{"id":9873,"date":"2020-09-08T12:07:02","date_gmt":"2020-09-08T12:07:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9873"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:44:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:44:20","slug":"ja-fiz-uma-tentativa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ja-fiz-uma-tentativa\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou farto de ser o \u00fanico a tentar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Desta vez, demito-me! Desisto de ti e de tudo o que representas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Estou farto de ser aquele que se preocupa mais. Estou cansado de ser aquele que ama mais. E, acima de tudo, estou cansada de n\u00e3o fazeres qualquer esfor\u00e7o.<\/p>\n<p>Estou farto de palavras que significam uma coisa e de ac\u00e7\u00f5es que significam totalmente o contr\u00e1rio.<\/p>\n<p>Estou farto de vos ver desonestos e incapazes de tomar uma decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>I figured out that your indecision is a decision. And I don\u2019t want to live like that. I don\u2019t want to be the one who will fight for your attention.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be the one who needs to tell you that I feel bad and that I need a hug and a kiss. I want you to see that by yourself.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Porque o amor \u00e9 mais do que apenas dizer <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/7-frases-significam-amar-tres-palavras\/\">\u2018I love you\u2019.<\/a><\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 reconhecer que algo n\u00e3o est\u00e1 bem e ser capaz de ajudar essa pessoa. E querida, nunca percebi isso de ti.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108580\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park.jpg\" alt=\"mulher pensativa com t-shirt vermelha sentada num banco de jardim\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/pensive-woman-sitting-on-the-bench-in-park-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Fui sempre eu que fiz todo o trabalho na nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Desde o planeamento de encontros at\u00e9 \u00e0 organiza\u00e7\u00e3o de viagens, tudo dependia de mim.<\/p>\n<p>Apareceram quando tudo estava terminado e trataram-me como se fizesse parte do trabalho.<\/p>\n<p>Nunca percebeste que o amor \u00e9 uma via de dois sentidos e nunca perceber\u00e1s. Eu era o \u00fanico a tentar fazer com que tudo isto resultasse.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>E estou farto de repetir as mesmas coisas, de travar as mesmas batalhas e de jogar jogos esgotantes.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t need that in my life and that\u2019s why I decided to let you go.<\/p>\n<p>So, in case you didn\u2019t realize yet\u2014today <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/lauren-jarvis-gibson\/2017\/09\/im-letting-you-go-not-because-i-want-to-but-because-i-have-to\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Estou a deixar-te ir.<\/a> Once you\u2019ve lost me, you will probably realize what kind of woman you had next to you.<\/p>\n<p>This time, I quit on you. I am moving on. I want to find my happiness with someone else. With someone whom I won\u2019t have to leave so he could realize how perfect I am.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to wait for you anymore because by doing that I am doing harm to myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108581\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack.jpg\" alt=\"mulher com mochila \u00e0s costas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/woman-wearing-backpack-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se me quisesses, podias ter-me tido. Mas decidiste desperdi\u00e7ar tamb\u00e9m esta oportunidade<b><i>. &nbsp;<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>And I don\u2019t have any second chances for you. You had a lot of them and you blew every single one.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Sou uma mulher apaixonada que faria tudo por ti, mas n\u00e3o sou tola. Por isso, por favor, p\u00e1ra de fazer de mim uma tola.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have any right to treat me that way. The only thing you can do now is to get far away from me and from all that we had.<\/p>\n<p>You need to know that I gave up on you not because I don\u2019t love you or because I don\u2019t need you but because instead of fighting for me, you decided to let me go.<\/p>\n<p>E isso est\u00e1 a partir-me o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>You are not a man who is worth my love and even if you think you are, I don\u2019t need you to complete me.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>S\u00f3 preciso de algu\u00e9m que me aceite completamente. E eu sei que esse algu\u00e9m vir\u00e1. Talvez n\u00e3o hoje ou amanh\u00e3, mas ele vir\u00e1.<\/p>\n<p>E quando ele o fizer, conhecerei finalmente a minha segunda metade. Estarei finalmente com o homem que me aceita com todos os meus pr\u00f3s e contras e que est\u00e1 pronto a morrer por mim.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>I know that we will also have some bumps in the road throughout our relationship but at least I\u2019ll know that I\u2019m not the only one trying!<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-108576\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Estou farto de ser o \u00fanico a tentar\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This time I quit! I quit on you and everything that you represent. I am tired of being the one who cares more. I am tired of being the one who loves more. And most of all I am tired of you not making any effort. I am sick and tired of words that mean&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":108579,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9873","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/Im-Done-Being-The-Only-One-Trying-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9873","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9873"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9873\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/108579"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9873"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9873"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9873"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}