Please, don’t go back to him!

Don’t go back to the one who abandoned you in moments when you needed him the most. Don’t go back to the person who escaped from your love!

Whatever you do, don’t go back to the person who walked away from you, while you were vulnerable, crawling in front of him and begging him to stay. Don’t go back to the person who never fulfilled his promises. You don’t deserve a person like that. You see baby, you deserve so much more and he can’t provide you with that.

You deserve someone who won’t be thinking of leaving you even in his wildest dreams. You deserve someone who will show you what true love is, the one without suffering and pain.

You deserve someone who will never make you cry. Because when we love a person we don’t make them cry, right? Instead, we want to see happiness on their faces every day, and we will go an extra mile to be the reason of that happiness. Don’t be with someone who will make you cry for something he did to you.

I know it is easy to say that but feelings are something different. You need to find that inner strength and show him that he can’t mess with you. That you are a warrior and you won’t put up with his crap.

I know that he is leading you on, by telling you all that you want to hear. And you, blind with love, believe everything that he says. I know you love the one who shouldn’t be loved.

But listen to me now: the moment he starts to beg you to come back into your life, telling you all that you want to hear, please don’t let him get away with it so easily. Don’t let him into your life again. He already had his chance and he gambled it. You already had your toxic man in your life—why do you want to let him hurt you again?

He has already shown you what kind of a man he was, the first time he left you. He already showed you his feelings when he turned his back and didn’t even say goodbye.

See also: It Hurts Like Hell, But I Don’t Want You Back

 

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Please, don’t be a fool!

I know you desperately want to be loved like we all do. I completely understand you. I also know you want to be worshiped and taken care of, but you should know that he is not the right person for that. He is the one who left you. And he will do it again the same moment he finds a better catch.

So, don’t go back to him as soon as he calls you. Don’t be the one who will fill his void. Because he knows that you love him. And he will take you for granted again. He will know that you will be there when he needs you. Don’t do that to yourself. Don’t give him your love again, because he will break it! He will do that without mercy.

Instead, do something for yourself. Learn to love yourself first. Do whatever it takes to be far away from him. Run in the opposite direction if he shows up in front of your door. Run and don’t look back. Do the same thing he did to you.
I know you are in love, that is quite natural. But don’t you want to be appreciated, loved, and cared for?

Don’t you want a man who will die for you if needed? If you give him another shot, you will spend your days wondering whether he will leave you again. It is because you already know him and you know what he is capable of doing.

Please, don’t go back to that false hope again!

It will break your heart into a million pieces. Don’t go back to his mind games again. You deserve so much more. I know you are not thinking like that now because you are at a life crossroads. I know you feel you will be left alone if you don’t go back to him. But maybe it is sometimes better to be alone than in bad company.

I know there will be moments when you will be weak, thinking that he has changed, that he is a totally different person than the one who left you. But that’s not true. A leopard can’t change its spots. He is only deceiving you because he knows how weak you are.

So, take out that courage that has been inside of you for such a long time. Think about your feelings and emotions. Think of all those opportunities you can get if you could just leave him.

And trust me, when you get old and look back you will be so satisfied because you were strong enough to tell him NO!

See also: To My Ex Boyfriend – Nice Try Getting Back In My Life

Christine Keller
I started writing just as a hobby, but in the end, I decided that it is something that fulfills me. I find inspiration in life’s everyday problems and every article that I write tells something about my past. In this way, I want to tell women all around the world that even though we are miles away, our pain makes us close. My articles were written to comfort those who need it the most and to tell them that they are not alone. I am a full-time mom, and I like spending time with my son, good people, sunny days and beer.
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