1. não lhe telefonar e não lhe enviar mensagens
Sei que tem vontade de lhe contar tudo e de o fazer sofrer, mas isso é a pior coisa que pode fazer. A regra de ouro é não lhe telefonar e não lhe enviar mensagens.
If you do text him or even worse call him, he’ll think that everything’s like it used to be, and you’re still that silly woman, begging for an apology.
Don’t do that. You have to let him know that he hurt you, but you’re not mad at him – you’re disappointed.
Yelling on the phone will only have a countereffect, and you don’t want to confuse him or make him think you’re desperate. You’re not.
You’re perfectly aware of what happened, and you have every right to be disappointed. Yelling will only mean you’re mad at him, but if you ignore him, he will soon regret what he’s done to you.