14 sinais que dizem que ele realmente sente sua falta

Quantas vezes já ficou acordada à noite a pensar se ele está a pensar em si tanto quanto você está a pensar nele?

Quantas noites se perguntaram se ele era sincero quando disse que tinha saudades vossas?

How many times have you actually wanted it to be true and wanted to find a way to know that he’s actually missing you?

We’re all a bit curious about what happened with people we were once really close to and we wish we could go back and re-do some things.

Talvez seja um dos sortudos que ainda tem uma oportunidade de corrigir os erros cometidos no passado e talvez a verdadeira resposta à sua pergunta sobre se ele sente a sua falta seja SIM!

To see if he truly misses you, we’ve created a list of 14 signs that will serve as an answer to all your doubts, so keep reading!

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta quando te pede para lhe enviares uma fotografia tua

We don’t mean those pictures, you know, the ones you regret sending almost all the time.

Referimo-nos àquelas selfies giras ou fotografias suas em pijama ou com o seu velho capuz ou qualquer coisa que lhe mostre a sua verdadeira personalidade.

Na verdade, ele pede essas fotografias para ter algo para onde olhar durante todo o dia.

Algo que irá recordar-lhe o tempo em que estiveram juntos or perhaps to relive the illusion that he’s still as important to you as he was before.

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta quando responde imediatamente à tua mensagem

If he’s the one to initiate most of your conversations and if he still keeps texting you after you respond, it’s a clear sign he misses you.

But how much he actually misses you, you’ll be able to see by the time it takes him to answer your text.

He’ll probably want to not look desperate and may try to wait a bit with texting back, but if ele sente a tua falta that much, he’ll probably have a hard time stopping himself from texting you back immediately.

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta quando te liga para o FaceTime em vez de telefonar

Just hearing your voice will not tame his thirst for you and that’s why he’ll choose FaceTiming over calling.

He’ll want to see you and hear you at the same time, and if not in the flesh, then at least over the phone.

He’s probably going to have a few jokes prepared just so he can see you smile, and to perhaps remind you how good it was when it was only the two of you in the game and when everything was okay.

Ele tem mesmo saudades tuas se gostar das tuas fotografias antigas

You know that feeling when you’re in someone’s Instagram a year or two deep and you just pray you don’t double-click an old photo?

Well, he isn’t ashamed to hit the like button.

Perhaps he even deliberately likes your old photos so that you’d know he is scrolling through your profile and that he’s thinking about you.

Ele sente verdadeiramente a sua falta se ficar zangado sem uma verdadeira razão

Maybe you remember him as a calm guy and now he’s there all of a sudden, throwing temper tantrums and getting mad without any real reason.

O mais engraçado é o facto de ele não ter qualquer direito de se zangar consigo, mas zanga-se.

What you need to understand is the fact that he isn’t mad just because or he isn’t projecting his work anger or something else on you; he’s actually furious with himself with the fact that he really misses you.

He’s mad because he’s probably getting negative feedback from you and he can’t help his burning feelings.

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta quando publica canções que o fazem lembrar de ti

Talvez tenha a sua própria canção, ou há canções que ele lhe dedicou muitas vezes, ou mesmo aquelas que tocavam em qualquer uma das suas ocasiões especiais.

If he’s posting those knowing you’d be able to see them, it is a clear sign that he misses you and the times you had together.

This is his way of expressing his feelings and perhaps showing he’s being a little bit nostalgic for the good old times.

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta quando telefona algumas vezes seguidas

Perhaps while you two were still a thing, he didn’t bother calling in a while and now, all of a sudden, ele não tem problemas em telefonar a few times in a row when you don’t pick up the phone.

And when you finally do pick up, he hits you with some casual talk such as, “Hey, what’s up?”.

You might even get mad at him for calling you so many times, but he’ll probably have some stupid excuse or even be bold enough to call you to go out for a cup of coffee.

The thing is, he’s not been thinking straight for a long time and he won’t even think he did anything wrong.

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta se ainda tiver todos os teus presentes

Not sure about you, but plenty of people rush to throw away all the things that remind them of their exes or the bad things they’ve been through.

So if he still has your gifts and if he’s still wearing that sweater you gave him when things were good between you two, it’s an obvious sign he misses you and that he secretly wants those times back.

He truly misses you when he’s not as social as he used to be

You know, men need a little bit more time to process things when it comes to relationships and perhaps it won’t be too much later when reality sinks in and he sees what actually happened between you two.

Isto pode fazer com que ele não seja tão sociável como costumava ser ou que prefira passar o tempo sozinho em vez de sair ou fazer Snapchat para o mundo.

If he misses you, that will affect his social life for sure and he’ll want to be left alone with his memories.

He truly misses you when he’s trying to look better

He’ll make sure you see he’s looking better too.

He actually wants to step up his game and if you see him working on himself (while he wasn’t really paying too much attention to how he looked while you were dating), this can be a sign that he’s aware of the things he did wrong and he’s trying to fix it.

Além disso, isto pode ser um sinal he’s preparing himself to come back into your life.

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta quando continua a aparecer nos teus antigos lugares

Se ele nunca foi muito sentimental e se nunca esteve preso a um único lugar, mas se o vir a visitar os antigos lugares onde costumavam passar tempo juntos, isso será um sinal claro de que ele sente a sua falta.

Visiting old places can have one of two meanings—he’s either reliving old memories or he’s secretly hoping to meet you there.

Seja o que for, diz muito sobre o quanto ele sente a tua falta.

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He truly misses you when he’s trying to remind you of the good old times

He won’t be mentioning all those times when you fought or those ugly times when he did some things wrong, but whenever you two start chatting again, he’ll be more than happy to mention how you had good times doing this or that.

He’ll try to slowly awaken in you all the things he’s feeling now, hoping that you’ll be able to get to the same page once again.

He truly misses you when he’s trying to flirt with you

Maybe it’s not only that he misses you but that he’s even thinking about a reconciliation?

If this is true, then he’ll be using the same old tactics, but perhaps this time an improved version to win you over.

He’ll be flirting with you, paying you compliments and using any occasion, even those stupid ones, to hear from you.

Ele sente mesmo a tua falta quando o diz em voz alta

If he has gathered together the courage to say out loud that he misses you and that he misses the times when you were together, know that it took him a lot of guts to do that and he wouldn’t trouble himself doing so if he didn’t truly mean it.

Moreover, if he combines his words with all the signs listed above, then you can be absolutely positive he’s telling the truth.

See, if a man misses you, he’ll never choose to stay put. Instead, he’ll do everything in his power to show you how he feels about you.

It’s up to you to decide if you want to welcome him back.

Certifique-se de que verifica primeiro os seus sentimentos e se mantém fiel a si própria para saber se também sente a falta dele ou não.