{"id":98670,"date":"2020-09-15T13:05:47","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T13:05:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98670"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:51:39","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:51:39","slug":"uma-ligacao-genuina-e-uma-ligacao-toxica","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-ligacao-genuina-e-uma-ligacao-toxica\/","title":{"rendered":"4 diferen\u00e7as entre uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna e uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o importa a idade ou a experi\u00eancia de relacionamento que se tem, o facto \u00e9 que muitas pessoas t\u00eam dificuldade em determinar o que \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor.<\/p>\n

Os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es e mentes t\u00eam uma maneira de brincar connosco e de nos convencer que a nossa escolha errada \u00e9, na verdade, a verdadeira.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t worry, this is nothing unusual. However, it doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t learn to differentiate between a liga\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a> e uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna com outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

\u00c0 primeira vista, pode pensar-se que estes dois conceitos n\u00e3o t\u00eam nada em comum.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, sadly, it\u2019s incredibly easy to mistake one for the other.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we\u2019re here to give you 4 crucial things that make all the difference in the world.<\/p>\n

Altru\u00edsta vs egoc\u00eantrico<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Quando se tem uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel com algu\u00e9m, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para o ego\u00edsmo.<\/p>\n

No, this doesn\u2019t mean that you have to love this person more than you love yourself. However, his needs also matter.<\/p>\n

Queremos que ele seja feliz e nunca poder\u00edamos sorrir quando ele est\u00e1 a chorar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Voc\u00eas s\u00e3o uma equipa e partilham tudo.<\/p>\n

There are compromises involved and you\u2019re both ready to make some sacrifices for the sake of the other person\u2019s well-being.<\/p>\n

On the other hand, when we\u2019re talking about a toxic attachment, you\u2019re self-centered. The only thing that matters to both of you is your own needs.<\/p>\n

A toxic partner couldn\u2019t care less about the consequences of his actions.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t give a damn whether his behavior will hurt you, as long as he is okay and happy.<\/strong><\/p>\n

He only puts himself first while you\u2019re nowhere to be found on his priority list.<\/p>\n

Em vez de o fazer avan\u00e7ar, este homem compete contra si. Em vez de apreciar as suas conquistas, elas intimidam-no.<\/p>\n

Calmaria vs borboletas<\/h2>\n

\"duas<\/p>\n

\u201cThe Buddhists say if you meet somebody and your heart pounds, your hands shake, your knees go weak, that’s not the one. When you meet your ‘soul mate,’ you’ll feel calm. No anxiety, no agitation.” Monica Drake<\/em><\/p>\n

Bem, esta cita\u00e7\u00e3o resume muito bem uma das principais diferen\u00e7as entre uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna e uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\n

Infelizmente, \u00e9 aqui que muitas pessoas se enganam.<\/p>\n

You think that you\u2019ve encontrou a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a> quando nos sentimos tontas cada vez que ele olha para n\u00f3s e quando sentimos borboletas no est\u00f4mago a dar uma verdadeira festa.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You feel this unbearable excitement you can\u2019t control, as much as you try.<\/p>\n

No entanto, isto \u00e9 provavelmente um sinal de uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica.<\/p>\n

De facto, todos estes sentimentos s\u00e3o geralmente seguidos de ang\u00fastia, d\u00favidas e aus\u00eancia de tranquilidade em geral.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, when you meet the love of your life, you\u2019ll feel peace. For the first time ever, you\u2019ll feel completely calm.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll know that you\u2019ve found your harbor and your home. You\u2019ll know that this is where you belong.<\/p>\n

Apoio vs codepend\u00eancia<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O envolvimento com um homem t\u00f3xico traz depend\u00eancia emocional.<\/p>\n

You feel like you couldn\u2019t live without this person by your side and as if your life would be completely pointless if you happened to lose him.<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, \u00e9 isso que o seu parceiro quer. Ele quer que pense que \u00e9 ele que d\u00e1 sentido \u00e0 sua exist\u00eancia e que \u00e9 o \u00fanico objetivo que tem neste mundo.<\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, when it\u2019s the real deal, you won\u2019t need this man by your side.<\/strong><\/p>\n

However, you\u2019ll consciously choose him to be a part of your life and you\u2019ll want him there.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ele ser\u00e1 o seu maior apoiante e o vento sob as suas asas.<\/p>\n

Aquele que o inspirar\u00e1 a ser melhor e que o empurrar\u00e1 para a independ\u00eancia.<\/p>\n

This man won\u2019t feel threatened once he sees that you\u2019re becoming self-sufficient. Instead, he will be proud of your strength and power.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t put all of his efforts into making you addicted to him, the way a toxic boyfriend will certainly try doing.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, os dois v\u00e3o transformar-se em dois indiv\u00edduos saud\u00e1veis que se completam um ao outro sem serem mutuamente codependentes.<\/p>\n

Felicidade vs tristeza<\/h2>\n

\"Vista<\/p>\n

Verdadeiro \u00e9 preciso lutar pelo amor<\/a>\u2014there is no doubt about that. Whoever tells you that it doesn\u2019t take a lot of effort and energy is probably lying.<\/p>\n

The fact is that all the pieces of your puzzle can\u2019t magically fall into place without you lifting a finger.<\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor tamb\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 s\u00f3 rosas e borboletas. Todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es t\u00eam os seus altos e baixos.<\/p>\n

No matter how much you and your partner care for each other, you can\u2019t avoid having bad days from time to time.<\/p>\n

No entanto, uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o genu\u00edna com outro ser humano deve fazer-nos felizes.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica faz-nos sentir miser\u00e1veis a maior parte do tempo.<\/p>\n

Faz-nos sentir inquietos, tristes e traz-nos mais sofrimento do que alegria.<\/p>\n

Por conseguinte, Se ainda tem d\u00favidas sobre a categoria em que se insere a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o, basta fazer a si pr\u00f3prio esta simples pergunta: Estou feliz ou triste a maior parte do tempo?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Just like that, you\u2019ll get all the answers you need.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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