10 coisas que um homem inseguro faz à mulher que ama

Começa como um maravilhoso conto de fadas! Ele faz-nos acreditar novamente no amor e que nem todos os homens são maus. Compra-te presentes e dá-te toda a sua atenção.

Until the moment you start to notice that the amount of attention he’s giving you isn’t really healthy.

At one point, all of your time and energy is being devoted to telling him how much you love him and reassuring him that you won’t leave him. Dear, your man might be insecure AF.

Há homens inseguros à nossa volta e, para saber se o seu é um deles, listámos 10 coisas que todos os homens inseguros fazem:

He doesn’t have a life outside your relationship

He’s the kind of guy who’s simply sitting at home waiting for you to come back.

Well, this might be an exaggeration, but the biggest sign of insecurity is if he’s devoting all of his time and energy into your relationship out of the fear of losing you.

It’s cute and all, but to not have any ambitions and dreams besides your partner and to not hang out with anyone but them is a bit strange, don’t you think?

Ele fica ciumento muito depressa

Acabou de olhar na direção de outro homem (pode até ser o seu bom amigo) e ele fica com ciúmes imediatamente.

You know how women get jealous when they’re insecure? Well, it’s the same deal with men.

No início, isso pode fazê-la sentir-se querida e especial, mas pode chegar ao ponto de ele fazer uma cena por ter ficado uma hora mais tarde no trabalho para terminar um projeto.

Ele até fica com ciúmes por causa do tempo que passas com os teus amigos em vez de passares com ele.

 Ele acusa-o de traição

Pode até falar das suas ex-mulheres e de como elas o traíram, dizendo-lhe que nunca será feliz.

Desde acusá-la de ter um caso com um colega de trabalho até dizer que está simplesmente à procura de alguém melhor do que ele.

He’s paranoid even of the way you smiled at the waiter.

He can’t take criticism

If you try to tell him that he’s being overly attached and that his behavior isn’t OK, he might turn it all against you.

If you tell him that you need some time on your own, that he’s being too possessive and that he needs to calm down, he might do just the opposite.

Because insecure people can’t take even the nicest, most constructive criticism. They simply can’t handle it when people point out their flaws.

A felicidade dele depende de si

It’s OK to be sensitive to the feelings of your partner but his feelings completely depend on you!

If you’re happy, loving and caring toward him and if you’re devoting all of your attention to him, he will be happy, too.

If you’re trying to finish something for work and you have a lot on your mind, so you have to be alone to finish all of that, he might simply get depressed and/or angry at you.

Ele sufoca-nos com atenção

It was cute at the beginning of the relationship but now it’s just getting weird.

He spends so much money on gifts that you’re sometimes worried if he just spent his entire salary on you.

He’s trying to make you feel bad about the thought of leaving him and he’s trying to buy your attention.

Ele diz-te que te ama de imediato

Out of the fear of losing you, he admits his ‘undying’ love for you. It takes time to get to know someone enough to actually feel love for them.

It’s not a feeling you develop after just two dates. It needs time to fall for someone.

You’re his world

You’re the center of his universe. Toda a vida dele gira à tua volta.

At first, it’s very flattering because you feel very special, but what if you decide to leave him? His world falls apart.

He falls apart because you’re his one and only world.

Ele precisa de validação constante

He wants you to tell him how much you love him and that’s he’s worthy of love. He wants you to talk about what your future will look like, to take away his fear of being left.

Por vezes, as suas necessidades vão mesmo além disso.

You might tell him how good he looks in his new shirt but he simply won’t believe you. You need to constantly remind him that he’s attractive to you.

Ele quer ver o seu telemóvel

He will ask for your phone when he sees that you’re texting someone. He might even look over your shoulder if you’ve smiled while answering a text.

He will constantly think about how you’ve found someone better and that you’re going to leave him.

Even if you show him everything, he will still think that you’re hiding something.