Uma rapariga com o coração partido não é mais do que uma mulher destemida em formação

Caro rapariga de coração partido,

Sei que o teu coração está a sofrer com a dor, mas preciso que te lembres de uma coisa: tudo o que sentes agora vai passar em breve.

I’m not saying that your love will cease but that aching pain in the middle of your chest, that anxious lump inside your stomach, they will go away.

I know you’re trying hard to look normal when you’re around other people.

You even joke around. You make funny faces and say that things are going to be all right but the moment you’re left alone, your face becomes sullen.

A tua mente está inundada de coisas que não foram ditas e sentes o enorme peso de um amor não correspondido. O amor não correspondido mudou-te. Remodelou o teu ser.

It showed you that life isn’t what you expected it to be. It’s just some weird combination of unpredictable feelings and things you can’t control. Things like love.

We don’t choose who we love. We can’t control our innermost feelings. They’re just there.

But there’s one thing everyone can do.

Pode mudar a sua perspetiva da situação em vez de mudar os seus sentimentos.

You can grow to realize that life doesn’t have to be dark because you didn’t get the love you thought you wanted. Notice how I said you pensamento que querias.

I know it’s a touchy subject but I have to say it: Not everything you want is always what you need.

Por vezes, a vida tem formas estranhas de nos fazer ver isso. Por vezes, utiliza as más experiências como um redireccionamento para algo melhor.

When our heart is broken, we’re forced to look at our deepest parts with complete awareness.

Quando o nosso coração é partido, podemos ver qual a parte de nós que é mais afetada.

It’s like scanning your soul to find the weakest part you need to heal.

Quando digo curar, quero dizer aceitar e aceitar.

A aceitação total de nós próprios é o que acaba por curar tudo.

That’s why we need to be fearless. We need to be bold. We need to realize that knowing our Achilles heel gives us an advantage.

Don’t quit when you’re in pain and when you feel hurt; keep pushing and get a reward from it.

There’s not one person who doesn’t have what we call weaknesses.

Our weak spots make us human. Your feelings, even the ones you feel now, are what make you human. It’s all a wonderful gift of life but it takes time to realize that.

So many times, those weaknesses become our greatest strengths—if we only let them be. Vulnerability is shunned but everyone is hungry for it in other people. Escolher na mesma.

Mantém-te vulnerável, apesar do que os outros dizem.

Do things only from your heart and see how every decision you make will be in complete accordance with yourself. That’s where your true strength lies.

As mulheres fortes são as mulheres cujos corações foram partidos mas optaram por continuar a amar na mesma.

When you’re sure in your heart then nothing external can move you; you become fearless.

Torna-se uma pessoa capaz de sobreviver a tudo, sem nunca se sentir amargurada.

You become a person who always knows that everything in life is happening for a reason. That’s why you continue to anticipate the next chapter of your life with happiness.

Precisamos de ter o nosso coração partido para nos podermos reconstruir em algo ainda melhor.

We need to have our heart broken to make room for all the things we’re capable of.

We need to have our heart broken so we can see what we’re made of and finally realize how magical we truly are.