Tudo o que precisas de saber sobre o contacto visual prolongado de um homem

I don’t know about you, but whenever I see a girl and a guy who are a legit couple or just started dating, I’m able to tell how much they are (or aren’t) fond of each other just by their way of locking eyes.

Regardless if you’re observing the special moment of prolonged eye contact in a movie or you’re experiencing it in person, you can feel the tension and sheer beauty of that moment.

Sentem-se como se o tempo tivesse parado e fossem as duas únicas pessoas que restam no mundo.

Suddenly, you don’t notice anything and anyone around you because that moment of prolonged eye contact shifts you to a completely different dimension.

It’s like your body starts producing electricity, and you feel like you’re going to explode or be electrocuted every second.

I could keep describing the power of prolonged eye contact for days, and still, I wouldn’t even cover half of it.

If you’ve ever experienced the special moment of prolonged eye contact from a guy, you have probably asked yourself multiple questions, and you’re still looking for answers.

Whenever a guy locks his eyes with mine for a few seconds, I can’t help myself but think: OMG, isto significa que ele gosta mesmo de mim? Ou talvez eu tenha alguma coisa no meu olho? Estou a imaginar coisas, ou isto está mesmo a acontecer?

Se eu pudesse parar de pensar demais por um segundo, seria a pessoa mais feliz do mundo.

If you also feel the same way (and even if you don’t), today you’ll learn everything you need to know about the power of prolonged eye contact and why guys do it!

Eye contact is a powerful tool when it comes to catching someone’s attention.

Pois é. Sabes aquele momento em que entras numa sala cheia de pessoas e há um tipo com quem acidentalmente fixas o olhar durante alguns segundos e depois finges que nada aconteceu?

I personally hate when this happens to me because it makes me feel vulnerable. Whenever I make prolonged eye contact with someone (especially a stranger), I feel like I’m naked.

It took me a while to realize that this actually makes perfect sense. The reason why I feel naked is because I’m literally staring at the other person with my bare soul.

They say that eyes are the window to the soul, and now I realize how true that cliché actually is.

Now let’s get back to that moment when you enter a room full of people, and that one guy is making prolonged eye contact with you from a distance.

Your body and mind start giving you mixed signals, your body language “goes wild,” and you can’t get rid of that warm feeling filled with anticipation and tension.

You continue acting as if nothing happened, but inside you’re burning from the desire to FIND OUT exactly why this happened.

Was it intentional or by accident? Is it possible to experience prolonged eye contact with someone you’re not interested in?

Here’s porque é que um homem usa um contacto visual prolongado consigo:

O contacto visual prolongado é um sinal de atração intensa.

Yup, ladies. No one in the whole wide world would establish intense eye contact if there weren’t the slightest trace of attraction, affection, or whatever you want to call it.

These things don’t happen by chance.

Regardless if you’re in a relationship, dating, or they’re a complete stranger, the reason why he used prolonged eye contact is because algo o motivou a fazê-lo, e que algo é a atração.

Existem diferentes tipos de atração, e tudo depende do grau de conhecimento mútuo.

If you’ve never met each other, your eye contact won’t be that intense, but still, you might experience those cheerful butterflies in your stomach and the feeling of warmth.

O contacto visual prolongado pode ser outra forma de definir o amor à primeira vista.

Dizem que as almas gémeas ligam-se através dos olhos. Duas almas reconhecem a sua alma gémea ao fixarem os olhos. Pessoalmente, nunca o experimentei, mas alguns dos meus amigos e outras pessoas próximas já o fizeram.

They described the feeling as being struck by lightning. I hope to experience the same thing one day. Till then, I’ll just say that eye contact is definitely one of the most powerful things in the world.

If you’re in a relationship, intense eye contact symbolizes deep trust, a powerful connection, and ultimate affection.

Há muitos things he’s trying to tell you by using prolonged eye contacte um deles sente-se grato por o ter na sua vida.

It’s when his love for you is so powerful that he can’t express it in words. You can see in his eyes how much he loves you without him even saying a word. When I was in a relationship, this was my favorite part.

I would lie next to my partner and look him deeply in the eyes for hours. Sometimes we would start laughing after a few seconds because staring at each other’s souls is not as easy as it seems.

É preciso coragem para sermos abertos e honestos uns com os outros. É preciso tempo e paciência para nos relacionarmos uns com os outros a tantos níveis.

If you’ve just started dating, intense eye contact is a surefire sign that your romance is evolving.

Pode esperar que o contacto visual intenso aconteça no primeiro encontro, no segundo ou no décimo. Aqui não há regras. Cada romance desenvolve-se ao seu próprio ritmo.

Por isso, se acabaram de começar a namorar e já tiveram momentos especiais de contacto visual intenso, este é um ótimo sinal de que o vosso romance se está a transformar em algo mais significativo.

It is a sign that you’re developing a strong attraction toward each other, and it’s only a matter of time until you’ll become a legit couple and start saying those three words.

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O contacto visual prolongado é também um sinal de confiança.

Já alguma vez encontrou uma pessoa tímida ou alguém com baixos níveis de auto-confiança a olhar para si? Pode acontecer por vezes, mas as hipóteses são muito reduzidas.

So, if a guy makes prolonged eye contact with you, this also means that he’s self-confident. You may not think of it at first because you’ll be too busy thinking about other things like Does he like me or not?

Veja as coisas desta forma: This confident man wants you to notice that he’s looking at you.

If he weren’t interested in you at all, he wouldn’t bother looking at you. It’s as simple as that, so no need to overthink it.

Agora, permitam-me que expresse o meu apreço por homens autoconfiantes que sabem como demonstrar afeto.

I personally think that there’s nothing hotter than that. When a guy gives me that intense look, I can’t help myself but instantly shiver (of course, if I like him back).

Here’s an interesting hypothesis: You might not be aware of the fact that he’s self-confident, but you know it on a subconscious level. So, maybe that’s the reason why you start liking that one guy you wouldn’t notice under regular circumstances? Hmm…

I’m not a relationship expert, but I know one thing: O contacto visual intenso pode estragar a sua vida ou torná-la num conto de fadas.

You cannot know which one of the two you’ll experience until you connect with them on a deeper level.

Aqui estão alguns FACTOS interessantes sobre o poder do contacto visual:

Sabia que manter o contacto visual incentiva os outros a serem mais honestos consigo?

Se alguma vez tentou mentir a alguém olhando-o nos olhos, então sabe como é difícil, se não impossível, fazê-lo.

There is something interesting about it. When we don’t look someone in the eye, we find it easier to lie to them.

But when we do, we suddenly feel as if their soul is judging us through their eyes. It’s funny because it’s true.

O contacto visual ajuda os outros a lembrarem-se das suas palavras e acções.

Quando estabelecemos contacto visual ao comunicar, isso ajuda-nos a recordar tudo o que dizem ou fazem durante uma conversa.

Porquê? Provavelmente porque fixar os olhos torna a conversa mais significativa e memorável.

Se quisermos saber o que uma pessoa está realmente a sentir, os seus olhos dir-nos-ão.

This is my favorite fact. We often rely too much on other people’s body language but somehow keep neglecting what their eyes are telling us.

If you ask someone how they feel, their words can tell you anything, but you’ll know the truth when you look into their eyes.

“Eye contact is way more intimate than words will ever be.” – Faraaz Kazi

Indeed, eyes can tell us when someone likes us (or dislikes us), when they’re happy or sad, and much more.

Os olhos podem dizer-nos coisas que as palavras nunca serão capazes de dizer. É preciso ter um coração aberto e honesto para conseguir fixar os olhos em alguém e permitir-lhe ver a sua alma.