10. Despertar o seu instinto de herói
Okay, this one will probably trigger many feminists out there, but here is the harsh truth: you have to make a guy feel in charge if you want him to chase you. No, I’m not telling you to become a submissive woman who listens to his orders – that would turn him off as well.
I’m just advising you to let him be the man. The best way to do this is to despertar o seu instinto de herói.
Todos os homens têm a necessidade inata de proteger as mulheres de quem gostam. O teu homem não é diferente.
Ele quer que o vejas como o cavaleiro de armadura brilhante. Quer ser o teu salvador, mesmo que, na realidade, não haja nada de que precises de ser salvo.
But, hey, let’s keep the magic alive. Imagine that you’re in a fairytale, and from time to time, you act like a damsel in distress.
Ask for his advice, let him help you with little things, and show him that he’s the first person you call whenever you’re in trouble. He’ll appreciate the feeling he gets when he’s with you, and he’ll chase you even more.
