Aqui estão 6 coisas que deves saber antes de te tornares namorado dela

Conheceu uma rapariga. E assume que ela é igual a todas as outras raparigas que conheceu na sua vida. Mas acredita em mim - estás mais do que enganado.

Esta rapariga é única e isto é algo de que precisa de estar ciente antes de pensar em tornar-se seu namorado.

1. She’s been through a lot

A primeira coisa que precisa de saber antes de pensar em sair com esta rapariga é que she’s been through a lot no passado dela. Não estou a dizer-lhe isto para o assustar, mas é algo que precisa de saber antes de iniciar uma relação com ela.

Men in her past betrayed her, hurt her feelings and did everything in their power to cause her pain. She’s been used and taken advantage of more times than she can count.

Esta rapariga foi sempre tomada como garantida e nunca foi suficientemente apreciada. O seu coração foi partido mais do que uma vez e isso é algo com que terás de lidar se quiseres ser o seu namorado.

Não estou a dizer que vai ter de pagar por tudo o que estes tipos lhe fizeram, estou apenas a dizer-lhe para não ser igual a toda a gente.

2. Ela é insegura

All of the things that she’s been through changed the essence of who she is and made her a different person. All of these men made her wonder why she wasn’t enough and tried to convince her that everything that was wrong in their relationship was exclusively her fault.

They made her question all of her values and beliefs and shook her confidence. Instead of boosting her self-esteem, all of these guys manipulated her into thinking she wasn’t worthy enough and fed her insecurities because that made her a better victim for their abuse.

Isto fê-la questionar não só o seu valor, mas também as intenções de todos os que se aproximam dela. Tudo isto causou-lhe grandes problemas de confiança e fê-la pensar mal de si própria.

3. But it doesn’t mean she is weak

But all of this didn’t make her weak. These men broke her heart but they didn’t manage to break her and that is her biggest success. Although she doesn’t know it, everything that she’s been through actually made her stronger than she ever was.

She survived some things she thought she could never overcome. And although all of the men in her life changed her, they didn’t kill her spirit. Instead, she saw how powerful and strong she really is and she realized that there doesn’t exist anyone who could destroy her completely.

Now, she is ready to face all of life’s difficulties stronger than ever. That means that you shouldn’t even try to put her down or to abuse her in any way because trust me, that is something she won’t put up with.

4. She doesn’t ask for much

Another thing you need to know about this woman before you become her boyfriend is that she doesn’t ask for much. She doesn’t need anything material and she won’t expect expensive gifts and fancy dinners.

She won’t be possessive and will never try to control you nor will she try to invade your personal space or integrity. Instead, the only things she will ask for are your love and attention and she is not ready to settle for less than that.

And if you think that this is something you can’t give to her, maybe it’s time to walk away this instant.

5. Ela precisa de paciência

But just because she doesn’t ask for much, it doesn’t mean that you’ll have it easy with her. As you already know, she’s been through a lot and she lost trust in the people around her.

It means that you’ll have to be extremely patient to tear down the thick and high walls she’s been building for years. I won’t lie to you—it will take you a lot of energy, time and effort to get to this girl.

E estou aqui para vos dizer que será difícil lidar com ela e que será um desafio lidar com ela. Mas é isso que a distingue de todas as outras raparigas e é isso que a torna especial e única.

6. Ela dar-te-á toda a sua

After everything you’ve found out, you probably think that this girl is too much for you to handle and that she is difícil de amar. E não estou aqui para tentar provar que estás errado.

Yes, you will need to invest a lot of your time, energy and patience if you want to be with this girl. But trust me on one thing—she will definitely be worthy of everything.

If you treat her right, this girl will give you all of her. If you love and respect her enough, you will get even more in return. This woman will love you unconditionally, and you’ll see that she is more than worthy.