5. Escolhem-nas porque é mais fácil
Valorizam a sua capacidade de manter tudo sob controlo. E se a solidão for o preço a pagar, eles fecham o negócio.
They choose these men because they know they won’t get emotionally involved and they won’t question their abilities or their authority.
Não há nada pior para uma mulher forte do que comprometer-se, deixar o seu parceiro ver o seu lado vulnerável e tomar decisões mútuas.
The only people they trust is themselves. So the ideal choice for a relationship is a man who won’t get involved too much. Because he doesn’t care.
Sometimes, the heart makes its own decisions and their mind gets overwhelmed with questions like: “What if he hurts me?”, “What if I let him love me and he doesn’t know how?”, “what if he tries to manipulate me?”
Questionar-se-ão mas, no final, nunca desistirão. Nunca deixarão que ninguém comprometa a sua liberdade ou independência.
Underneath it all, they are so scared to lose what it took them so long to build. That’s why women choose emotionally unavailable men. Because they choose to.
