{"id":98711,"date":"2020-09-15T23:29:52","date_gmt":"2020-09-15T23:29:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=98711"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:02","slug":"principios-sobre-os-quais-todas-as-relacoes-devem-assentar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/principios-sobre-os-quais-todas-as-relacoes-devem-assentar\/","title":{"rendered":"4 Princ\u00edpios cruciais em que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem assentar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Apesar da cren\u00e7a popular e do pessimismo, existem numerosos <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/list-of-couple-goals\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">casais felizes<\/a> \u00e0 nossa volta.<\/p>\n<p>Casais que conseguiram construir o seu romance da forma correcta e que desfrutam da sua vida ao lado da pessoa que amam.<\/p>\n<p>Casais que perduram, apesar da \u00e9poca em que vivem.<\/p>\n<p>Embora cada pessoa seja diferente e, por conseguinte, cada pessoa tenha uma din\u00e2mica de rela\u00e7\u00e3o estabelecida diferente, existem alguns aspectos comuns a cada uma destas parcerias.<\/p>\n<p>Mant\u00eam-se fi\u00e9is a alguns princ\u00edpios cruciais sobre os quais a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o foi constru\u00edda desde o in\u00edcio.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Presen\u00e7a incondicional<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98715\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia de um casal de m\u00e3os dadas a falar seriamente\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/shot-of-a-couple-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re no magician and in fact, nobody expects you to be.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, you don\u2019t have a magic wand to solve all of your partner\u2019s problems, as much as you try to do so.<\/p>\n<p>You can give your best but there are simply some situations in which you don\u2019t have the capacity to help them.<\/p>\n<p>Eles t\u00eam de liderar e vencer algumas batalhas sozinhos, sem a sua ajuda.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, por vezes, <strong>being there and holding one another\u2019s hand is more than enough<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 exatamente por isso que um dos primeiros princ\u00edpios em que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem assentar \u00e9 a presen\u00e7a incondicional.<\/p>\n<p>It means that you will never abandon one another, no matter what happens, that you\u2019ll remain next to each other and just say that everything will be okay.<\/p>\n<p>Veja, <strong>a pior coisa que pode fazer ao seu ente querido \u00e9 fazer com que ele sinta a sua aus\u00eancia durante as dificuldades. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s to make them feel alone when they need you the most.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Imperativo categ\u00f3rico<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98716\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman.jpg\" alt=\"imagem de uma mulher descontra\u00edda a olhar pela janela do corredor\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/image-of-a-relaxed-woman-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Immanuel Kant said: \u201cAct according to the maxim that you would wish all other rational people to follow, as if it were a universal law.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Em termos simples, isto significa que <strong>you should never treat anyone else the way you wouldn\u2019t like to be treated. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Em vez disso, aja em rela\u00e7\u00e3o aos outros da mesma forma que agiria <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/top-18-reasons-to-be-happy-right-now-no-matter-what\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">ser feliz<\/a> que eles agem em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a si.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Embora este seja o princ\u00edpio que deve seguir em todas as suas rela\u00e7\u00f5es, \u00e9 especialmente crucial como valor de uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica.<\/p>\n<p>Basicamente, <strong>sempre que quiser dizer ou fazer algo ao seu parceiro, ponha-se no lugar dele. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Pergunte a si pr\u00f3prio como se sentiria se a situa\u00e7\u00e3o fosse diferente e se trocasse de lugar.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Quando se segue este princ\u00edpio, desenvolve-se um n\u00edvel incr\u00edvel de compaix\u00e3o para com a pessoa amada.<\/p>\n<p>Compreende-os melhor e, consequentemente, transforma a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o num lugar muito melhor.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98721\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a comprar roupa, a olhar para o espelho e a vestir o casaco\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/woman-shopping-clothes-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Todos os conselhos sobre relacionamentos dir\u00e3o que o amor incondicional entre os parceiros \u00e9 uma obriga\u00e7\u00e3o se quiser que o seu relacionamento funcione.<\/p>\n<p>Even though this is completely true, there is one type of love more important than this\u2014the one you feel toward yourself.<\/p>\n<p>When you first read something like this, you assume it\u2019s quite selfish.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, <strong>you can\u2019t make anyone happy unless you make yourself happy, can you?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bem, nunca se pode ser feliz enquanto n\u00e3o se conseguir amar a si pr\u00f3prio em primeiro lugar, sem p\u00f4r em causa mais ningu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t build a healthy relationship with someone else until you have a healthy relationship with yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that it\u2019s not your duty to make the other person happy.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, you both have one task only\u2014to achieve inner peace and inner happiness that doesn\u2019t depend on your relationship.<\/p>\n<p>No final do dia,<strong> quando se tem duas pessoas realizadas, felizes e que se amam, qual \u00e9 o resultado mais prov\u00e1vel? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c9 poss\u00edvel que este tipo de casal esteja numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Liberdade total<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98722\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher bonita num campo dourado ao p\u00f4r do sol\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/beautiful-woman-in-golden-field-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>O erro n\u00famero um que as pessoas normalmente cometem quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas \u00e9 o facto de tentarem manter a outra parte ao seu lado, a qualquer custo.<\/p>\n<p>Bem, deixem-me dizer-vos uma coisa: <strong>Nunca se pode <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-podes-perder-o-homem-que-esta-destinado-a-ser-teu\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">lose someone who\u2019s really yours.<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Therefore, what\u2019s the point of this approach? What\u2019s the point of fears, jealousy or possessive behavior?<\/p>\n<p>Um princ\u00edpio importante que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem ter \u00e9 a liberdade ilimitada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It\u2019s a notion in which both partners have complete freedom to basically do whatever they want.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No, I\u2019m not saying that you should have an open relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, you should come up with a mutual agreement regarding the things that are acceptable in the relationship and about those you won\u2019t tolerate.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, \u00e9 aqui que o seu trabalho est\u00e1 feito. A \u00faltima coisa que deve fazer \u00e9 gastar a sua energia a tentar controlar a sua outra metade.<\/p>\n<p>Basically, what I\u2019m trying to tell you is that <strong>you can\u2019t prevent anyone from leaving you or being unfaithful. If they want to do it, they\u2019ll find a way.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Al\u00e9m disso, se os colocar numa gaiola, eles sentir-se-\u00e3o presos e sufocados. Consequentemente, isso s\u00f3 aumenta as hip\u00f3teses de o perder.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Por isso, por favor, deixem-se estar uns aos outros. A vossa consci\u00eancia determinar\u00e1 o que \u00e9 certo ou errado.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead of forcing one another to stay in this relationship, wouldn\u2019t you be happier knowing that they choose to stay even though nobody is forcing them to?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-98725\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"4 Princ\u00edpios cruciais em que todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es devem assentar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Despite popular belief and pessimism, there are numerous happy couples all around us. Couples who have succeeded in building their romance the right way and who enjoy their life next to the person they love. Couples that last, despite the period they live in. Even though everyone is different and therefore everyone has a different&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":98724,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-98711","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/4-Crucial-Principles-Every-Relationship-Should-Be-Built-On.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98711","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=98711"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/98711\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/98724"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=98711"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=98711"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=98711"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}