Como fazer um homem ficar com ciúmes? 13 maneiras de fazer com que ele te queira muito

Okay, so if you’re in the game of wanting to make a particular guy jealous; there are likely three plausible reasons for that.

Let’s see if I’m getting warm…

Primeira razão: it’s your ex-boyfriend and you’re desperately trying to show him the gem he lost upon deixando-o ao ter algum tempo de diversão e flirt.

Segunda razão: You’re in a relationship but there’s this constant feeling of being taken for granted and you need him to see that it’s not going to fly and that you’re perfectly capable of getting ANY dude you want (should the need arise).

E, finalmente, a terceira razão: You’re crushing (hard) on this hot guy around the block and you want to see if the feeling is perhaps reciprocated by making him jealous and seeing his reaction to your flirt-session with another guy.

Whichever one it is, make sure to know exactly what your end goal is and don’t break any (unwritten) rules in the meantime.

Mas, sobretudo, divirtam-se e namoriscar o teu rabo!

All of the instances above are legit reasons to engage in some innocent flirting, so flaunt your gorgeous assets to get the reaction (and ultimate result) that you’re after.

Por vezes, tudo o que os rapazes precisam é de uma pequena verificação da realidade e um chamada de atenção para abanar um pouco o terreno.

If it’s your boyfriend, maybe it’s time to let him see a girl like you doesn’t just fall from the sky and it’s time to show him how you expect to be treated.

E NUNCA faz mal mostrar ao teu ex-namorado a grande perda que foi deixar-te!

Uma separação é uma chatice, mas há formas de fazer ciúmes a um ex que lhe proporcionará a tão necessária diversão depois de o vosso desgosto.

Pronto para se divertir?

A grande vantagem é que existem muitas formas de fazer ciúmes a um rapaz e divertir-se ao sol sem prejudicar a sua saúde mental ou magoar alguém no processo (para além do ego dele).

É possível utilizar redes sociais para sua vantagem ou usar os amigos dele de uma forma inteligente mas completamente inofensiva!

There’s texting (which I’ll elaborate on in later parts), using Snapchat, and befriending his best friend to play mind games with him!

E há uma série de outras pequenas coisas que vão aumentar a sua autoestima enquanto a ajudam a ver o que um homem quer, para as usar habilmente contra ele.

Pode ferir o ego dele mudando os seus planos último minuto e certificar-se de que o seu namorado sente what it’s like when the roles are reversed.

Alterar o seu corte de cabelo no seu estilo favorito após o rutura, which he won’t admit is a grande coisa, but trust me—it will be!

If your goal is to make your boyfriend jealous to see that you’re not to be messed with, I’ve got you covered.

If you want to find your best self while making your ex jealous, there’s plenty of options there too!

And if you want to start dating a guy you’ve had your eye on for quite some time, there are surefire ways to accomplish that too.

Making a guy jealous can be super fun, as long as you follow the rules of the game and don’t break your own heart in the process.

A muitos homens just need a little reminder of the kind of woman they’re dealing with and you’re about to serve him just that!

And this is how you’re going to do that. Browse through these incredible ideas and find those that work best with your plan and current situation.

Do exactly as you’re instructed and you’ll be getting yours in no time! And if you don’t, at least you’ll know the guy is honestly not worth the bother.

You win either way! Now let’s get cracking.

1. Parecer um milhão de dólares

What’s the best way to make any guy jealous? By looking like a freaking goddess!

And that’s exactly what you’re going to do. And the best part? You’re going to FEEL like the queen of the world while doing what you intended—making him jealous to the bone.

Isto é tudo para si. Entregue-se a uma terapia de retalho; escolha o teu melhor amigo e divirtam-se enquanto recarregam as baterias e passam algum tempo juntos!

While you’re shopping, getting a new haircut and splurging with your girl, you’ll forget all about that guy’s name, I promise!

Pelo menos por um minuto e isso conta para alguma coisa, certo?

Added bonus—take a male friend with you and make sure to crack a selfie and post it on social media if you feel like it.

That will certainly get his blood pumping, especially if he doesn’t even know the guy.

So basically, you’ll be investing in yourself, feeling like a goddess in the process, spending quality time with a friend and all that while making your man jealous.

It truly doesn’t get better (or easier) than that.

2. Have a girls’ night and celebrate life

For one second, forget all about trying to make him jealous. This is going to do the trick but it’s also vital that you have some fun and pamper yourself!

Get your girls and organize a girls’ night. Buy copious amounts of wine and start the party at your place.

Get ready together while blasting Beyonce and sipping rosé. Talk, laugh, dance and enjoy spending time with each other because you deserve it!

If he calls or sends you a text message, just let him know you’re not available because you’re too busy having the time of your life with the girls!

He’s going to lose his mind wondering where you are and who you’re with and you’ll be having way too much fun to give a shit.

Tire uma selfie (ou uma dúzia) e crie memórias com as suas melhores amigas.

Remember that they are the ones standing by your side through your ordeal and that’s why it’s important to never lose sight of their vital role in your life.

Sure, you’ll make him jealous but you’ll also be reminded of how amazing and supportive your friend circle is.

3. Impressionar os seus amigos homens

But don’t go out of your way in doing so. Whenever you’re around his guy friends (or accidentally run into them), act as if bumping into them was the most amazing casual collision of the day!

Be chatty but listen, ask about how they’re doing (without asking about the guy) and share a few genuine laughs if the situation feels appropriate.

And when his friends tell him about how awesome it was seeing you (and how fantastic you looked), he’s going to feel jealous whether he likes it or not.

Make sure you’ve left the best impression on them while being your best self and you’ll have made a great thing out of an accidental meeting.

Guys care about what their other guy friends think, especially about chicks! That’s just how they’re wired.

And when he hears his guys chatting all about how rad it was seeing you the other day, he’ll start wondering why he deixar-te ir in the first place (or why he hasn’t made a move yet if it’s a crush in question).

4. Ter um ar de mistério sobre si próprio

The less you tell a guy, the more he’s drawn to you! Keep that in mind.

E, em vez disso, deixe de partilhar muito da sua vida com ele e comece a manter um ar de mistério à sua volta.

When he asks you something, answer him but don’t overshare.

He doesn’t need to know every single detail that goes on in your head and when you start seeing how denying him information is going to make him stick to you like glue, you’ll win the jackpot of relationships!

Guys THINK they don’t care about every single thing you have going on (girly stuff and whatnot) but once you actually start listening to him and don’t bother him with much info, he’ll turn into a jealous dude.

Guys are so easy to manipulate and it’s all their fault in the first place, so why should you feel guilty for using his own logic against him?

The more mysterious you remain, the more he’ll go gaga over you. Proven fact.

5. Mencionar casualmente o seu ex na presença dele

If there’s one thing guys absolutely HATE, it’s hearing about o seu ex.

They don’t care about him, they don’t have time to hear about him and they get irrationally jealous the more his name keeps popping up.

So start slipping his name randomly into conversations with him, regardless of you being in a group or one on one. It’ll bug the shit out of him either way.

If you’re having a conversation and you’re reminded of your ex in any way (maybe he was in the same line of business that’s being discussed or he lives in the neighborhood you’re at), don’t shy away from mentioning it!

Be totally casual about it, as if it’s just some random guy, and keep talking as if nothing happened.

Sempre que disser o nome dele, faça-o com um sorriso no rosto, como se isso lhe trouxesse de alguma forma grandes recordações que lhe são queridas.

I don’t even have to explain how jealous this is going to make your guy.

Tão simples, mas tão eficaz.

6. Diverte-te com os teus amigos rapazes

You’re probably going to run into him now and then, especially if you run in the same crew.

The next time you’re at a party and you’re with your guy friends, make sure he sees you.

And then, turn up the heat a bit. Flirt, flaunt what your mama gave you and laugh like they’re the funniest dudes you’ve ever met.

Ele precisa de te ver a divertires-te com outros tipos. Essa merda faz-lhes ciúmes mais depressa do que tu podes estalar os dedos.

You’re laughing, hugging and being your flirty self with other guys, are you kidding me? He won’t be able to stand that shit.

So use that against him. You’ll be completely innocent in the whole story and he’ll be all over you, making sure that HE’S the one making you laugh and he’s the one you’re flirting your ass off for.

If this is your boyfriend and you’re trying to teach him a lesson, consider it a lesson learned for him.

And if it’s a crush whose attention you’re trying to catch, job well done.

Now the ball is in his court and you’ll finally see if he’s man enough to handle your wants and needs.

7. Estar indisponível (não responder a mensagens de texto ou chamadas)

I know that the first thing you’ll want to do when you see his name light up your screen will be answering right away. But that would be a grave mistake.

You need to let him know that you don’t depend on him. You’re a self-made woman who is perfectly capable of being by herself if that’s what needs to happen.

He can call you or text you but you have to be unavailable for a bit to let him realize you’re not here to jump at his request.

Make him sweat. Make him see he’s not all that! And when you finally decide to pick up the phone and answer him, act as if it’s the most normal thing ever.

And when you meet up, don’t even mention it and if he does, totally brush it off. You were busy, you didn’t see your phone or your girl was around. He’ll get the picture.

Se ele mantiver tomar-te por garantido, you’ll keep reciprocating. He won’t like it one bit and the tables will turn in no time.

8. Começar a sair com alguém completamente diferente dele

Find somebody who is his complete opposite. Let’s say the guy you’re trying to make jealous is dark-skinned with dark hair, has a weird sense of humor and is into football.

Your goal is to find a guy who doesn’t resemble any of that.

A guy with light hair, who’s into movies and basketball and who has a very laid-back sense of humor.

Tanto física como emocionalmente, este tipo não é nada parecido com o tipo que desejas.

He’s going to start thinking you’ve completely changed your type and start panicking and wondering if he’s got a shot with you at all now.

Ele pode até começar a fazer algumas mudanças na sua aparência para te agradar e tudo isso porque te viu a sair com um tipo de homem totalmente diferente.

He won’t even know the nature of your relationship (nor does it matter).

All that matters is that it’s going to make him jealous on the inside and he’ll be more inclined to win you over.

9. Utilize as redes sociais para o lembrar do seu espírito aventureiro

He’s probably watching your every move on social media (we’re all guilty of that at some point) so take advantage of his watchful eye.

Post carefully-chosen photos that will make him go, ”Wow,” upon seeing what you’re up to.

Seja qual for a sua próxima aventura, capte-a com uma ou duas selfies enquanto brilha no seu melhor!

Fortaleça o seu espírito, participe em algumas actividades necessárias com as pessoas que lhe são queridas e faça coisas que o façam sentir-se em harmonia com a natureza.

Esqueça tudo o que está a tentar fazer-lhe ciúmes e concentre-se em si por um segundo.

Em toda esta confusão, esquece-se sempre que também é importante. A sua saúde emocional e física é a sua prioridade número um.

Faça o que for preciso para se lembrar disso e seja o seu melhor amigo.

Find comfort in the fact that he’ll likely see how rejuvenated, refreshed and damn joyful you look in all your photos and know that he’ll be jealous while you’re healing your heart.

10. Ir de férias com as suas filhas (NÃO com ele)

Your next few days off or whenever works for all of your girls, plan a girls’ trip somewhere where you’ll forget all about your problems and soak in some much-needed sun, fresh air and positivity.

Fale-lhe da sua pequena viagem e mostre-se tão entusiasmado como provavelmente está!

He’ll feel jealous that he didn’t make the cut and that he wasn’t your first choice for a fun getaway.

He’ll go out of his mind imagining all the hot guys you’ll probably encounter and flip out internally at the thought of some almost-naked dude flirting with you and making a move.

And that’s exactly what you want, right?

Clearly, if you’re involved, you won’t cheat or anything… but you’ll be far away from his sight and God knows what will go on in his mind.

You’ll see once you get back how overprotective he will be of you.

You’ll feel his presence in your life more than ever because he’ll have learned what it would be like to be sem ti and he won’t dig it. AT all.

11. Parar de escrever a meio do texto

Oh, Lord… this one will make him go bananas. I presume you exchange text messages every now and again, am I right? If not, maybe you could start.

And as you’re having a conversation, just disappear as you’re in the middle of a juicy topic that he’s clearly into and stop typing for like half an hour or so.

Make him want more once you see he’s biting.

He’ll be holding on to his phone, wondering where the hell you’ve disappeared to, dying to hear what you have to say.

And you’ll be having your little fun, knowing exactly what’s going on over on his side.

Estás a enviar mensagens a outro tipo? Está outro tipo em tua casa?

What the hell is going on over there and why aren’t you texting him back after clearly starting to type some shit?

Ciúmes muito? Let him lose his mind for a bit before casually hitting him back with an, ”Oh, desculpa, tive de tratar de um assunto!” and continue typing as if nothing happened.

12. Don’t react to his best moves

If we’re talking about your current boyfriend who’s started to take your awesomeness for granted, this one’s for you.

You won’t let his sudden flirting and attention make you forget all about his shitty behavior in the last few weeks.

So when he puts his best moves on you, don’t react. Remain indifferent.

Quando ele tentar convencê-la com as mesmas tretas que diz sempre, olhe para ele e diga ‘’You honestly think it’s going to be THAT easy? Boy.., you’re dead wrong’’.

Let him sweat and realize you’re nobody’s fool. If he wants para estar convoscoO Presidente da Comissão Europeia, o Presidente do Conselho da Europa, tem de ter sempre os pés bem assentes na terra, e não apenas quando lhe convém.

He might start thinking there’s another guy or he might start realizing the error of his ways.

Either way, he’s bound to make a decision about his behavior and a damn good one!

13. Compara-o com uma celebridade

Quer saber porque é que os homens ODEIAM as celebridades que acordam com um aspeto de um milhão de dólares?

Porque eles saber as suas filhas andam atrás deles, dia após dia, desejosas de os conhecer e de fazer todo o tipo de coisas com eles.

Now, I know what you’re thinking. It’s a celebrity, it’s completely unrealistic and harmless. What’s there to fuss about?

A lot actually! He knows he’s not Ryan Gosling. He’ll never have the body of Jason Momoa and he isn’t as funny as Ryan Reynolds.

Por isso, fere o seu ego e fá-lo sentir-se inadequado e desequipado!

This is exactly why you’re going to make sure to compare him to the hottest male celeb you could think of in a way that makes him see he’s not all that and if he wants to keep you, he better start acting like it.

It’s not about diminishing his self-worth or destroying his confidence. It’s about making him see that there are so many hot guys out there but you chose HIM.

And if he doesn’t start appreciating you and giving you the time of day, you won’t have a problem leaving him. You don’t want to do it… but if he makes you, it’s his loss and his fault.

Considerações finais

Encontrar, manter e preservar uma relação saudável e empenhada é uma tarefa difícil nos dias que correm.

Guys take girls for granted and expect to be treated like kings while treating them like they’re commodities.

And I believe it’s time to knock some sense into guys everywhere and let them know we’re not here to serve them and we’re certainly not here to put up with their questionable actions.

If he wants you, he best believe he’s going to have to make an effort to win you over and keep proving his loyalty.

Se não, há muitas maneiras de fazer-lhe ciúmes e fazê-lo ver o seu valor da maneira mais difícil.

If he’s not willing to put in the work, then he’s not going to get the privilege of loving you.

Felizmente, alguns tipos valem a pena e, quando lhes damos uma lição, eles aprendem-na e absorvem-na. E isto é para eles.

Browse through these innovative suggestions again and see how far you’re willing to go to give him a reality check.

Prometo que esta é a sua melhor hipótese de conseguir que ele se comprometa e a veja por tudo o que você é.

Esta é uma viagem de auto-exploração para encontrar o seu melhor e, ao mesmo tempo, fazer com que o seu homem a veja e a trate como a rainha que é!