{"id":99162,"date":"2020-09-16T11:07:11","date_gmt":"2020-09-16T11:07:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99162"},"modified":"2022-02-22T15:42:44","modified_gmt":"2022-02-22T15:42:44","slug":"quebrar-a-ilusao-de-que-ele-e-um-homem-perfeito","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quebrar-a-ilusao-de-que-ele-e-um-homem-perfeito\/","title":{"rendered":"Quebre a ilus\u00e3o de que ele \u00e9 um cara perfeito, pois ele est\u00e1 longe disso"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu conhe\u00e7o-te.<\/em><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 atualmente numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o em que d\u00e1 tudo por tudo para que essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcione.<\/p>\n

You think you love your man and that you wouldn’t be able to live without him.<\/p>\n

Yes, I know, I wrote that you think you love him because that’s actually true.<\/p>\n

You only think you love him because you created an illusion of him and you’re actually in love with that illusion, not the real him.<\/p>\n

You can’t tell me that you honestly love someone who never showed you that he really does care for you and that you mean to him as much as he does to you.<\/p>\n

You can’t tell me that you love a man who has done nothing but hurt you the entire time you\u2019ve been dating.<\/p>\n

A man who has never respected you or showed that he’s afraid to lose you. Because that’s the only real truth.<\/p>\n

Por favor, p\u00e1ra de te enganares a ti pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica verdade \u00e9 que tudo o que esse homem fez foi usar-te e fingir que te amava para conseguir o que queria de ti. <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tudo o resto \u00e9 apenas algo que criaste na tua pr\u00f3pria mente.<\/strong> <\/em>It’s how you tried to comfort yourself.<\/p>\n

He’s far from the perfect guy<\/em> e tem de o admitir a si pr\u00f3prio. Quanto mais cedo o fizer, melhor ser\u00e1 para si.<\/p>\n

You’ll feel pain and anger. You’ll feel pain because understanding all of this suddenly, understanding that he never really loved you, will break your heart.<\/p>\n

You’ll be angry at yourself<\/a> mais por acreditar que ele alguma vez te amou.<\/p>\n

Eu sei que d\u00f3i e deve doer. Sei que queres chorar e deves.<\/p>\n

H\u00e1 muitos de sentimentos honestos<\/a>Infelizmente, s\u00f3 est\u00e1 do seu lado e tem de lidar com todos eles.<\/p>\n

You’ll start feeling overwhelmed because you won\u2019t know how to leave a man who you love but at the same time, you know is not good for you.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Then, you’ll feel nothing. Your heart will be completely empty. You’ll be left only with the memories. You’ll be free.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

That’s when you’ll start living again because you have been a prisoner of that man and your own mind for so long.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll realize that I’m telling you the truth.<\/p>\n

One day, you’ll understand that he doesn’t deserve you, that the love he gives you, those tiny bits of love, isn\u2019t the kind of love you deserve.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You deserve a man who’ll love you with his whole heart and his whole being. Someone whose heart will beat faster every time he sees you.<\/p>\n

You deserve the most honest, pure and unique kind of love and don’t you dare settle for anything less than that.<\/p>\n

When the right man comes and starts loving you this way, the right way, you’ll see how ‘wrongly loved’ you were.<\/p>\n

Sim, eu conhe\u00e7o-te porque j\u00e1 fui tu. Aprendi a minha li\u00e7\u00e3o e tu tamb\u00e9m aprender\u00e1s. As pessoas aprendem melhor com os seus erros pr\u00f3prios<\/a><\/strong><\/em> and that’s a fact.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

At least you will know that you are safe from letting someone use you or letting someone who doesn’t deserve you to enter your life and stay there for a long time.<\/p>\n

Pelo menos agora sabes que, por muito doloroso que seja, tens de ser sempre honesto contigo pr\u00f3prio e aceitar as coisas como elas s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

You’ve learned that you are worth so much and that one day someone will come who’ll know how to appreciate you and give you everything you deserve.<\/p>\n

You now know that you have to separate your mind and your heart when you’re in a relationship.<\/p>\n

E que na luta entre a tua mente e o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, tens de deixar a mente ganhar. Precisas da tua mente para proteger o teu fr\u00e1gil cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Seja paciente. Quebre a ilus\u00e3o de que ele \u00e9 um homem perfeito, porque ele nunca foi isso. Acaba com ele. Depois, tens de te curar.<\/p>\n

D\u00ea a si pr\u00f3prio tempo para se curar adequadamente. Depois, espere.<\/p>\n

Esperar por o homem certo<\/a>. He’s on his way, I’m sure of that and your paths will cross sooner than you think. Just wait patiently.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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