start unfolding in the right direction.<\/b><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t fall into the trap of other people\u2019s perceptions of you and their own egotistical projections. You are not worthless, you\u2019re not helpless and you pode<\/i> mudar a sua vida.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not f\u00e1cil<\/i> para se reerguer depois de um rela\u00e7\u00e3o abusiva<\/a>, but it\u2019s completely possible.<\/p>\n

You need to clear out your own perceptions of him and understand that he\u2019s in no way better, stronger or smarter than you. In fact, you need to realize that he\u2019s probably the opposite.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

As pessoas que t\u00eam verdadeiro poder, intelig\u00eancia e amor pelos outros s\u00e3o quase sempre gentis e compreensivas, ao contr\u00e1rio daquelas que gostam de nos deitar abaixo.<\/p>\n

Tens de esquecer todas as mentiras que ele te disse quando tentou ganhar novamente a tua confian\u00e7a.<\/b><\/p>\n

This is the hardest part because it\u2019s so difficult to believe someone can say they love you one day, only to make sente-se in\u00fatil<\/a> o seguinte.<\/p>\n

Once the right person shows up in your life, you\u2019ll know it by the way they treat you all the time, not just when they feel like it.<\/p>\n

The right person will genuinely be interested in how you feel and what you want. You\u2019ll feel like a team and not a bench player.<\/b><\/p>\n

The right person won\u2019t make you go through hell to be happy.<\/b><\/a><\/p>\n

A pessoa certa pegar\u00e1 em tudo o que h\u00e1 de bom em si e certificar-se-\u00e1 de que o v\u00ea. Ele vai celebrar-te por aquilo que \u00e9s e n\u00e3o por aquilo que ele quer que sejas.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be afraid to show vulnerability and that\u2019s how you\u2019ll know you can trust him. There will be no vague plans or broken promises.<\/p>\n

Sentir\u00e1 que ele v\u00ea o seu verdadeiro eu, mais do que o seu corpo e a forma como se apresenta, enquanto ele tamb\u00e9m aprecia o seu corpo tal como \u00e9!<\/p>\n

You will feel loved even when you get into an argument because you\u2019ll know that there\u2019s a deep understanding between you two.<\/b><\/p>\n

N\u00e3o haver\u00e1 jogos mentais, nem comportamento agressivo, nem ghosting ou qualquer coisa do g\u00e9nero. A vossa comunica\u00e7\u00e3o ser\u00e1 direta e aberta.<\/p>\n

Finally, you will feel like the real you. You will feel stronger and better when you\u2019re with him and that only means you\u2019re allowed to be yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

You deserve a person who will make you feel that way, you deserve a person who will show you you\u2019re worthy of true love because you most certainly are.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s easy to start believing there\u2019s something wrong with us when we end up with the wrong person. It takes time to understand they were just that\u2014the wrong person. However, before we realize that, we\u2019re bound to go through the hell of re-examining ourself and wondering why we weren\u2019t enough for that person even when…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":98364,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98362","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/The-Wrong-One-Will-Make-You-Feel-Worthless-The-Right-One-Will-Show-You-Youre-Worth-It-The-Right-One-Will-Show-You-Youre-Worth-It.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98362","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98362"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98362\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98362"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98362"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98362"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}