20 Sinais reveladores de que ele está totalmente interessado em ti
He’s into me…
He’s not into me…
Ele está a fim de mim???
Esta é uma questão muito comum que preocupa muitas senhoras.
Especially if you had some bad experiences in your past, you simply find it hard to trust anyone, and even if they tell you that they are crazy about you, you wouldn’t believe them.
It’s perfectly understandable, and you shouldn’t worry about it because I’m here to open your eyes and help you.
You see, men can be really complicated (and they say that women are those who like to complicate things), and that is why sometimes it’s really hard for you to decipher his feelings and intentions.
Ele pode dizer uma coisa e tu entenderes de forma completamente diferente.
His actions might be pure, but you will understand them differently. Aren’t you sick of all of this drama regarding whether he’s into you or not?
Wouldn’t it be easier if there was a certain schema that will tell you immediately everything you needed to know? Now you probably mean: Bem, claro que seria mais fácil, que raio de pergunta é esta?!
Good news, there actually is! There’s a schema that can tell you whether your guy is into you or not.
Para ser exacta, existem alguns sinais que são característicos de todos os homens que se estão a apaixonar por si, e esses sinais incluem a sua linguagem corporal e as suas acções. A tónica é colocada na linguagem corporal e nas acções específicas que são reveladoras signs he’s totally into you.
So, to save yourself trouble and unnecessary overthinking, just pay attention whether your guy exhibits these 20 signs which are indicators of his affection toward you. Isn’t that great, right? Let’s see!
20 telltale signs he’s totally into you
1. Ele telefona-lhe ou envia-lhe uma mensagem de texto primeiro
You know he likes a lot when he’s the one who’s initiating contact most of the time. It means he’s thinking about you and wants to know what you are doing at the moment.
Ele chama-te para ouvires a tua voz porque ela o acalma e quer que saibas isso.
He doesn’t play mind games while texting because his only motive is to let you know how much he’s into you (and he doesn’t want to screw things up).
2. Ele inicia planos para o ver
He is constantly initiating plans because, evidently, he wants to see you! He enjoys your presence, and he wants to make sure that he’ll spend time with you together laughing, doing fun things, and getting to know each other better.
He never makes excuses about being too busy because seeing you is his number one priority, and he’ll do anything to make it happen.
E quando começa a preparar-se para um encontro, faz sempre questão de estar no seu melhor, porque quer que reparem nele e quer que se orgulhe de estar com ele.
3. As sobrancelhas dele levantam-se quando te vê
Have you noticed whether his eyebrows rise when he sees you? You’ve probably been busy with something else at the moment you saw him, so you are forgiven. But, next time you see him, pay attention to his face.
Se as sobrancelhas dele se erguerem quando a vê, isso significa que ele gosta do que vê, e quero dizer, gosta mesmo!
4. Mantém o contacto visual
When he talks to you or when you’re talking to him, he always looks you deeply in the eye, and you get the feeling that he’s losing himself while looking at you.
He gazes at you a lot and sometimes you even think that there’s something on your face you need to get rid of.
The reason why he maintains eye contact is because he’s genuinely interested in getting to know you better, and he is mesmerized by your appearance and personality.
5. Ele é persistente
Ele quer-te na vida dele e faz tudo para que isso seja possível.
He doesn’t stop calling you immediately if you’re not answering his calls. He dials again in hope that you’ll be there.
He is persistent no matter what because he wants to win you with all of his heart. In his mind, you’re a queen who is worthy of his every single effort and time.
6. Ele ouve-te com atenção
He’s not like other guys just waiting for the opportunity, and when they are not talking, they pretend that they are listening to you while thinking about what they are going to say next.
He’s not that kind of a guy because he’s genuinely interested in everything you have to say to him. He listens to your words carefully and answers accordingly.
E lembra-se de tudo o que lhe dizemos. A conversa com ele parece natural e relaxante.
7. Ele abre-se para ti
It’s really hard to get a man to open up to you, and if he’s talking freely about his passions, work, friends and other life stories, you can be sure that ele gosta mesmo de ti.
Ele fá-lo porque quer impressioná-lo com todas as suas conquistas até agora.
He wants to share everything with you because he cares about your opinion of him (and he wants to make damn sure that you’re into him as well as he’s into you).
8. Ele ajuda-te nas coisas
Whatever you need, he’s there. If it is for you, he’ll do anything because he cares about you and he wants to help you. He also gives you advice on certain matters because he wants you to know that you can rely on him.
Summarized, if you’re happy, he’s happy as well. He wants you to be carefree and relaxed, and he’s always there for you because he feels it’s his duty to protect you.
Por isso, da próxima vez que se perguntar: Ele está interessado em mim?e que não se esqueça de o fazer.
9. Apresenta-o aos seus amigos (e família)
His friends are like brothers to him, and if he introduces you to them, know that it’s the real deal.
You can be sure that he’s crazy about you, and that is the main reason why he introduces you to his friends and family.
Ele quer que eles vejam a mulher bonita e inteligente que tu és e como ele está feliz por estar contigo.
10. Ele reflecte as suas acções
O espelhamento é o comportamento em que outra pessoa imita inconscientemente os seus gestos, a sua maneira de falar e as suas atitudes.
E a ciência diz que o fenómeno do espelhamento é um reflexo do desejo de agradar.
So, next time you see your guy, pay attention whether he’s imitating your behavior. He might start drinking at the same time you do.
He might scratch his head the moment you start doing it… If he does, he is trying to please you, and do you know why? Because he’s louco por ti.
11. Ele parece feliz ao seu lado
A guy who is not into you, will never, ever ooze with happiness when he’s around you. (Remember that).
So, if you see him smiling often, bursting with positivity and genuinely being happy in your company, it means he enjoys spending time with you, and he likes you a lot. And one thing’s for sure, you can never fake happiness if you’re not really into someone.
12. Ele faz planos para o futuro consigo
Ele fala em visitar alguns lugares interessantes, experimentar coisas novas consigo, etc.
Ele faz estes pequenos planos para o futuro porque quer que saibas que te quer mesmo na vida dele.
Ele quer divertir-se consigo e passar tempo consigo agora e no futuro. Ele quer que o leves a sério e que nunca duvides das suas intenções.
13. Ele caminha ao teu lado
Já reparou que os homens têm a tendência para andar ao lado das suas raparigas? (Bem, nem todos). Fazem-no devido aos seus instintos de proteção das mulheres.
If your guy does this, he is subconsciously putting himself in a position to protect you from any harm, and he’s concerned more about you than himself because you are his priority.
14. Ele elogia-te (muito)
Complimenting is one of the biggest signs that he’s totally into you. He compliments your hairstyle, your sense of fashion, your personality. He tells you how beautiful you are and so on.
Ele elogia-a muito e não porque se obriga a fazê-lo, mas porque a admira muito e está genuinamente apaixonado pela sua presença. Ele quer ter a certeza de que se sente feliz e que está confortável na sua pele.
15. Ele inclina-se para ti quando falas
Ele inclina-se suavemente para ti sempre que começas a falar, e tem uma expressão engraçada no rosto a dizer: I’m here, and I’m interested in what you have to say.
Este é outro sinal de linguagem corporal que está entusiasmado com tudo o que tem para dizer e que quer saber mais sobre si.
He wants to know your preferences, what makes you sad, what kind of TV shows you enjoy watching, your opinion on certain matters, your favorite ice cream…He wants to know all of the details that makes you – you.
Ver também: 16 sinais infalíveis de que um homem está a fingir ser heterossexual
16. Ele toca-te e encoraja-te a tocá-lo
He touches your knees, shoulder, your hands, your back…and he does so in a subtle manner.
For example, when you’re leaving the restaurant, he gently touches your back or when you’re sitting, he has the urge to touch your knees while explaining something to you.
Além disso, encoraja-o a tocar-lhe, mostrando-lhe as suas tatuagens ou algo semelhante.
He wants to touch you and feel your touch because it makes him go crazy for you even more. And he can’t fight his urge to be as close to you as possible.
17. Ele provoca-te
Lembram-se de como os rapazes gozavam com as raparigas quando ainda eram crianças? Sabem porque é que eles o faziam? Faziam-no porque gostavam delas, e era a sua forma de lhes mostrar afeto.
O mesmo princípio mantém-se mesmo quando os homens se tornam adultos. Por isso, se o seu homem a provoca e a cutuca aqui e ali, ele faz isso porque ele gosta de si.
18. Ele aponta os pés na sua direção
The science says that if his feet are directed towards you, it means he’s into you.
Subconscientemente, ele aponta os pés na sua direção porque está a gostar da sua companhia, e a sua linguagem corporal começa a demonstrá-lo também.
If a guy is not interested, his feet will be pointed in other directions than you which means he’s subconsciously trying to find an opportunity to run away.
Por isso, se vir os pés dele virados para si, saiba que é um bom sinal de que ele gosta de si.
19. Ele trata-o de forma diferente dos outros
He treats others with appreciation and respect as well, but when it comes to you, there’s a slight difference. When he’s with you, he tries harder to impress you.
His gentlemanly manners become sharper, and he’s all into making you happy. He treats you differently than others because you are special to him, and you can see it from his words and actions.
20. A sua voz suaviza-se
Quando um rapaz comunica com a rapariga de quem gosta, a sua voz torna-se mais suave porque o seu corpo está a dizer-lhe para a tratar com cuidado e ser gentil consigo. O mesmo acontece com os bebés.
Quando os homens são expostos a algo tão inocente como os bebés, a sua voz também se torna mais suave.
O seu coração e a sua voz amolecem porque ele fica hipnotizado pela sua presença.
Se o seu homem fizer isto, pode ter cem por cento de certeza que ele está louca e profundamente louco por si e quer que você também repare nisso.
