7 Sinais à prova de bala de que ele não te aprecia mais
Lembras-te dos tempos em que eras o mundo dele? Ele costumava dar-te toda a atenção e ia até ao fim do mundo por ti, mas agora já não é bem assim. O que é que aconteceu, onde é que tudo correu mal?
If you feel things are not like they used to be, he has probably lost interest in you but doesn’t know how to tell you.
Vocês perderam a faísca inicial que vos uniu. Depois de a química se ter desgastado, não resta nada. Estão simplesmente a ser tomados como garantidos.
Veja esta hiperligação para saber mais sobre como lidar com o facto de ser considerado como garantido, porque também me ajudou muito: Don’t be taken for granted
Don’t stick around in this kind of relationship because let’s face it, you deserve so much more than that.
Mereces alguém que te ame por aquilo que és, com todos os teus defeitos.
You don’t deserve someone who will flee at the first sign of trouble. These men are nothing more than pure cowards unable to commit.
Signs he doesn’t appreciate you like he used to:
1. Ele nunca pede o teu conselho
That is probably because he doesn’t want your advice. Your opinion doesn’t matter to him that much.
He doesn’t feel you’re important enough to include you in his decision-making process.
He feels you are just not important and if you thought you could spend the rest of your life with him, you’re wrong because that life isn’t worth living, not with someone who doesn’t appreciate you at all.
2. He doesn’t listen when you talk
Every time you have got something to say, he tunes out because he simply doesn’t care about what you’re talking about.
Either he feels that you’re just not that interesting or he thinks nothing you say is important.
Either way, he’s being an asshole and you should leave him. Don’t waste your life thinking he will come around and dando-lhe uma segunda oportunidade. Pode fazer muito melhor do que isso.
3. You’re always at his disposal
Tem sempre tempo para ele e para as coisas de que ele precisa. Isto seria completamente normal se ele fizesse o mesmo por si.
It’s called love. People who love each other are ready to sacrifice their time if the other one needs them.
Largam tudo e correm para ajudar o seu parceiro, mas no seu caso, as coisas são um pouco diferentes. Fazes sempre coisas por ele e ele nunca faz nada por ti. Isso não está certo!
4. He never says thank you’
I’m not saying he should walk right behind you, appreciating every single move you make, I’m just saying he should have those two words packed together in his vocabulary.
He doesn’t appreciate the things you do, ergo he doesn’t respect you and the final result is that he doesn’t love you.
Do you really want to spend the rest of your life with someone who thinks of you as convenient and doesn’t love you, not even one bit?
5. Faz os seus próprios planos
You are not included in his plan-making. Maybe just at the last minute, if he had something planned but his friend canceled, then he’ll ask you and pretend like he was planning on asking you all along.
Well, he wasn’t. It’s just because he has no one to go with. Or what’s even worse, he assumes that you have all the time in the world, so he goes ahead and makes plans without consulting you and brings you in last-minute.
He doesn’t even ask you if you would you like to go wherever he is planning on going, he just says that you are going.
Don’t let anyone treat you that way. Don’t let anyone be in control do vosso tempo livre. Isso é simplesmente errado.
6. Nunca se lembra de datas especiais
If it’s your birthday or your anniversary, he won’t remember, let alone surprise you with something. That is how much he cares.
You may even get that crap talk about how every day is special and why should you celebrate that one with him, but don’t fall for it.
It’s just a lame-ass excuse for the fact he forgot because he simply doesn’t care.
7. He doesn’t give a damn about your feelings
This may be just pure selfishness but in this case, it’s selfishness wrapped together with not giving a damn about you.
He doesn’t care about your feelings or what makes you happy or sad.
Estes são os sinais de uma relação pouco saudável, a partir dos quais de que se deve sair o mais rapidamente possível. Take some advice and get out. It’s better to be single than sad.
