{"id":9905,"date":"2020-08-08T13:18:46","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T13:18:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=9905"},"modified":"2022-02-27T01:36:39","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T01:36:39","slug":"verdadeiramente-amado-nao-me-fez-sentir-que-nao-era-suficientemente-bom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/verdadeiramente-amado-nao-me-fez-sentir-que-nao-era-suficientemente-bom\/","title":{"rendered":"Se me amasses de verdade, n\u00e3o me farias sentir que n\u00e3o era suficientemente boa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Just because you walked away, it doesn\u2019t mean my pain is gone too. It doesn\u2019t mean that by walking away you erased all my feelings toward you or that you\u2019ve been able to delete all the memories I have.<\/p>\n

To be honest, I have no idea if I felt more down when we dated or now that you\u2019re gone. The worst part is that I\u2019m not sure you deserve any of it because I never really knew how you felt about me.<\/p>\n

E mesmo que tenhas dito que era amor, as suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es falaram de forma diferente<\/a>.<\/p>\n

For a long time, I thought we would make it if I did some things differently. But then when I think about what those things might have been, I can\u2019t find an answer because I gave my all in.<\/p>\n

I did everything I could and it still wasn\u2019t enough. Not that that\u2019s something new, as I have this feeling nada do que eu fiz foi suficiente para ti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

And after all this time I wonder how it is possible that we didn\u2019t make it, when I loved you so much. How is it possible that we didn\u2019t make it when you said you loved me too?<\/p>\n

But if you had truly loved me, why would you have made me feel like I wasn\u2019t good enough?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

Estava sempre a comparar-me com os outros.<\/strong> You wanted me to be more like this or more like that. There were so many things you wanted from me and wanted me to change and I only wanted one thing from you\u2014to love me for who I was.<\/p>\n

Mas nunca me amaste verdadeiramente<\/a> porque nunca me aceitaste verdadeiramente por quem eu era. Nunca quiseste que eu fosse quem eu realmente era, havia sempre algo em mim que te incomodava. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Por mais coisas boas que tiv\u00e9ssemos, continuavas a ver apenas as m\u00e1s.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Estavas sempre a falar das minhas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/strong> I know, I\u2019m far from perfect, but there is more to me than my imperfections. I\u2019m not all imperfect, there are things I really love about myself.<\/p>\n

Eu tamb\u00e9m tenho lados positivos e tenho mais caracter\u00edsticas boas do que m\u00e1s. Mas nunca foste capaz de ver os bons porque s\u00f3 te concentraste nos maus.<\/p>\n

After a while, I started seeing myself through your eyes and I too didn\u2019t like what I saw.<\/p>\n

You kept making expectations that I couldn\u2019t reach.<\/strong> Nunca me deste nada em troca, mas querias que eu fizesse tudo o que me pedias.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Whenever you didn\u2019t like something about me, you asked me to change it. If I changed it, you\u2019d move to the next thing that bothered you about me and if I didn\u2019t, you kept complaining about it until I too started to hate it as well.<\/p>\n

Foi-me t\u00e3o dif\u00edcil acompanhar o teu ritmo e esforcei-me tanto porque te amava.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, nunca me arranjaste um lugar na tua vida.<\/strong> I never knew where I stood with you. And that\u2019s something no one should experience in love.<\/p>\n

Nunca ningu\u00e9m deve perguntar-se qual \u00e9 o seu lugar na vida da pessoa que ama. E ali estava eu, cheio de amor por ti, mas sem qualquer promessa de futuro ou mesmo de que o meu amor seria correspondido.<\/p>\n

I couldn\u2019t shake the feeling that it was me and that I wasn\u2019t good enough for you.<\/strong> I couldn\u2019t see myself with you when you never gave me a glimpse of hope, not a single kind gesture that would tell me that you found me worthy of my love.<\/p>\n

All I could think of was how I couldn\u2019t get anything right. And for so long I wondered how I got there and what was wrong until I finally realized that you weren\u2019t ready to settle.<\/a><\/p>\n

Nunca esteve realmente pronto para parar a persegui\u00e7\u00e3o e ficar satisfeito com uma \u00fanica rapariga.<\/strong> A possibilidade de haver algu\u00e9m melhor e de se estar a contentar com menos n\u00e3o parava de o assombrar.<\/p>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m estavas longe de ser perfeito, mas acho que tinhas um narcisista muito bem disfar\u00e7ado por dentro. E essa parte forte de si nunca se acomodou, nunca quis realmente acomodar-se.<\/p>\n

I realized it wasn\u2019t me and that it was anything too much wrong with me. No girl could ever be good enough for you because that\u2019s just who you are. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Mudar constantemente de uma pessoa para outra sem nunca estar satisfeito consigo pr\u00f3prio ou com a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You said you loved me, but now I know it wasn’t love. You might\u2019ve loved the potential you saw in me, but that wasn\u2019t true love. If it was, I wouldn\u2019t have constantly felt like I was not good enough.<\/p>\n

It wasn’t love because you\u2019re too scared to love. And it\u2019s not that I\u2019m not good enough, it\u2019s that no other could ever be good enough; after all, you never meant to stay to begin with.<\/strong><\/p>\n

So good luck with your chase for the perfect one, but I\u2019m done mistaking what you gave me for love. I\u2019m done bringing myself down because you couldn\u2019t accept or love me for who I was.<\/p>\n

Gosto de mim tal como sou, com todas as minhas imperfei\u00e7\u00f5es e todos os meus aspectos positivos, e sei que outra pessoa tamb\u00e9m gostar\u00e1.<\/p>\n

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