{"id":99949,"date":"2020-09-21T18:09:50","date_gmt":"2020-09-21T18:09:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=99949"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:02:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:02:49","slug":"dinamica-de-relacoes-romanticas-push-pull","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/dinamica-de-relacoes-romanticas-push-pull\/","title":{"rendered":"4 maneiras de superar com sucesso a din\u00e2mica da rela\u00e7\u00e3o rom\u00e2ntica de empurra-empurra"},"content":{"rendered":"

Por muito excitantes que as rela\u00e7\u00f5es de empurra-empurra pare\u00e7am ser, a verdade \u00e9 que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o sustent\u00e1veis a longo prazo. <\/p>\n

Sem dar por isso, este tipo de romance arruinar\u00e1 a sua sa\u00fade mental, esgot\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 emocionalmente e torn\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 incapaz de construir novas e saud\u00e1veis rela\u00e7\u00f5es. <\/p>\n

Ensinar-te-\u00e1 que este tipo de comportamento \u00e9 normal e distorcer\u00e1 a tua vis\u00e3o do amor. Basicamente, ir\u00e1 causar danos irrepar\u00e1veis em toda a sua personalidade. <\/p>\n

Por isso, tens duas op\u00e7\u00f5es. Ou abandona este momento ou faz uma \u00faltima tentativa de o resolver. <\/p>\n

Apparently, you think your relationship is worth saving. Otherwise, you wouldn\u2019t be here. <\/p>\n

Bem, nesse caso, aqui est\u00e3o quatro coisas a fazer se quiser ultrapassar a din\u00e2mica de empurrar e puxar no seu romance. <\/p>\n

Concordar em discordar<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Tu e o teu namorado s\u00e3o opostos polares<\/a> \u2013 there is no doubt about that. Otherwise, you probably wouldn\u2019t be in this mess, would you?<\/p>\n

Afinal de contas, foi provavelmente isso que vos atraiu um ao outro. <\/p>\n

However, after a while, your differences have become a big deal. You have different attitudes, want different things from life, and don\u2019t share the same views on romantic relationships.<\/p>\n

Yes, this is a problem between the two of you. But it\u2019s nothing that can\u2019t be resolved.<\/p>\n

You just have to accept that you\u2019ll never be on the same page regarding some things. You can\u2019t change him nor can he turn you into someone else.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, porqu\u00ea dar-se ao trabalho de o tentar fazer? Confie em mim, s\u00f3 pode funcionar se concordar em discordar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Instead of trying to change each other\u2019s opinion about literally everything, accept and embrace your differences. You don\u2019t have to be compatible in all aspects of your life. <\/p>\n

Once you do this, I assure you that it will be much easier for you to find the middle ground. This way, you\u2019ll meet each other halfway and your arguments will automatically reduce. <\/p>\n

Medir as perdas e os ganhos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in a type of push-pull relationship, breaking up is always an option. In fact, it seems that the chance of you and your boyfriend splitting is constantly hanging over your head. <\/p>\n

It\u2019s just a matter of time before one of you will have had enough of these constant tensions.<\/p>\n

Bem, para evitar isso, basta pesar as perdas e os ganhos. De cada vez que quiserem lutar uns com os outros, ordenem as vossas prioridades. <\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 mais importante: ficarmos juntos ou zangarmo-nos um com o outro e levarmos a nossa avante? Ter raz\u00e3o ou <\/b>ser feliz<\/b><\/a>? O que \u00e9 mais importante: a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ou o vosso ego?<\/b><\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as perguntas que ambos devem fazer a si pr\u00f3prios sempre que se deparam com um obst\u00e1culo.<\/p>\n

And if you don\u2019t know the answer, your love isn\u2019t strong enough and it\u2019s best to rather give up on any attempt to save it. <\/p>\n

Partilhar a responsabilidade e o poder<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Lembre-se de uma coisa: todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o uma via de dois sentidos e o seu romance n\u00e3o est\u00e1 exclu\u00eddo. Por conseguinte, \u00e9 totalmente imposs\u00edvel que uma pessoa esteja sempre certa ou errada. <\/p>\n

\u00c9 por isso que ambos t\u00eam de assumir a responsabilidade pelo estado da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sei que pensa que o seu namorado \u00e9 o \u00fanico culpado, mas acredite em mim, ele pensa o mesmo de si. <\/b><\/p>\n

Do mesmo modo, \u00e9 tamb\u00e9m crucial partilhar o poder. \u00c9 evidente que nenhum de v\u00f3s \u00e9 capaz de ser <\/b>submisso<\/b><\/a>, so you have to reach a compromise in which you\u2019re both completely equal partners.<\/b><\/p>\n

A good suggestion is to take turns on the throne. For example, you can make all the decisions and be in charge one week. However, you have to follow your boyfriend\u2019s lead for the next.<\/p>\n

This way, you\u2019ll both feel equally important and leave the power struggle behind. All you have to do is stick to the arrangement without looking for loopholes. <\/p>\n

Identificar os seus erros<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

One thing\u2019s for certain: This kind of a relationship dynamic is not how things should roll.<\/p>\n

Now that you know it\u2019s at least partially your fault, it\u2019s time to focus on your mistakes and wrongdoings, while your boyfriend does the same. <\/p>\n

Instead of pointing fingers and naming each other\u2019s flaws, you both need to focus on yourselves. <\/p>\n

More importantly, do your best to find the cause of this behavior. For some reason, you\u2019re both attracted to these kinds of relationships. <\/b><\/p>\n

Debate-se com inseguran\u00e7as? Porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o saber qual \u00e9 a sua posi\u00e7\u00e3o o atrai tanto?<\/p>\n

Where did you learn that this kind of behavior pattern is acceptable? Is the thrill of the push-and-pull relationship something you\u2019d consciously choose over the peace a healthy romance brings?<\/p>\n

Al\u00e9m disso, o que podes fazer para mudar tudo isto? O que podes fazer para te mudares a ti pr\u00f3prio?<\/b><\/p>\n

Reserve algum tempo para refletir sobre cada uma destas quest\u00f5es. Quando voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro encontrarem as respostas, discutam-nas em conjunto e tentem encontrar uma solu\u00e7\u00e3o permanente.<\/p>\n

Even though all of this sounds like a lot of hard work, it can be done, if your will is strong enough. I won\u2019t lie to you, it won\u2019t be easy and it\u2019ll take a while before you see any significant progress. <\/p>\n

Mas se voc\u00ea e o seu parceiro partilham um amor verdadeiro, todo este processo ser\u00e1 canja para voc\u00eas. Basta terem f\u00e9 um no outro e o vosso romance sair\u00e1 vivo!<\/p>\n

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As exciting as push-and-pull relationships seem to be, the truth is that they\u2019re not sustainable in the long run.  Before you know it, this kind of romance will ruin your mental health, emotionally exhaust you, and make you incapable of building new, healthy relationships.  It will teach you that this type of behavior is normal…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":99954,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-99949","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/4-Ways-To-Successfully-Overcome-The-Push-Pull-Romantic-Relationship-Dynamic.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","parent":29620,"count":544,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29622,"category_count":544,"category_description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. Here, you can find advice for most of the issues you might encounter. ","cat_name":"relationship advice","category_nicename":"relationship-advice","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/99949","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=99949"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/99949\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/99954"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=99949"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=99949"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=99949"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}