{"id":98627,"date":"2020-09-15T12:39:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T12:39:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98627"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:53:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:53:33","slug":"a-relacao-perfeita-nao-existe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-relacao-perfeita-nao-existe\/","title":{"rendered":"A rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita n\u00e3o existe, mas o amor perfeito existe"},"content":{"rendered":"

Todos n\u00f3s sonhamos com uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o perfeita.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The kind of relationship where we won\u2019t hide any part of ourself for the fear of rejection.<\/p>\n

Uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que a outra pessoa ser\u00e1 tudo o que admiramos.<\/p>\n

Sonhamos com algu\u00e9m que nos preencha as partes que nos faltam e que nos tranquilize a vida.<\/p>\n

Em suma, procuramos algu\u00e9m que nos torne um todo e nos tire todas as coisas m\u00e1s com que lutamos.<\/p>\n

Now, that\u2019s a lot of pressure for a single person who\u2019s no different from us in terms of innermost desires and shortcomings.<\/p>\n

None of us is whole and perfect. We\u2019re weirdly shaped and ragged but that\u2019s what makes us interesting to look at. <\/strong><\/p>\n

We\u2019re accidental works of art of some sort.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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As rela\u00e7\u00f5es nunca ser\u00e3o perfeitas<\/a> because they consist of two unperfect humans who are trying their best to make sense of everything that\u2019s happening to them.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even when one of you is wrong, you\u2019re still doing your best in that given moment.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s okay to make mistakes and it\u2019s okay not to understand everything immediately.<\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s not okay to repeat mistakes and fail to put effort into where effort is needed.<\/p>\n

O esfor\u00e7o \u00e9 o que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o precisa para funcionar. <\/strong><\/p>\n

It\u2019s a constant commitment to the one and only goal and that goal is to help each other on your life path and make each other happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Entrar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o s\u00e9ria significa concordar em estar presente para a sua pessoa em todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es que a vida lhe coloca.<\/p>\n

That means a lot of uncertainty, a lot of doubt, lots of things we don\u2019t really want to do. A lot of nonsense arguments, small frustrations, annoyance and hurt.<\/p>\n

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Nevertheless, love should be stronger than all of those and when it\u2019s the real kind, \u00e9<\/em>. Mas o que \u00e9 que real<\/em> tipo de amor?<\/a><\/p>\n

It\u2019s the o amor que n\u00e3o p\u00e1ra de evoluir e de se aperfei\u00e7oar<\/strong>. It\u2019s the love that doesn\u2019t give up. It\u2019s the love that understands before things are obvious.<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que podemos aperfei\u00e7oar o nosso amor para que seja assim?<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no doubt that nothing in this world feels better than to be understood and amado por quem \u00e9<\/a> mas antes de exigirmos esse tipo de amor de outra pessoa, temos de o encontrar dentro de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Aperfei\u00e7oando as nossas pr\u00f3prias imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e curando a nossa pr\u00f3pria dor, aprendemos a amar sem julgar.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hardest to embrace our own imperfections; that\u2019s why it\u2019s important to learn to love our humanness<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to not get lost in a fantasy but love the ugly things too.<\/p>\n

After all, everything we don\u2019t love about ourself became the way it is because of a lack of love, care, and beauty; that\u2019s how things become imperfect.<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s easy to fall into the trap of projecting our own longings and wishes on another person who\u2019s oblivious to our needs.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s another important issue when it comes to relationships: State your needs if you want them to be met. Talk about them. Find their core.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t expect your partner to read your mind or intuitively know what you know.<\/p>\n

Abra-se, comunique e confie em quem o ama.<\/p>\n

A nossa humanidade est\u00e1 cheia de medos e inseguran\u00e7as inexplic\u00e1veis, de ci\u00fames e gan\u00e2ncia, de raiva in\u00fatil e de tristeza ocasional, bem como de alegria e amor.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not enough to love the flowers and stay away from the dirt. They are part of the same story, the same process. <\/strong><\/p>\n

The key is to love the process and magic of what it creates in the end. That\u2019s love.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Love is trusting and seeing beyond what\u2019s obvious.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The perfect relationship doesn\u2019t exist but perfect love does and you\u2019re capable of it.<\/p>\n

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We all dream of a perfect relationship. The kind of relationship where we won\u2019t hide any part of ourself for the fear of rejection. A relationship where the other person will be everything we admire. We dream of someone who will fill out the parts that are missing from us and put our life at…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":98635,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98627","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/The-Perfect-Relationship-Doesnt-Exist-But-Perfect-Love-Does.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98627","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98627"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98627\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98635"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98627"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98627"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98627"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}