Trata-se de um atalho que muitos de n\u00f3s opt\u00e1mos por seguir devido \u00e0 falta de raz\u00f5es para resolver as coisas.<\/p>\n
But don’t get me wrong; in some situations, getting out (breaking up) is the only right thing to do, such as when we\u2019re in an abusive relationship.<\/p>\n
As melhores rela\u00e7\u00f5es n\u00e3o s\u00e3o aquelas que s\u00e3o perfeitas por defeito, mas aquelas em que os parceiros fazem um esfor\u00e7o cont\u00ednuo apesar de todas as dificuldades e obst\u00e1culos.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n If you both know that you’ve done everything in your power and still nothing has changed, then you know the best option is to go your separate ways.<\/p>\n No entanto, se os sinais que se seguem se verificarem na sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ent\u00e3o deve considerar a hip\u00f3tese de resolver as coisas com o seu parceiro em vez de acabar, porque as coisas v\u00e3o DEFINITIVAMENTE melhorar:<\/p>\n Antes de fazer qualquer coisa, pare por um momento e pense se gostava mais de si antes desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou se gosta mais de si agora.<\/p>\n Se a resposta for esta \u00faltima, ent\u00e3o \u00e9 um bom sinal.<\/p>\n Usually, when a relationship is toxic and bad for you, there’s not a chance of you flourishing and becoming a better person.<\/p>\n Aconteceu-me o mesmo recentemente.<\/p>\n Estive numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o durante algum tempo e antes de estar prestes a romper<\/a> com eles, apercebi-me de que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o era a mesma pessoa que era antes.<\/p>\n Em vez de me tornar uma pessoa melhor, tinha-me transformado totalmente numa pessoa que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o reconhecia.<\/p>\n Depois de algum tempo de estar novamente solteira, recarreguei-me e senti-me dez vezes melhor do que antes.<\/p>\n People around me confirmed that I was glowing once again and that’s exactly how I felt inside out.<\/p>\n Na maioria dos casos, as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o afectadas por conflitos externos, como problemas financeiros ou amorosos e outras circunst\u00e2ncias.<\/p>\n Perhaps you’re living under the same roof with your parents and you have no privacy or you are currently unemployed.<\/p>\n Devido a todo este stress, pode evitar fazer amor com o seu parceiro, abra\u00e7ar-se e outras actividades rom\u00e2nticas.<\/p>\n \u00c9 nessa altura que as coisas come\u00e7am a correr mal numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e um dos parceiros (ou ambos) come\u00e7a a sentir-se negligenciado.<\/p>\n Still, it’s important to understand that these problems can be SOLVED and you shouldn’t break up with your partner.<\/p>\n Instead, you should both understand that the problem is not your relationship and instead something you can’t really influence but you can work on making things better.<\/p>\n No, I don’t mean apoiarmo-nos mutuamente<\/a> nas redes sociais, mas em situa\u00e7\u00f5es da vida real (especialmente em tempos dif\u00edceis).<\/p>\n If you’re still supportive and respectful of each other, it means you are probably still in love.<\/p>\n O que acontece \u00e9 que, quando os casais se apaixonam, deixam de se respeitar mutuamente e a rela\u00e7\u00e3o come\u00e7a a desmoronar-se. A falta de respeito \u00e9 uma das maiores signs your partner doesn’t love you anymore<\/a>.<\/p>\n Se n\u00e3o houver apoio ou respeito numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, isso \u00e9 uma enorme bandeira vermelha, porque essas situa\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o muitas vezes irrepar\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n No entanto, a falta de paix\u00e3o ou a dificuldade em dizer Eu amo-te<\/a><\/em> neste momento s\u00e3o coisas que podem ser resolvidas com esfor\u00e7o m\u00fatuo.<\/p>\n Quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, os nossos amigos e familiares s\u00e3o geralmente melhores ju\u00edzes do que n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/p>\n Eles notam sempre se estamos mais felizes numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou se esta se tornou um fardo para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n So, if your best friends or family members are telling you that you shouldn’t break up with your partner, it is because they know that you are still a good match and you can work things out.<\/p>\n Do ponto de vista deles, voc\u00eas ainda est\u00e3o apaixonados um pelo outro, mas s\u00f3 t\u00eam de trabalhar para melhorar as coisas (seja qual for o problema) e, se forem pacientes e consistentes, conseguir\u00e3o faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Como consertar um relacionamento quebrado: 10 maneiras de consertar as coisas<\/a><\/p>\n If you said, “I do,” then you know the true difficulty and the meaning of the statement \u2018for better or worse\u2019.<\/p>\n Regardless of whether you’re married or in a relationship, I want you to ask yourself the following: “Do I still feel good with my partner when I’m both at my worst and at my best?”<\/p>\n Continua a querer estar com eles tanto quando as coisas correm mal como quando tudo corre bem?<\/p>\n Se a resposta for sim, ent\u00e3o deve resolver as coisas em vez de acabar com a pessoa.<\/p>\n Porqu\u00ea? Porque significa que ainda existe uma base saud\u00e1vel na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Continuam a poder confiar um no outro, independentemente da situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n It’s easy to be with someone when everything works perfectly but wanting to be with someone even when everything is falling apart is a sign of true love and devotion.<\/p>\n One sure-fire way to figure out if you’re in an abusive and rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> que n\u00e3o tem futuro \u00e9 comparar os momentos felizes com os momentos maus da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n Do you notice that the happy moments are the ones prevailing in your mind? If yes, then you know there’s nothing you should worry about.<\/p>\n Viva a vida ao m\u00e1ximo, n\u00e3o se arrependa, relaxe e aproveite cada segundo passado com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n Work on improving those little things that are causing you trouble at the moment and you’ll be just fine.<\/p>\n Por \u00faltimo, mas n\u00e3o menos importante, se tem um pressentimento (aquela vozinha na sua cabe\u00e7a) que lhe diz que devem resolver as coisas e ficar juntos, ent\u00e3o deve confiar em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n O seu instinto \u00e9 a sua alma a dizer-lhe o que deve fazer, por isso nunca o deve questionar.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, deve manter-se positivo e repetir para si pr\u00f3prio: N\u00f3s podemos resolver isto!<\/p>\n If you believe that you can, then you’re already halfway there.<\/p>\n Para o ajudar com o compartimento da motiva\u00e7\u00e3o, eis uma lista de cita\u00e7\u00f5es inspiradoras sobre como resolver as coisas.<\/p>\n 39 cita\u00e7\u00f5es inspiradoras para ajudar a superar problemas de relacionamento<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n 1. \u201cWhatever problems arise in a romantic relationship, it\u2019s important to face them together as a couple. If an aspect of the relationship stops working, don\u2019t simply ignore it, but instead address it with your partner. Things change, so respond to them together as they do.\u201d \u2013 Anne Nwakama<\/p>\n 2. \u201cBehind every happy couple lies two people who have fought hard to overcome all obstacles and interferences to be that way. Why? Because it\u2019s what they wanted.\u201d \u2013 Kim George<\/p>\n 3. \u201cRelationships last long not because they\u2019re destined to last long. Relationships last long because two brave people made a choice. To keep it, fight for it and to work for it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 4. \u201cYou can\u2019t just give up on someone just because the situation is not ideal. Great relationships aren\u2019t great because they have no problems. They\u2019re great because both people care about the other person to find a way to make it work.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 5. \u201cWe are told that people stay in love because of qu\u00edmica<\/a>, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck. But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.\u201d \u2013 Ellen Goodman<\/p>\n 6. \u201cForget all the reasons why it won\u2019t work and believe the one reason why it will.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 7. \u201cEvery relationship needs an argument every now and then. Just to prove that it is strong enough to survive. Long-term relationships, the ones that matter, are all about weathering the peaks and the valleys.\u201d \u2013 Melchor Lim<\/p>\n 8. \u201cA beautiful relationship does not depend on how well we understand someone but it depends on how well we avoid misunderstanding.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Cita\u00e7\u00f5es de amor que tocam o cora\u00e7\u00e3o; 100 + cita\u00e7\u00f5es de derreter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o para a pessoa amada<\/a><\/p>\n 9. \u201cEvery relationship has its problems but what makes it perfect is when you still want to be there when everything goes wrong.\u201d \u2013 Ritu Ghatourey<\/p>\n 10. \u201cThe couples that are meant to be are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 11. \u201cWhen you find someone you can truly love, you will fight to keep that relationship. No matter what obstacles you both will face, you will never give up on each other. You may get lost along the way, but one of you always keeps catching the other. Soon one day both of you will have each other\u2019s backs.\u201d \u2013 Jenna Bognar<\/p>\n 12. \u201cYou can\u2019t have a relationship without any fights but you can make your relationship worth the fight.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 13. \u201cLove isn\u2019t when there are no fights in the relationship. Love is when once the fight ends, love is still there.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 14. \u201cRelationships include: fights, ci\u00fame<\/a>, arguments, and tears. But a real relationship fights through all of those with love.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 15. \u201cA relationship is like a house. When a light bulb burns out you do not go and buy a new house, you fix the light bulb.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 16. \u201cAll relationships have one law. Never make the one you love feel alone, especially when you\u2019re there.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 17. \u201cA true relationship is two imperfect people refusing to let go of each other.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 18. \u201cLove is the remedy of all problems, misunderstandings become jokes, insults become humor, a perfect relationship.\u201d \u2013 Dielnov Muchati<\/p>\n 19. \u201cGreat couples still get angry with each other, but they continue to discuss until there is a solution even if it takes several days.\u201d \u2013 Bob Grant<\/p>\n 20. \u201cThe emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it.\u201d \u2013 Nicholas Sparks<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Os 6 problemas de relacionamento mais comuns que n\u00e3o t\u00eam solu\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a><\/p>\n 21. \u201cTrouble is part of your life, and if you don\u2019t share it, you don\u2019t give the person who loves you enough chance to love you enough.\u201d \u2013 Dinah Shore<\/p>\n 22. \u201cI think a relationship is like a shark. It has to constantly move forward or it dies.\u201d \u2013 Woody Allen<\/p>\n 23. \u201cThere is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love.\u201d \u2013 Bryant H. McGill<\/p>\n 24. \u201cProblems should be like speed bumps. You slow down just to get over it, but you don\u2019t let it stop you from heading to your destination.\u201d \u2013 Sonya Parker<\/p>\n 25. \u201cAll relationships go through bad times, but real relationships get through bad times.\u201d \u2013 Anurag Prakash Ray<\/p>\n 26. \u201cHold no grudges and practice forgiveness. This is the key to having peace in all your relationships.\u201d \u2013 Wayne Dyer<\/p>\n 27. \u201cProblemas nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> occur because each person is concentrating on what is missing in the other person.\u201d \u2013 Wayne Dyer<\/p>\n 28. \u201cWe don\u2019t develop courage by being happy every day. We develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.\u201d \u2013 Barbara de Angelis<\/p>\n 29. \u201cBoth people need to care deeply about the other person, to put the other\u2019s needs before their own, and to make a daily commitment to that person to stick it out.\u201d \u2013 Alessandra Torre<\/p>\n 30. \u201cIn any serious relationship, if you don\u2019t gather your partner\u2019s opinion before making a decision that impacts you both, you\u2019re just storing up trouble for the future.\u201d \u2013 Cindy Woodsmall<\/p>\n 31. \u201cThe truth is, everybody is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.\u201d \u2013 Bob Marley<\/p>\n 32. \u201cGood communication is less about saying what you mean, and more about defining what you say.\u201d \u2013 Kelli Jae Baeli<\/p>\n Ver tamb\u00e9m: Tu \u00e9s a minha vida: Cita\u00e7\u00f5es profundas e bonitas para ele e para ela<\/a><\/p>\n 33. \u201cExplain your anger, don\u2019t express it and you will immediately open the door to solutions instead of arguments.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 34. \u201cShared joy is a double joy; shared sorrow is half a sorrow.\u201d \u2013 Swedish proverb<\/p>\n 35. \u201cSome of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they\u2019re trying to find someone who\u2019s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura<\/a> is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.\u201d \u2013 Anthony Robbins<\/p>\n 36. \u201cSometimes you put walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down.\u201d \u2013 Socrates<\/p>\n 37. \u201cTo solve the problem you have to recognize your share of responsibility. If you only blame the other person, you will never solve it.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 38. \u201cNobody likes conflict, but sweeping issues under the rug ultimately causes more damage than addressing things directly.\u201d \u2013 Unknown<\/p>\n 39. \u201cThe extent to which two people in a relationship can bring up and resolve issues is a critical marker of the soundness of a relationship.\u201d \u2013 Henry Cloud<\/p>\n Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n Espero que estas cita\u00e7\u00f5es sobre rela\u00e7\u00f5es o tenham inspirado a resolver as coisas com o seu parceiro.<\/p>\n Remember that you can achieve anything together and overcome any obstacle only if you want to and if you’re still in love with each other.<\/p>\n O amor \u00e9 a for\u00e7a mais poderosa do mundo e pode fazer qualquer coisa. Desejo-vos a maior sorte e muito amor!<\/p>\nA rela\u00e7\u00e3o ainda o torna (quer ser) uma pessoa melhor<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs conflitos externos est\u00e3o a torn\u00e1-lo infeliz (e n\u00e3o os conflitos internos de personalidade)<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nContinuam a apoiar-se e a respeitar-se mutuamente<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs seus amigos e familiares continuam a apoiar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nContinua a querer estar com o seu parceiro, para o melhor e para o pior<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nOs momentos felizes ofuscam os maus momentos<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nTem um pressentimento de que devem ficar juntos<\/h2>\n
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