Stop giving your love to someone who isn’t ready to love you. 

Don’t wait any longer, don’t waste your time.

Things won’t change, they’ll only get worse the longer you stay. 

Don’t allow someone who constantly disappoints you or brings you down to be such an important part of your life. 

Stop being there for someone who doesn’t value your presence. 

Don’t let them be your universe while they treat you like a remote star they hardly ever see.

You should be the biggest and the brightest star. 

You should be the light in their lives.

They should run to see you at every chance they get.

They should make time when there is none.

They should do it effortlessly and out of their instinctive desire because they genuinely care about you. 

Stop making excuses for someone unworthy of your efforts. 

Take off those rose-colored glasses that make you see only good in them.

Don’t confuse what they could be with what they actually are. 

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Don’t magnify their occasional shows of attention.

Look at the big picture.

Only then will you see they were never there for you like you were for them, they never invested as hard as you did, they never gave you the importance you deserved in their life. 

Save yourself from someone who isn’t ready for a real relationship. 

Don’t expect the wrong person to love you the right way.

Stop thinking that your love will change them.

Things don’t work that way. 

If they are running away from efforts, affection, and commitment, you should run away from them.

Their presence in your life is only causing you pain.

The longer you stay, the more it’ll hurt.

They’re never going to be who you need them to be. 

Give yourself the advice you would give others in your situation and follow it. 

You are too close – your emotions are too substantial to see your situation impartially.

Take a step back.

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What would you say to your best friend in this situation?

Then do that.

You should be your own best friend too. 

Be gentle with yourself.

Be understanding.

Be caring.

Spoil yourself rotten from time to time – it’ll do you good.

Self-care is a must.

It all starts there.

It all starts with you loving yourself. 

Start showing up for yourself. 

You’ve always been there for others.

You’ve always been there for that one special person.

Now’s the time to be there for yourself. 

Be present in your own life.

girl looking in the sky

Make it remarkable.

Turn it into whatever you want it to be.

You can do it.

You got this.

Just take it one step at a time. 

Be available for yourself like you were for them.

Jump at every opportunity to spend some quality time with yourself.

Do things that make you feel happy – that make you feel alive. 

Save your energy for yourself and the right person when they come along. 

Don’t waste your time or energy giving the best to someone who gives you their worst.

You’ll end up emotionally drained and physically tired from that toxic love – if you aren’t already. 

You deserve the energy you kept giving them for yourself.

You owe the same respect, love, and admiration you kept giving the wrong person. 

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Make this year your year by cutting ties with someone unworthy of your love. 

They wasted so much of your precious time; don’t allow them to keep on doing so.

Don’t allow them to be present in your life, on your phone, or even in your thoughts. 

It will take time.

It will be hard and painful.

But it will be worth it.

Make sure you don’t spend the next year waiting for something that will never be. 

Initiate the change in your life.

You are the tailor of your own destiny.

Sew up the past and start making designs for a happier and more fulfilled future.

In 2020, Let Go Of The Person Who Isn’t Ready To Love You